Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

well let me tell you hes so hot but theres an age diffrence and hes in masters committion for those who havent herd of this its where you devote 9 months of your life to god so he can use you, anyways heres my proablem hes always gone and i never get to see him hes like my llife and yeah hes my crush but every1 is saying hes to old hes only 18 years old i mean hes a real hottie the only thing is i'v always tried to get notticed by him like going to partys hes at or shelters hell be at i mean like i'll be there just wanting to talk to him but i'm speachless to his hottness gurls if you see him youll melt so what do i do how can i talk to him help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-21 12:18:57 · 1 answers · asked by lol love to laugh 1 in Singles & Dating

We had a great sex life before I got pregnant (hahaha, who doesn't?) But after my 2nd child the sex has almost came to a hault. In 5 1/2 months my husband and I have had sex about 3 times. Is this normal?!!? I have lost almost all my baby weight and I am confident that I am not hideous. However, my husband has gained about 60 lbs in 3 years. Does this affect his sex drive/self-esteem? I do not care what his weight is (well, I want him to be healthy). I am still sexually attracted to him. And no there is not a chance of another woman. I talk to my husband several times over the course of a day and he comes straight home from work and we always go places together...always. Unless there is a place to have sex with a co-worker in a steel mill...ewww. But I have never had any reason to believe there is something else. (no weird cell #'s, girl smell on him, doesnt go out without me, doesnt act mean to me, etc etc.) HELP! I want to enjoy my life as a woman in her early 20's!!!

2007-03-21 12:18:34 · 22 answers · asked by I <3 my boys 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i need to find out what legal rights i have as a father, internet site or organisation i can phone tomorowo.

2007-03-21 12:18:33 · 5 answers · asked by deltagremlin 5 in Family

...and have opposite work schedules. he calls, usually once a week and emails too. we did go 6 wks w/out seeing each other over the holidays due to our schedules, but to make it up he took me on a really nice overnight outing. he always pays for e'ything and is very sincere. a few weeks ago i sent a letter saying that i'm not one to hang on just to hang on and the fact that i don't know where we stand is probably my answer. there have been several emails since then with the most recent being one where he told me that he was married for 1 1/2 yrs and it wasn't final until 2 mos before we started hanging out. she left him and as a result he obviously doesn't want to go there again. so, i'm torn. understandably he never told me this, but nonetheless he didn't tell me and i feel like that's a big deal (granted i probly would've run for the hills had he told me early on) but what else isn't he telling me? then again i feel bad for the guy - it's not exactly something to be proud of. advice?

2007-03-21 12:17:15 · 3 answers · asked by Hannah L 1 in Singles & Dating

It's like every guy that is interested in me has another gf or wife and it just sickens me. But at work there was this one guy that caught my eye. He was funny and sweet, one of those guys you no is a little shy but can cover it up with his cute smile. And yes he has a gf, but u see he is lives on another caribbean island and that's where she is, this guy is only working here for a few years. So of course he tells me he's in this dedicated relationship with a girl back home but at the same time he tells me that he likes me a lot, mainly because of my personality. So I start to realise he only makes and effort to see me if s** is involved but even then he is still sweet to me we talk about our past and I even ask him stuff about his gf. But when I try to take him out he doesnt have time. So we get in this argument and he tells me that"this is what i didnt want to happen, it seems you are falling to deep in this thing".

2007-03-21 12:17:00 · 21 answers · asked by *~Nikki~* 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont really want her to know I was going to kiss this one guy and I told her that she would find out when it happened. But now she's mad at me cuz I didn't tell her. what can I do?

2007-03-21 12:16:55 · 15 answers · asked by im_smrtical93 2 in Friends

what it takes to be unfaithful?

2007-03-21 12:16:46 · 3 answers · asked by robinsonliliana 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a similar problem. I met a guy I like. I've actually never been kissed before. He complimented me and I froze. We haven't talked in 2 months. I feel really bad.

2007-03-21 12:16:17 · 2 answers · asked by Kitty91 2 in Singles & Dating

My Fience and i are both firefighters and we think that it would be very cool to ride away in on the back of a fire truck. and we think we are going to have our ushers be the members of our fire department. right now we are on different fire departments because we live in different towns. this is realy all we have thought of. we would like your imput on this stuff

Thank shope you can help

2007-03-21 12:16:16 · 13 answers · asked by Firefighter_2003 3 in Weddings

I was in Dunkin Donuts today, and I was sitting down drinking my coffee and there was a woman sitting at the other table, and I am sure she was starting at my crotch. I got up to leave, and she started staring at my crotch again.

I have never seen a woman do that before. Do all women secretly do this?

2007-03-21 12:16:08 · 12 answers · asked by Joseph 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 12:15:34 · 31 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

It doesnt have 2 be with just one event.
It can be anyone, family, friend, lover, stranger,whatever

2007-03-21 12:15:28 · 19 answers · asked by Dark Angel 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

theres this guy i like & we have like everything in common,he admitted to me he liked me & i told him i like him too,but he said he wants to take it slow & get to know me better since we kindaa just met.just after we told eachother that we liked one another we both went inside to talk to everyone at a party & in the corner of my eye i could see him staring at me so i looked over he smiled i smiled.we love the same music & listen to it in his car & sing it together & have fun plus hes affectionate to me like in his car he patted my leg & put his hand back on his wheel smiling a little,kinda sending me a signal im glad your here.we dont see eachother alot so one time i saw him at a party & gave him a hug & he said hey baby & he seems really happy when he first sees me.but theres one problem he just doesnt call.he told my bestfriend he doesnt make the first moves.im not leechy but i call him to hangout.i know hes busy because he works alot.why isnt he calling me to hangout if he likes me?

2007-03-21 12:15:25 · 2 answers · asked by emeralcoastsurfgirl101 1 in Singles & Dating

I have erotic feelings for her and I don't know if she really likes me
as a friend or as a lover.Still,since we r flatmates a wrong movement would ruin our relationship.I am trying to guess from her gestures what's goin' on.When we tease eachother she really likes to rub my head and in general she treats me in a funny way like a baby.What might that mean?

2007-03-21 12:15:18 · 1 answers · asked by dblackjohn 1 in Singles & Dating

i just went through an ugly break up after a year and a half. I've had relationships that lasted longer, but I've never been in love the way I thought I was with this person. My recovery IS coming along; the fact that she was not at all the person I thought she was helps. In fact, it's as though I was just meeting her for the first time the day of the breakup. She was very cruel, very unfair, and her 'reasons' were bunk. I'm finding myself hung up in the anger phase right now. In fact, I hate her guts, but enough about her. I'm looking out for number one now. I really just wanna get her out of my mind and feel whole again. This anger's doing a number on me, though. How long would you say it should take to feel human again? It's been 2mos. since the breakup.

2007-03-21 12:15:16 · 3 answers · asked by aquaman2964 3 in Singles & Dating

I just got back from Hawaii and the day My fight came in, my friend left on a plane to Hawaii!!! I am insanely jealous even though i was just there a few days ago!! Is it still ok to be jealous?

2007-03-21 12:15:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay i'm getting married and i asked my little bros girlfriend to be in it. me and her are good friends but she is feeling a little akward cuz she doesn't want to ruin the wedding if they break up. she thinks it would be akward for us to have her in all the pictures if they have a bad breakup. is she right? should i have her in there anywayz???

2007-03-21 12:14:10 · 8 answers · asked by Kyra 1 in Singles & Dating

There is mutual interest and attraction between us but we're still getting to know each other and have not made any decisions on dating. Do you tell someone before you go out with them or after you decide to date? I want to be viewed as a woman and not a mom. My kids are teenagers and I don't bring guys home and sleep with them, much less pick up random guys.

2007-03-21 12:13:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, we broke up 6 months ago , cause we had major issues, and it was over...
our relationship was 6 months long, and in that - we said we loved eachother however she acted differently - tough she said she loved me - We broke up in between - she had this one man (in her mind) and 1st when we broke up - 2 weeks laer - she dated the guy i hate for about 1 week...
After the break up-
3 months ago, dec when i was in NYC to meet her, she point blank also said - No, i dont want to meet you...

Day- Before : we had A huge fight cause we just ended up talkin - I yelled and abused her, and she did the same, well, we fought - and i told her i hate her.... next day she msd me sayin - yest she was just being nice by talkin 2 me, shez been over me for a few months now....

Yesterday: I saw her in the mall, she didnt know I was there - she was with 3 guys, and one foreign guy, and the foreign guy and her seem to be smiling at eachother 24/7, and I even saw him put his arm around her and

2007-03-21 12:13:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

how far should a 16 year old couple go physically?

2007-03-21 12:13:33 · 22 answers · asked by Clarissa 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, we broke up 6 months ago , cause we had major issues, and it was over...
our relationship was 6 months long, and in that - we said we loved eachother however she acted differently - tough she said she loved me - We broke up in between - she had this one man (in her mind) and 1st when we broke up - 2 weeks laer - she dated the guy i hate for about 1 week...
After the break up-
3 months ago, dec when i was in NYC to meet her, she point blank also said - No, i dont want to meet you...

Day- Before : we had A huge fight cause we just ended up talkin - I yelled and abused her, and she did the same, well, we fought - and i told her i hate her.... next day she msd me sayin - yest she was just being nice by talkin 2 me, shez been over me for a few months now....

Yesterday: I saw her in the mall, she didnt know I was there - she was with 3 guys, and one foreign guy, and the foreign guy and her seem to be smiling at eachother 24/7, and I even saw him put his arm around her and

2007-03-21 12:13:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i bought a dress at david's bridal and it is ivory with champaine (*sp) color trim should the bridesmaids and matron of honor wear pink or marron (*sp) and what should the flower girl wear??? i am stressed dont know what to pick or what looks nice it is for december the first an outside wedding in tampa, fl can u give me some suggestions please or web sites i can look at ........

2007-03-21 12:13:13 · 15 answers · asked by liz_bonilla2000 2 in Weddings

2007-03-21 12:13:08 · 8 answers · asked by lil_ralf92 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i like this guy and he like's me but we never see each other....we see eachother like every 2 or 3 weeks do u think we could make it work?????

2007-03-21 12:12:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey there, what happened was the following issue. My best guy friend (R.) and I have been best friends for a year more or less. He helped me out when i got past a relationship and I helped him out. But after that my nightmare starts. I've never liked to fall for one of my best friends, nore them to fall for me. But it happened with R. His way of being with me changed, thoe he always would say he wouldn't have changed. A lot of my other friend have told me he lookes at me in a different way, and his "I Love U" have growed a lot. I really like him as a friend. So when I found out he had a crush on me, before he would express his feeling, I told him I didn't wanted him to fall for me, that I wouldn't respond him as he deserved, he told me he got it, but since then he won't talk to me, nore answer my greetings, have I broken his heart? can we be best friends again? What can I do to make him talk to me at least?

2007-03-21 12:11:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My teacher keeps putting her hands on my legs and shes always making me stay after class...Then today she leand over and put her breasts like right in my face,, What should i do?

ps.im 13

2007-03-21 12:11:48 · 24 answers · asked by no wayz! 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a 13 yea old and im verry lonely can some tell me how to make more friends?

2007-03-21 12:11:46 · 15 answers · asked by philip h 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 12:11:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i recently saw a question about someone talking about sensitive guys and it seems like most the females who replied liked either tough guys or half and half, well i don't think i have that tough in me =( well what's a tough guy like? i mean what does he do or say? i don't really understand. because tough in my own definition is maybe someone who talks back a lot or has a lot of muscle and acts tough.

do you girls like tough guys because they protect you or what? i mean seriously, what do they protect you from? i got this girl in my mind but i dont' think she needs protection at all, most hte girls i know don't need some because they are smart and mature enough to make the right decision on things, and it's just a bit wierd.

well yeah, what about a tough guy?

2007-03-21 12:10:59 · 19 answers · asked by LD 3 in Singles & Dating

i went out with a group of girls and had what i thought was a great time. It has been two weeks since and they seem to be ignoring me? i tried initiating contact and they seemed ok but they dont seem to want to initiate the contact? what the hells going on it that little mind of theirs?

2007-03-21 12:10:38 · 17 answers · asked by Hard Doodle 1 in Singles & Dating