There's this guy that I've always thought I liked, for the longest time. When I think about it, he seems like this perfect, well-rounded person who's just ... perfect. I mean, even his flaws seem to be ok with me. That SHOULD mean I like him, right? However, I've been seeing signs lately that tell me he's not the guy, and maybe ever was. He's a very practical person, who shows little emotion and doesn't bother to talk to people, even though he's got tons of friends. I, on the other hand, am a hopeless romantic. Opposites like this won't attract, and I wonder if I'm wasting my time on him. I've tried to get over him for a really long time, but it never works. I can't even tell what he's thinking, becuase we just went to a dance together last week, and now he hasn't talked to me at all. Please comment and tell me what you think I should do. Forget him? or continue to do what I've been doing forever? and Why?
2007-03-21 13:03:41 · 5 answers · asked by miisty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we girls like a challenge, it's kinda hot when a guy gives us mixed messages, or acts like he cares but acts cold and stand offish at the same time. we think hey this is a game, i persuade him and i win and i'm the hottest thing in the world. except, we're the only ones playing the game, and it's all in our heads. i'm just like you and i fell for that cold, articulated, smart guy. why settle for a guy like that? even if you win the game, you lose the battle in a relationship with only one pulsing heart. that's my take on it. watch how he treats his friends and picture yourself in their place, but as his girlfriend. my bet? you will forever be throwing your emotions at a wall.
2007-03-28 17:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am dealing with the same exact story right now and trust me all you need to do is talk to HIM about it!! i cant read his mind and tell you what he is thinking but he can tell you what he is thinking so please talk to him and be your self... flirt a little but stick with your goal.... get it out of him... you know it's there.
btw you have to be patient... the guy i am talking about was a guy i get to see only over the summer and i can only talk to him on sundays on yahoo messanger and e-mail!!! this takes Patients!! DON GIVE UP!!!! good luck
2007-03-21 20:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by .:Your Guardian Angel:. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally would just give up and spend my time trying to fine someone more compatable and someone that you could see your self with more so than this gentelman.
good luck.
2007-03-29 18:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my girlfriend said the same bout me...and ya no...it all worked out after we talked about it! just TALK!!
2007-03-28 18:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by lilshawty l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all...you MIGHT see a MAJOR chang in the way he acts toward you if you TELL him how you feel about him.....................................................................................................................................................................................................have you ever thought about that????
2007-03-29 17:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by luv11syng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋