It's like every guy that is interested in me has another gf or wife and it just sickens me. But at work there was this one guy that caught my eye. He was funny and sweet, one of those guys you no is a little shy but can cover it up with his cute smile. And yes he has a gf, but u see he is lives on another caribbean island and that's where she is, this guy is only working here for a few years. So of course he tells me he's in this dedicated relationship with a girl back home but at the same time he tells me that he likes me a lot, mainly because of my personality. So I start to realise he only makes and effort to see me if s** is involved but even then he is still sweet to me we talk about our past and I even ask him stuff about his gf. But when I try to take him out he doesnt have time. So we get in this argument and he tells me that"this is what i didnt want to happen, it seems you are falling to deep in this thing".
2007-03-21 12:17:00 · 21 answers · asked by *~Nikki~* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's using you for sex but it's because he likes sex with you. Take the good and the bad out of that. But he has a girl friend and he is absolutely clear that you are not taking her place and you are not going to take her place in his affections. That is bad for you. What is good for you to realize is that somewhere, this girl probably really loves him and he's an absolute cheater. No prize. Not for anybody! Leave him alone and move on; you deserve better.
2007-03-21 12:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya. You're a grade A tool for letting this happen. Don't worry though, plenty of other people suffer the same scenario. Move one.
Next time, leave a guy with a girlfriend alone. If you REALLY want him. Then explain he will have to let his old relationship go BEFORE he can even think about going out with you. If he likes you enough, he will accept. If he wants to be a lady-juggler then he will just move on and try to find a ditsy girl who he can take advantage of.
2007-03-21 19:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by ninjitsumeiyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are being a fool. He is using you for sex and if he really has a girlfriend and didn't just tell you that he is cheating on her.
There are plenty of guys without a wife or a girlfriend...find one.
Let this be a lesson: Don't think a guy (a cheater) will dump his wife or girlfriend for you if you have sex with him...you don't have anything they don't have and even if he did he would cheat on you the same.
A cheater is a cheater.
2007-03-21 19:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by Intelfem7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he definitely likes you, but you must go away from it, he gives more value to the time and the relationship he has for his gf, if something happens with you, he might regret it later because of her and hurt you, and anyway one day he will leave when his work finishes, so if you don`t want to get hurt, you must go away from him, he seems dangerous for your head, but if you like him and you`re not very into him, try to see what happens then, good luck!! ;)
2007-03-21 19:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Madison♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is unwilling to leave hes girlfriend to start a relationship with you then all he wants is sex without strings attached. I would steer clear of this one and ask yourself why you always seek out guys who are already in committed relationships perhaps its an indicator of a bigger problem in your life.
-Plenty of single guy fish in the sea Switch up your bait
2007-03-21 19:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know If I read everything correctly but from what I'm reading I think you should just make different decisions. He doesn't sound too good, personally to me. I hate guys that are shady or are not honest to other people. You deserve someone who'll want YOU to be their main focus, on not a secondary option.
2007-03-21 19:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jacquelineceee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN!!!! Leave that man alone. He just wants sex and that's all. He wants you be a friend wink-wink only when he needs you. Your not a fool. Just try to associate yourself with single men. Do Not I repeat Do Not have sex with him because if you do then you will be in a world of hurt after he tosses you to the side for his g/f.
2007-03-21 19:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by aquaqwetty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are a fool to sleep with a guy who won't be around for more than a couple of years and who has a girlfriend. "Funny, sweet" men don't use women and cheat on their girlfriends. Losers do.
2007-03-21 19:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont try to get with him. He has a gf and how would you feel if a chick was tryin to get with your guy it would hurt and you would be pi**ed so just start going out and find hot SINGLE guys
2007-03-21 19:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off! He's only looking for an "oil change" and "grease job". There are lots of guys out there. Go find someone that is worthwhile and unattached.
2007-03-21 19:22:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋