Can I get a girls point of view plz?

Question

I met a 25 yo girl at church last month. she seems confident and she keeps wanting to start a conversations with me.

She asked for my email and phone number one night which I politely gave her so she can send me additional info on the group which she did. why did she need my phone number?

Last week when she was leaving church with her friends she told me we can have coffee to discuss anything. I took no notice at the time.

Last night I saw her at church gathering. We made about 5 silent eye contacts in which she keeps looking away. She started small talk with me again. During the night I notice we kept making silent eye contacts. She would look away quickly. but when she was leaving she hardly gave me a nice goodbye like she did with everyone else.

This girls actions are confusing...

Answer 1

Maybe she's shy and is waiting for you to make the first move...or....she's a weirdO!!

Answer 2

There is no doubt whatsoever that she does not have a thing for you but does not express it to you because she may feel that it is not the right time. Getting your contact information and having small chats with you and inviting you to have coffee with her sometime is a clue that she is into you but does not want to make it obvious. It will be up to you whether you choose to get to know her more as a friend and just that or maybe more, it is how you feel about the situation and it does not seem you are bothered by her flirting with you, so she did not say good-bye to you one night, maybe she was discussing something with someone else that she did not quite agree with or she might be having problems outside of the church that she does not want anyone to know about, but if you really interested in her then you will go and talk to her if not then tell you that you are not interested reguardless of what her intentions are. You never know you that invitation for coffee might lead to something.

Answer 3

Trust me church girls are the best, way to go.

It does sound like she likes you, but maybe as only a friend (?).
You can not know unless it is brought up...

If you are not the type of guy to dive right in (I am assuming you aren't, which is a fantastic thing) become devoted to a good friendship. SIt by her at group (make sure you go, she did take the time to email you), go for coffee after church, attend the same Bible study as her, ect. Then, dive in; ask her out-out, diner or a movie, whatever you would both like.

Oh, about her quick exit, maybe she had some place to be. Do not ever, ever, ever, ever, ever jump to conclusions (like she ran off because she didn't want to say good-bye).

Answer 4

Dude i think ur action is more confusing. Wht do u want actually. U gave ur phone no and u r asking y she would need that? She was interested in u so she asked u (n u also step ahead)but later when she asked u out u didnt bother to give her anotice. But Y? That's why she understood that u r not interested in her so she is moving out now.Whts so confusing abt this? Decide ur self wht do u want actually n then talk 2 her wht does she want from u. Silent eye contacts is not a big deal. Be clear from ur side.

Answer 5

She likes you !
\Most girls like to try and grab your attention and once they know you are attracted to them, they will do things like not saying goodbye to you or becoming offended by something small thta you do or say, so that you pay them more attention and sit there thinking why didnt she say goodbyeeee whyyyy oh whyyyyyyyy **CRY**
lol
but my advice, keep everythng the way it was, be nice, make eye contact, keep talking. just dont look concerned when she doesn say goodbye or she's with another guy
pretend you dont care and you just like her as a friend. that pisses her off and she will then try and get close to you if she likes you hahaha
but yeah man, you'll never understand girls ofcourse

Answer 6

THIS GIRL LIKES YOU!! go have coffee with her. if your nervous talk your group from church, then move into another topic. as for the eye contact then looking away she's probably shy. Good Luck

Answer 7

I'll tell you what each thing means

tries to start conversations: I need to talk to some1 who cares
wants email: I wasnt to send you letters
wants number: I want to know if you trust me with it
coffee to discuss anything: I want to spend time with you
silent eye contacts: I can't keep my eyes off you
look away quickly: I don't want you to think I am a gauker
left without saying good bye: I want you to say bye to me

now you decide what she is telling you

Answer 8

She likes you. Accept going out to coffee, set up a time and place and GO. If she asks about your life and things you like and all that.... she likes you. If she keeps the entire conversation based on these groups.... she likes you only as a friend. Good luck

Answer 9

Guys point of view.....

She is "totally" into you. Make a move. Invite her out. Women act the strangest when they really like you but are afraid to show it too much. Especially in public around people you both know.

Sounds like she's getting frustrated with your lack of attention. Go man go!

Answer 10

She's wants more than conversations from you, but just doesn't know how to correctly go about it. Instead of her always trying to initiate something, why don't you go up to her and start a conversation. She's probably nervous and may be afraid of getting rejected. But approach her and see where it goes.

Answer 11

She's not confusing....she's a girl!! Stop the when, why and how and go talk to her and find out how she feels about you. She's probably upset because you don't take the first step!! She's 25...I guess you're older (??), so don't be afraid and just try...that's life, take the chance. Good luck.