I have been living out of a car and lying to everyone at home and nopw my dad, lil sister, and niece want to come see me over spring break. I have no choice but to tell him how i have been living....How do you go about telling people that love you that you are living like that?
2007-03-21 11:45:57 · 24 answers · asked by Tracey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i agree, as a parent i will do anything for my kids. just call!
2007-03-28 06:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by Rey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you love them and miss them and would like to see them. Tell them that you made some poor choices or that your boyfriend made poor choices and you have ended up in a bad situation. Tell them you didn't say anything before because you were ashamed. Good things could come from being honest even if your pride will take a hit and it will be hard for them to digest at first.
2007-03-21 11:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by iceemama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to your dad and tell him the truth about everything, you shouldnt have to be living out of a car. Then maybe you can live with your dad or some of your family and they could help you out. Because they love you and are going to be very disappointed if you dont go to them for help. I know they wouldnt want you to live out of your car. that is not the kind of thing you should do. but you should really go to your dad for help. and i really hope you do and wish you luck
2007-03-26 20:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by key to your answer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell your parents that he got you kicked there your parents they love you no matter what be straight forward and honest with them. If it were me and a guy got my daughter thrown out i'd string him up first of all then do all I could to help her. They will help you and if anything they will be pissed off for not telling them so if they ***** let them, turn on the water works and you'll be home free.(Ha, Ha) Had to try to make light of it. It'll all work out just keep the faith.Good Luck!!!!!!!!
2007-03-29 04:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by mamadukes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love don't pay the rent. If this guy had any respect for you he would not have you living like this. I would not be worried about what my family thinks I would be more focused on the fact that I have sunken so low as to be homeless and would stay with a guy like this rather then go home to my parents.
2007-03-27 02:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be courageous enough to speak to them from your heart. Straight up truth is what they will need to hear. Hey, we all mess up once in awhile. Let them know you are able to admit to your mistake and intend to move on. You will find the right words and exactly how to say them. They say blood is thicker than water. Your family, if they are a true devoted family as one hopes they are, will not hold any ill toward you. In fact, they should be eager to lend a hand in some manner and never once say "I told you so". I wish you only the best in the future.
2007-03-21 12:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by Catie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all if your boyfriend got you kicked out of where you were living and he is not providing you with a real place to live it sounds like you need to get yourself a real man, tell your family the truth and move in with them, dump the loser and go on with your life!!
2007-03-27 04:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by littlemama882003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you living out of your car? My parents would have been the first people I would have called if I got kicked out. If you really love them, you have to be honest with them and explain the situation. (Whatever it is) If not, open the trunk and let them come in.
2007-03-27 08:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by God Bless America 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is of course the best policy. Let them know the situation and what happened. You have to realize that you can't do everythign on your own, and I am sure that you family wants to be there to help you in any way that they can.
Good Luck
2007-03-29 02:58:52 · answer #9 · answered by michy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your father if you can come home for a while because you are having a slight problem at home, and he will say something to you and all you have to do is tell him then, don't let him find out from other people especially your dad.
2007-03-28 17:00:35 · answer #10 · answered by reddie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick pride to the curb and communicate the need for guidance.
2007-03-21 12:09:12 · answer #11 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋