why do people have to be so mean on this thing??

Question

people ask questions for advice not to get dissed by some jerk who cant handle their own pathetic life [i am sorry if you are one of them]

Answer 1

i completely agree
there are people who really need support
and they are just torn down

also
what makes me really mad
is when someone is comtemplating suicide
it pains me to see how many people are telling them to do so and telling them how to do it

Answer 2

What can you do? It can be disconcerting, I was just sent a message by someone who informed me that I was a NAZI, because she likes to keep her cat outside? Several reasons not to do this, but generally speaking, many people are just cruel, inconsiderate jerks, that revel in being able to abuse others anonymously.

My only advice to you is to kill these people with kindness. I do not suggest allowing others to IM you privately. If they want to make a complete buffoon of themselves, only allow them to do so publicly. And after that, just exude an air of grace and civility. When it comes down to it, just be the better person, if you decide that you want to acknowledge these people at all.

Your time and effort is better spent on those that antagonize you in the real world, and not those who like to start fights on here, due to their own personal problems.

Be good and take care!

Answer 3

Emily, this isn't the place to get advice on how to get some boy who is a "playa" to like you. It's not a dating service for adolescents so when you get responses that aren't particularly "helpful", you shouldn't be surprised.

You have to understand that most of the people on this service aren't youngsters and aren't really here to talk about boys and such. There are better sites for that. Perhaps you should consider one of them until your feelings are a little less fragile.

Answer 4

Some people ask really ridiculous questions just to get attention from other people, for example the question where the kid said his father stroked his stiff in the shower. Do you really think if he was 19 he wouldn't know that was wrong? Some people on this site are just idiots!

Answer 5

I genuinely love people and try to help in anyway I can by being honest and forthright with my answers.
Some of the questions are totally ridiculous and I avoid those.
I give a lot of thought to the questions I do answer and there is no need for being mean by anyone.
I totally agree with you.

Answer 6

I think people try to answer questions to the best of their ability and give their opinions on topics they have knowledge about...but when some of the questions that come out are so outrageous...it tends to bring out the beast in us.

Answer 7

Some people need to make other people feel small, embarrassed, inferior or stupid to make themselves feel better. Remember, you and only you control your feelings and don't let the small stuff get you down! Hang in there.

Answer 8

I try to be nice in my response but I do give my honest opinion. I am not going to lie when someone is doing something morally wrong and say it is ok with me if it is ok with them.

Good luck!

Answer 9

hi there their are all types of people out there do not get upset for what he said she said. be yourself just do not answer questions that you think are not worth your time. I really pay no mind if my answers are dislike for I do it cause I learn from others but we all have someone that never turns his back on us no matter what ( god) so just give him thanks for the good and the bad . god bless be well be safe

Answer 10

The majority of people on here are genuine. Dont let the minority of prats get to you, ignore them.