Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

For anyone who has gone through divorce & separation. How did you cope, i am having difficulties focussing on work, i feel restless and I dont understand why he didn't go to counselling with me, didn't he love me enough to do it? Any tips would be great, i am trying to be busy but I just have this huge hole in me that cant be filled. Everyday seems harder i wake up feeling like crap.

2007-03-21 11:51:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay heres the deal. Im gettin pritty lonely, I havnt had a gf in a long time. Not to be vain but im a good looking guy and I guess I got a personality. I always see girls looking at me. Im trying to figure out how to get a gf, like the places to go an stuff and how to know if a girl is lookin for a relationship or just checking me out. Kinda trying to get into girls heads, not neccicarrly pants haha. Any help?

2007-03-21 11:51:07 · 5 answers · asked by T 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf was forcefully engaged, please help.

My bf and I have been in love, and he had told this to his parents.
However, they were against this relationship.

Now when he went back to India, his parents told him that they had already chosen a girl for him and IT HAD BEEN ANNOUNCED to the relatives.
Worse, the engagement ceremony was scheduled for the next day!

My bf kept on calling me and told me everything that was going on, and I talked to his father also.
But what he told us was just that it had been announced, and there was no way to get back....

Anuj called me even just before going to the engagement, saying that we would be together...

Now, he is engaged, and it seems really difficult to break it as the matter is getting more and more open and known to more people.

What can we do? How can we break the engagement? (Anuj is afraid of any damage, physical assault to his family in case he breaks the engagement).

Please help us out urgently.
Thank you.

2007-03-21 11:50:29 · 39 answers · asked by AnujGuptaGF 1 in Weddings

I've been married for almost 3 years. For 2 yrs I have avoid sex for as long as I can. It really hurts his feelings. I love him and I enjoy everything else. I just don't want sex. Why?

2007-03-21 11:50:14 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She dumped me because I had sex with her mom and best friend at the same time
>:(

2007-03-21 11:50:05 · 22 answers · asked by Kevin G 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 11:50:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is mainly directed to all of you married couples out there...Please list the top three things before marriage, and, now as a married couple, what you believed and now believe to be the most important factors to a successful relationship.
Reasons why you chose them, and or possible experiences (yours and or others), which lead you to the top three, now and then, would be a great help as well!

2007-03-21 11:50:02 · 7 answers · asked by Patience 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my man decided the other day that we should split up because he's not ready for a relationship right now. so why is it you think that he continues to call me and want to talk to me, plus he still wants to see me. i ask him and he says he just wants us to stay friends, but i want to know ur opinion, for any of you who have done this tell me why. because as far as it seems we're still together but yet we're not? if u can give me some input i would greatly appreciate it. we were almost to 8 months next month. thanks men!

2007-03-21 11:49:33 · 12 answers · asked by MariLin♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

A guy proposed to me many years ago and told me that I should marry him because I'm not getting any younger! Oh yeah and I guess he is! What an idiot!

2007-03-21 11:49:24 · 7 answers · asked by JEFFAVEGRL 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you dating someone you CAN NOT/WILL NOT marry?
I, personally can not see myself doing something like that.
Just wondering... Thanks!
~Joanna

2007-03-21 11:48:27 · 9 answers · asked by FanofJrSrand29 2 in Singles & Dating

friends say they heard him say "u know the girl (my name)" but i think he was saying i like him because everyone in the school knows i like him... i also think he likes because he starts passing notes with me....and during a presentation for school around 6:00, he would try to talk to me ALOT.

and today at luinch, he asked me for this thing i told him i'd bring and he's like "ok thats cool" but he sounded all scared. before he came up to me, i saw him looking at me a little and his friends, then like 8 mins l8ter he came....

ALSO: when he found ou by my x-friend, his reaction was a "ok and a blush" THANK YOU SO MUCH!

2007-03-21 11:48:01 · 7 answers · asked by Dezzi;Babbyy; 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 11:47:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I think I like this guy. but i think i like this other guy too. I am soo confused. they are both great guys. but i can't like like 2 guys. what if one of them asks me out?? what would i say??? Help me out here...PLEASE!

2007-03-21 11:47:37 · 3 answers · asked by Nameless 2 in Singles & Dating

If you were going somewhere big eg. formal/Prom??

2007-03-21 11:47:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went on to find, 'fun and games' with a 21-30yr old, Female.
What I got was a 14 yr paraplegic boy.
The sex was disappointing..!

2007-03-21 11:47:13 · 10 answers · asked by Moorglademover 6 in Singles & Dating

I have tried to get my partner to go to marriage counselling with me for the last 2 months of hell married life. The problem is that he agrees but all these conditions have to be met by me. Has anyone had this experience or has anyones partner refused, what happened to the marriage?

2007-03-21 11:46:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm just asking

2007-03-21 11:46:41 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley J 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 11:46:40 · 7 answers · asked by Rhianna 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been living out of a car and lying to everyone at home and nopw my dad, lil sister, and niece want to come see me over spring break. I have no choice but to tell him how i have been living....How do you go about telling people that love you that you are living like that?

2007-03-21 11:46:32 · 17 answers · asked by Tracey 1 in Family

I went to a strip club last night and had a few dances with a girl. She seemed to really enjoy it, should I go back, I think she likes me.

2007-03-21 11:46:14 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been living out of a car and lying to everyone at home and nopw my dad, lil sister, and niece want to come see me over spring break. I have no choice but to tell him how i have been living....How do you go about telling people that love you that you are living like that?

2007-03-21 11:45:57 · 24 answers · asked by Tracey 1 in Family

is it wrong to admire what your looking at?

2007-03-21 11:45:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi, i need some high vocabulary words. please help if you can, and under sources put you name?! thank you

2007-03-21 11:45:56 · 1 answers · asked by Stefanie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if everytime you turn around hes living with another girl but when i tell him i ready to get marry he says stupid stuff like he doesnt want to get married in america as though he is making it hard because he doesn't want too

2007-03-21 11:45:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Reading sexy, somewhat dirty letters from your special friend or writing the same to your friend.

2007-03-21 11:45:19 · 5 answers · asked by don 6 in Friends

2007-03-21 11:45:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just broke up because of me. but she was cheating on me, and now i want to go out with her cousin. I dont want to hurt her but i want to make her feel bad for doing it. Should i care

2007-03-21 11:44:49 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ve traveled & lived in alot of places & i will say Americans both black & white are the MOST RACISTS people i ve ever met.They always worry about what people think about them when they are dating someone outside their race.4 heavens sake even the Germans re not that racist.i lived in Europe & people there don't care who you re sleeping with.Even south africans who ve a much more painful history of black & white fights are moving on together as one.It's beautiful to go to South Africa & see how much further they ve come working & living side by side as a human race &trying to let by gones be gones(bare in mind apartheid there ended in 1990).Let God do the punishing.God will judge the evil doners..
I'm sick of people trying to make me feel guilty for hanging with people outside my race. And i'm sick of some white people wondering why i'm not bitter.why should i be.it's sad.The sad thing is even the young ones are racist both black & white grow up. Remember this land is a free for all.

2007-03-21 11:44:37 · 6 answers · asked by good_but_naughty_gal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf was forcefully engaged, please help.

My bf and I have been in love, and he had told this to his parents.
However, they were against this relationship.

Now when he went back to India, his parents told him that they had already chosen a girl for him and IT HAD BEEN ANNOUNCED to the relatives.
Worse, the engagement ceremony was scheduled for the next day!

My bf kept on calling me and told me everything that was going on, and I talked to his father also.
But what he told us was just that it had been announced, and there was no way to get back....

Anuj called me even just before going to the engagement, saying that we would be together...

Now, he is engaged, and it seems really difficult to break it as the matter is getting more and more open and known to more people.

What can we do? How can we break the engagement? (Anuj is afraid of any damage, physical assault to his family).

Please help us out urgently.
Thank you.

2007-03-21 11:44:14 · 27 answers · asked by AnujGuptaGF 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i know this girl that i don't know tell we but we talk online and stuff. shes liked me for a while but i know shes going to ask me out soon but i don't know how to say no because shes a good friend, but just not my type to what should i say to her without sounding to mean

2007-03-21 11:43:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating