Mimka, your husband is trying to pull a fast one on you......you are entitled to 1/2 of everything that has been accumulated during the marriage including: cash in bank, retirement, property. Go pull yourself a big wad of cash out of the bank before he does. He owes you plenty.....and get yourself a good attorney to prove his as_ wrong. He doesn't owe you an explanation? I think he's got this all wrong. I'd take him to the cleaners!
2007-03-23 03:24:56
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answered by Anonymous
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You are fooling yourself. NO a judge can not order or force him to go to marriage counseling. Which by the way is a complete waste of time and money. It's OVER better for you to get on with your life. Sad but very TRUE.
2007-03-23 03:26:37
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answered by Monty L 5
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I think there is more to this story. Anyone who likes being demeaned by their spouse should seek counseling. A judge will decide what you leave the marriage with and I think your husband is in for a rude awakening. I would not request counseling to make the marriage work but seek counseling for yourself to move on to healthy relationships.
2007-03-23 03:34:16
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answered by pnut 3
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Wow it sounds like your marriage may be a little to far gone to save. However after 29 years of marriage and no pre-nup he owes you half of all the marital assets... so chin up. Maybe things will get better and if they don't at least you won't be out on your *** with nothing.
2007-03-23 03:26:13
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answered by Anonymous
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Sweetheart I hate to tell you this but it sounds like you are being too soft.He is saying you are entitled to nothing after 29 years of marriage. By saying that he is telling you your love and dedication means nothing to him. Wake up honey he doesn't care about you.You have spent 29 years worrying over him.Yes time does have a way of making people think.It also has a way of healing your broken heart. Forget about trying to make him love you sweety if he doesn't you cant make him. But you can make him respect you by standing up for yourself.
2007-03-23 04:06:38
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answered by gamble010676 1
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There is only one answer to this:
the answer given by "sunset". Do it; he does owe you after 29 years of marriage.
every single word that sunset wrote, you do it, girl, because if ya don't, he WILL.
You might love him, but he's gonna use that love you have for him to gain the time he needs to take everything and split. get to the bank first. Don't be left stupid and broke.
2007-03-23 03:27:57
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answered by Anonymous
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If you don't respond to the papers you will get NOTHING!!!!
He will have down what property he wants, vehicles, pension, insurance...etc. If you fail to file a response the judge will give him a judgment by default.
You are entitled to 1/2 of his pension, health insurance, LIFETIME spousal support, 1/2 of ALL property.
Get a lawyer and stop burying you head in the sand.
2007-03-23 03:25:17
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answered by Anonymous
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mid life crisis Maybe?.. I would not sign until you get an explanation that you can work with. Is he interested in working it out? And are you able to go to counseling w/ w/o him? You need to take care of you first!
2007-03-23 03:39:12
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answered by Rebecca A 4
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First go get yourself an attorney, Its silly to think you should stay with some one who does not want to be with you. And he does owe you 50% of all your assets. Get legal help fast!!
2007-03-23 03:27:17
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answered by Barry W 2
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He makes your life complete by saying he owes you nothing?
There has to be more to this story.
2007-03-23 03:24:04
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answered by Anonymous
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