okay i'm getting married and i asked my little bros girlfriend to be in it. me and her are good friends but she is feeling a little akward cuz she doesn't want to ruin the wedding if they break up. she thinks it would be akward for us to have her in all the pictures if they have a bad breakup. is she right? should i have her in there anywayz???
2007-03-21 12:14:10 · 8 answers · asked by Kyra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sound like she doesn't really want to be in it. If they aren't a serious couple who have been going out for over a year, don't include her.
2007-03-21 12:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess it depends how old your brother is and if they are in a mature relationship. I personally wouldn't do it because most likely they are going to break up, messy breakup or not. He'll always remember her when he looks at the wedding pictures. And so will you. Just think about it. Are you having her there because she's your friend or because she's your brother's girlfriend?
2007-03-21 19:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by Kim H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel you will always be friends despite their possible break up? If the answer is no or maybe then consider someone more important to you. L
2007-03-21 19:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by LUCY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if your having trouble figuring this one out, you are probably too young to get married yourself. Sounds very juvenile.
2007-03-21 19:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by Millionaire in training 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, shes must mean something to you to have her in the wedding. would she be there if she wasnt seeing your bro?
2007-03-21 19:17:11 · answer #5 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's your choice, your wedding... if your relationship with her is strong... and it's not going to bother you if her and your brother breaks up
2007-03-21 19:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by lala15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her in there if you want her in there. Its here and now and everything is ok now.
2007-03-21 19:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mary 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure,,,,u 2 are friends right? why not
2007-03-21 19:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by igottadrive2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋