I just broke up because of me. but she was cheating on me, and now i want to go out with her cousin. I dont want to hurt her but i want to make her feel bad for doing it. Should i care
2007-03-21 11:44:49 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you insane enjoy your freedom
2007-03-21 11:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, my story, she went with my best friend. And yet i had feelings for her, and that just ended up hurting me more. Honestly, if you the kind of guy, like me, where you always want to resepct the girl, then your kind of cornered. Going out with her cousin... well, most likely your X will make lies about you, so you will have to be ready to dicuss alot. As long as you know her cousin well, and she knows you well, there isnt much of a problem there, but dont make it seem like your only dating the cousin just so you can throw it in your X's face.
2007-03-21 11:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's mean. If you did love her, you should never think that way, I mean making her feel how painful it was. As far as you're concern, you knew that she was a cheater, but if what you felt for her was true, you could forgive her and actually not hurt her anymore.And about going out with her cousin, is that serious thing or you just want to hurt your ex? and use her cousin at the same time?
2007-03-21 11:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by mushy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was cheating on you heck do anything to get her mad because cheating is a real bad thing GO AHEAD GO OUT WITH HER COUSIN! That makes me mad when someone cheats on me! Do whatever you want but she deserves to be hurt like that!
2007-03-21 11:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by snowyday_06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is really mean to go out with her cousin just to make her mad. Think about her cousin and her feelings. How would see feel about this? I'm sure that if she did that to you, than you would probably feel really upset. Also, you need to think about your ex-girlfriend. I'm sure if you were a girl and your ex-boyfriend did that to your cousin, you would be really mad. I think you should tell her how you feel and maybe she will go out with you again. But if she's cheating on you, than you should go out with her cousin but only if you have real feeling for her. I hope that answers your question.
2007-03-21 11:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by Neffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you should always at least attempt to care. even if it hurts you do not repay that with hurt. That is really paying it forward in a wrong way. why don't you just move on, deal with the pain of loss and just wish her a happy life. Move on without hurting intentionally. it is not what will make you happy you see... and dating her cousin just to hurt her is not showing much of your character to be honest. You can do better than that I believe. Although I do understand the feelings of revenge and anger and hurt. But still.... ask yourself what exactly is the benefit of hurting instead of moving on? Not just for her but for you most of all! :)
Good luck:)
2007-03-21 11:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she was cheating on you then clearly she didnt care about your feelings so y should you care about hers? just wait a few more days or a week or something before you go out with her cousin so you dont get the reputation of being an ***. but definatly go for it and have fun!
2007-03-21 11:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by pinkgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the swinging-vine dilemma...finding a rebound or slump-buster or transitional person. Do you just not want to hurt yourself that's why you are moving on so soon after a breakup? Or are you truly interested in this other girl? Don't rebound on another girl...it wouldn't be fair to you or your ex gf or that other girl... Your ex did cheat on you, but that is her prob, not yours. I'm sure karma will come back to bite her in the a&&. I think it is common to hurt if you see/know that that other person is not sad/hurting over you as you are them.
2007-03-21 11:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by Noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeh, know need to get vindictive. If the cousin and you like each other, then explain it to the cousin and both of you should confront her. Tell her your feelings for one another and she cannot say much after that.
2007-03-21 11:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by safetec13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you actually care what a cheating b*tch thinks. Go out the the cousin, but do not do it for revenge.
2007-03-21 11:48:05 · answer #10 · answered by Sparky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let her control your actions, do whatever you want to do, unless you are going out with her cousin in spite, but it doesnt sound like that so go for it!
2007-03-21 11:47:33 · answer #11 · answered by anwermate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋