A guy asked my best friend on a date.She said no so he asked me.I said yes so we went out to the seventy's dance.She came in wearing a sexy dress and stole my date.He liked her dress so much he forgot about me.My friend stole my date.Should i still be friends with her.
2007-03-23 02:44:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is no question of still being friends. The incidence shows u were never friends.
I would say she did you a big favour by stealing ur so called date because if a guy forgets u seeing somebody's dress. he is not worth your love or ur time on a date.
So chill and be at the same level woth ur so called friend. She did u no harm, only a favour.
2007-03-23 02:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Wizjp - they did you a favour. I doubt it was HER DRESS he liked; unless he's either gay or studying dress design... or both.. lol...
Friendship is about respecting each other's space. Giver her lots of it - LOTS AND LOTS - you don't need friends like her. However, that said sometimes friends make really STUPID mistakes and after some time and space you grow up and realise the guy wasn't worth the fight. Only you can decide. Personally I'd say let them have each other, but hey - I wasn't there, and it was just a dance... or was it?
2007-03-23 09:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how important her friendship is to you. You need to tell her how much you like the guy. If she means a lot to you, all in all, you should never let a guy get between you two. Besides, the guy was a jerk for leaving you stag at the dance anyway. You deserve better than that.
2007-03-23 09:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by shere143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears by you accepting a date with him after he asked your friend made him a competition between the both of you. You knew already that she was his first choice but you went ahead and accepted a date with him even though you were his second choice. She learned to disrespect you for this. Although I agree she did not behave as a good friend should, she obviously did this because she felt resentful you went out with him. You and her need to talk about setting rules and standards in regards to the men you both date. Next time, date men who ask you out first, don't settle for being second choice. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-23 10:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she "stole" your date (on purpose!!) then, no, you shouldn't be friends, because friends care about your feelings. The guy...don't even think about him...he's not worth it, so let her have him!!! And learn a lesson: don't be second place for anybody, you deserve better.
2007-03-23 10:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by AMANECER40 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone needs friends like that; but it sounds like she did you a favor; they deserve each other.
2007-03-23 09:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by wizjp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be because the guy only asked u out becuase your her friend...he knew it would make her jelous and she would want him.....hes the *** i wouldnt lose a friend over that
2007-03-23 09:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he using you to get to her, I would talk with her before making you decision
2007-03-27 08:01:36 · answer #8 · answered by Larry M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she is your true friend. Stay away from both of them.
2007-03-23 10:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have a nice catfight with her. Meow!
2007-03-23 09:53:58 · answer #10 · answered by Timothy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋