Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

know its a weds night but i feel the need to indulge hubby went down to surgery for 12hr this am and have just got back from seeing him he's doing great and looks great its another step forward to him being well again hope ya'll all join me :-)

2007-03-21 13:09:41 · 3 answers · asked by kj 5 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you feel about women who get???

1. Breast Implants?
2. Butt implants?
3. Dying hair?
4. Wearing wigs like Jessica Simpson, JLO and Beyonce to change your looks for fun?

2007-03-21 13:09:14 · 4 answers · asked by Ins2 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 33. I have never had a girlfriend. But I want to ask a girl out. But I am not attractive-looking. How do I ask a girl out if I am downright ugly looking?

2007-03-21 13:09:05 · 17 answers · asked by NJboy 3 in Singles & Dating

We've been seeing each other for about 4 months. We kiss for hours, we have s e x and sometimes he gets so hot he comes almost immediately, but other times he is able to last a long time. He tells me I really turn him on and that he likes me and enjoys my company. He has broken plans with his friends to be with me like twice. He has driven like 2 hours to come to my house and when he does he spends the night and cuddles all night. Whenever I'm at his house he practically clings to me and doesn't want me to leave, he wants me to spend the night. We also do stuff like watch tv and movies and go out to eat. But he tells me he is interested in another girl and really likes her a lot. So what is going on? Is he crushing on me? It sounds like it is more than just sex, doesn't it? I'm confused!!!!!!!

2007-03-21 13:08:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like my best friend. But he told my other best freind that he might love her. What do I do? help!

2007-03-21 13:08:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I get so annoyed at these white girls that try to look exotic by wearing traditional clothing,

They are trying to be something they are not - exotic.

It's better to look plain and white, than to look plain and white while being something your not.


White girls look plain no matter what they try to do, so the least they can do is maintain their dignity.


Won't white girls stop trying to look exotic, they only look rediculous.

2007-03-21 13:07:56 · 12 answers · asked by Indian Tigress 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my wife are currently seperated she is living with her parents I love her dearly and dont want to lose her. She has a problem letting go of the past I will admit that I was a jerk in the early part of are marriage but I have since gotten help and have changed. She has a fear that I will change back into my old self . She is also scared that she dosent make me happy at all Iam happy but she will not listen to me she says it might end in divorce it will crush me if it does what can I do please someone help me Iam scared and lonley and I need some help please

2007-03-21 13:07:32 · 19 answers · asked by camsamjam04 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex girlfriend has been contacting me alot recently.i still have feelings for her but dont want to think she might want me back.we get along well as friends but the contact lately has been very frequent.im starting to get a feeling she might want me back.i know this is probably my mind playing tricks on me.what should i do??tell her to stop contacting me??? just go with the flow and see what happens???how would i know her intentions if any??? do girls always have an hidden agenda when contacting an ex???

2007-03-21 13:06:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been her friend for along time 10 years , but If something in my life is going on she tells her other friends everything in my life .... Then she always tells me I am crazy , like she means it too . I always say , well I know I got issues but im not flipping that crazy . Im sick of it , her being mean to me . So should I just stop talking to her , I dont know how to talk to her about it without her flipping out , or unlike her I dont want to hurt her feeling. what would you do ?

2007-03-21 13:05:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hey ok heres how it goes down.my boyfriend loves me more than i like him but i told him that i love him so i dont no wut to o help me please

2007-03-21 13:05:38 · 10 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering!!!!

2007-03-21 13:05:25 · 3 answers · asked by Naila 5 in Singles & Dating

How do I ask a girl out and not have flaking occur? I have gotten blown off like every single time i've asked a girl out!!! what needs to happen to make a girl more serious about going out with me and not being "too busy" instead???

2007-03-21 13:05:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would it be better for my 4 year old son to be living w/me 4 hours away from his dad(my husband)or for us all to be living together in this situation?...It's his idea for us to move away for awhile to save $ & b/c we don't see each other much b/c he's always "working". I have found good reason to believe he's seeing someone when he's supposedly working. Do I try to make it work w/my husband (he says after awhile we can move back when he stops "working" so much) no matter how I feel(not being able to trust him, not knowing what he's doing, etc.)or do I just end it & move on even though it means my son won't see his dad very much at all? I don't want him to grow up & think this is how a "family" man should act, but I don't want him resenting or blaming me for splitting w/my husband & him not having his dad around much. I also want him to feel secure & stable. If he's been cheating, though, & not really "working" on weekends, then he's been "cheating" on my son, also.

2007-03-21 13:05:02 · 6 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

people ask questions for advice not to get dissed by some jerk who cant handle their own pathetic life [i am sorry if you are one of them]

2007-03-21 13:03:50 · 23 answers · asked by EMILYY SUP! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this guy that I've always thought I liked, for the longest time. When I think about it, he seems like this perfect, well-rounded person who's just ... perfect. I mean, even his flaws seem to be ok with me. That SHOULD mean I like him, right? However, I've been seeing signs lately that tell me he's not the guy, and maybe ever was. He's a very practical person, who shows little emotion and doesn't bother to talk to people, even though he's got tons of friends. I, on the other hand, am a hopeless romantic. Opposites like this won't attract, and I wonder if I'm wasting my time on him. I've tried to get over him for a really long time, but it never works. I can't even tell what he's thinking, becuase we just went to a dance together last week, and now he hasn't talked to me at all. Please comment and tell me what you think I should do. Forget him? or continue to do what I've been doing forever? and Why?

2007-03-21 13:03:41 · 5 answers · asked by miisty 3 in Singles & Dating

Well lets see im am the exact OPPOSITE of quiet specailly at school im veryy loud..Then I relize that I guess the way I am its not a great thing like I don't really think before I say stuff how much I can really hurt somebodys feelngs I like being talktive but that gets me in troble so should I try being more quieter since I cant really control my actions?? ADVICE!!?

2007-03-21 13:03:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

like traits, looks, hobbies, anything

it's just no guy likes me i have had boy friends but they always dump me in a week and i want to know what is wronge with me and want to see what most guys want in a girl

2007-03-21 13:03:04 · 3 answers · asked by blah 3 in Singles & Dating

do you have any stories? spill it...............

2007-03-21 13:02:51 · 13 answers · asked by kirsty s 2 in Singles & Dating

how exactly do u kiss a guy?? like 2 get into the mood??

2007-03-21 13:02:23 · 3 answers · asked by fuzzy_bubbles_13 2 in Singles & Dating

from tennessee is over, he is one year older [hes 14] and when we were outside he got a b o n e r. i was not flirting with him, ewww, i was being kind of a b i t c h because i am not happy about them being over. but now i am REALLY disturbed. yuck yuck yuck. he is still over, along with the rest of their family, and i dont know what to do. please help me.

2007-03-21 13:01:53 · 6 answers · asked by Eeeeek. 1 in Family

The guy I like likes me back. And recently I've seen him looking at this girl I hate. Not just "Oh she's in my way" kind of looking, but LOOKING at her. The same way he used to stare at me. So I am on the line of not liking him, but I know that there's a chance. When I first met him, he liked her then, but I think he started to like me after that. Now he's switching between us. The other day I saw him looking at her the same stare he gave me (but, I don't think she was looking at him since she was talking to someone else) and then I caught him looking at me kind of guiltfully like "I didn't mean to." So, I thought I was over him, but I still kind of like him. The girl he (or I think he likes) is the complete opposite of me, and I hate her. Should I continue to like a guy that can like girls that are so different and is so indesicive he still can't make up his mind? Or should I just leave him liking the girl I hate?

2007-03-21 13:01:52 · 2 answers · asked by Isabella R 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a Cousin who is 20 years old. He has no girlfriend, he work at a low paying job, he doesnt go to college. and to top it all off he has no friends.My sister is the exact same way but she says since she has a boyfriend shes not a loser. Is this fair?

2007-03-21 13:01:44 · 19 answers · asked by torndrk 3 in Singles & Dating

Who ever, you are mean!!!

2007-03-21 13:01:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

when my mom told him she said he smiled, went on a different subject and then gave his phone #to my mom to give to me so does he like me?

2007-03-21 13:01:07 · 2 answers · asked by bubblegumgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

all my friends cut thenself and im really scared for then but i dont know what to do about itpleaze help!

2007-03-21 13:00:30 · 17 answers · asked by lynsiebrandon13 1 in Friends

recently i have been hanging out with this girl. i've kind of become like really good friends with her and can talk to her about anything. i was joking around with her the other day and she told me that she had a crush on another guy and asked me how to help her win him over!? i pretty much felt like **** for the next couple days becuase i had started to really have feelings for her. So i was wondering what you guys would do. she's really comfortable being around me when we're alone but she ignores me during school and acts really different. what should i do?!?!

2007-03-21 13:00:28 · 1 answers · asked by john b 1 in Singles & Dating

ok listen
i have a friend we've been best friends for a year now and i really like her and i told her i liked her
she told me she likes me to but only see's us as friends for now i want to be with her all the time but cant help it
now she has a boyfriend and we are flirting with eachother alot she drives me crazy her boyfriend has been treating her REALLY bad latley and now he's on my *** because i hang out with her more than he does and a month a week ago she told me i'm starting to act like her boyfriend and now were good again but not the same but now i just want it to be the same as b4 or even more............
should i just stay friends with her or go for it??????

2007-03-21 13:00:06 · 4 answers · asked by lococolombian22 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy in college and we casually hooked up. We lost contact after graduation for three years. He found me and we reconnceted. He came by and we got involved in hot and heavy foreplay...I mean...steamy...
When it was time to have sex, he couldn't get hard...it just wouldn't happen...we had to stop all together and rest a minute for it to happen...that was last night...this morning, he didn't have a problem...years ago when we were in college, the first two times we tried to have sex, he came really fast, within minutes...

Men, why do situations like these occur? Can't get a hard penis, *** really fast? I need some insight!

2007-03-21 13:00:06 · 2 answers · asked by Ins2 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so me and my mom dont get along AT ALL!!
Im 18 yrs old so I could move out at any time. The only thing is, I only mak 6 bucks an hour at my job and my mom pays for a lot of my stuff and Im still in high school.
I just cant take it anymore, Im so unhappy with living with her and I dont have any friends that I can move in with or anything.
Any advice at all???!?!
Thanks

2007-03-21 12:59:15 · 8 answers · asked by bArBiE 1 in Family

I told this girl that used to like me that i "have to have her" and i want her and i'm willing to do anything it takes to get her. Do you think this is a turn on or turn off?

2007-03-21 12:59:02 · 12 answers · asked by teddyk k 1 in Singles & Dating