I have a Cousin who is 20 years old. He has no girlfriend, he work at a low paying job, he doesnt go to college. and to top it all off he has no friends.My sister is the exact same way but she says since she has a boyfriend shes not a loser. Is this fair?
2007-03-21 13:01:44 · 19 answers · asked by torndrk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My cousin has lost his mother a couple months ago also, his father disowned him for reasons i cannot say. sorry for the loss of details.
2007-03-22 10:23:51 · update #1
Whatever don't look at them as losers I used to be called a loser then a became a local rock star.
2007-03-21 13:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, I don't get the 'Is this fair' part. Second of all, why does your cousin not have a girlfriend and why does he work at a low-paying job? Why doesn't he have any friends and why doesn't he go to college? This cousin of yours sounds like he needs a kick in the butt. Introduce him to some girls you know, and see if he likes them. Tell him to quit his job and look for a new one. Tell him to go to college to meet some new friends.Your sister, on the other hand, needs to talk to her boyfriend about it. This is a hard and confusing question. Hope this helps.
2007-03-21 20:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think that your cousin and your sister should get some help. Talking to family might help, and maybe they can join a group where they can socialize with others. If you're an outgoing person, introduce them to people you may know that share the same interests. The most important thing is that you be their friend.
2007-03-21 20:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by idkkk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just because she has a boyfriend doesnt really mean they r not a loser (no offense) but she still is a bit of a loser like ur cuz except he needs a bit more help socially. u should talk to both of them and help them out. hope this helps!
2007-03-21 20:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by ~ *Amber* ~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those things don't make him a loser. At least he has a job! Perhaps he's depressed and doesn't know how to talk about it. Just be there for him. Families are forever!!!!
2007-03-21 20:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok just because you are single dosen't mean you are a losser even at 20 yr old
second there are plenty of fish in the sea mabye he just hasen't found the right one yet
by the way i think it is great that you care about your cousin and this
2007-03-21 20:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by blah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least your cousin is doing something with his time and not being a deadbeat at home.. your sister is in the same position and has the potential of being knocked-up.. she's also probably overloaded with drama from her relationship.. basically, she's in no better position
2007-03-21 20:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by SRSLY?! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You be his friend. It seems like he needs someone, and you seem caring enough to give it a go. I hope this helps. Don't forget to smile.
nicole
2007-03-21 20:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well wait till your sister gets dumped and we'll see who the loser is then!!! Wah hah ha ha ha ha ha!!!
2007-03-21 20:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not fair! just because she has a boyfriend doesn't mean its a better situation at all, infact its almost worse!
2007-03-21 20:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by Professor Crazyass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋