all my friends cut thenself and im really scared for then but i dont know what to do about itpleaze help!
2007-03-21 13:00:30 · 17 answers · asked by lynsiebrandon13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Alright my guess is that your still in school because I had this same prob at my old school. The best thing to do is go and tell the school nurse or your guidence councelor or somebody that you know can help. They could really hurt themselves so if you care about them get help for them. Tell the person that you don't want them to know it was you that you want to remain confidental and your friends will never have to know it was you.
2007-03-21 13:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by Meiko420 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are in school go to a trusted teacher or counselor and ask " what could i do if i have a friend that cuts them-self?" They will give you a list of choices, from which you could decide, If the situation is dyer which it sounds like it is...contact someone immediately so further self inflicted harm isn't caused to this person.
2007-03-21 13:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you could and if you think that they would really listen, gather all of your friends up so you can all talk to each other. Ask each of your friends why they cut themselves or what they're going through or what's happening in their lives that's making them want to do that to themselves. I might actually work. If that doesn't work or you don't think it will, you might want to get somebody else that has more experience with these kinds of things to talk to your friends for you and it might be able to cure it. I know some people who do that. I don't like it that much either and I really don't know why they do it and don't understand it one bit. I have been through some very stressing times myself but have never done that once to myself. I understand completely what you are going through to see your friends do that to themselves.
2007-03-21 13:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by arvettedude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a lot of courage to do the right thing and it appears you already realize that you can't keep their damaging secrets any longer.
You should write down a list of which friends are cutting. Make 4 or 5 copies. Give a copy to your parents, give a copy to the school principal, give a copy to a school counselor, give a copy to their parents.
You may lose friends, that is the bad part, but you could be saving them from years of self-mutilation and hurt.
2007-03-21 13:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by ssssss 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, this is SERIOUS. First, tell your friends u r worried 4 them. Request they see a therapist. If u r still in school or college, tell a teacher/adult. If u r on ur own, talk to a therapist or a doctor. The doctor can give them a call. Ur peeps may be mad, but soon they'll thank you for it.
2007-03-21 13:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lu_flies_hi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a college counselor you could communicate with approximately this. Any preparation you furnish to a counselor is meant to be private until eventually one is in possibility of inflicting harm to self or others. Your buddy truthfully appears like she needs prompt intervention, extremely with the alcohol abuse. the place are her mom and father? besides, the only ingredient you're able to do is communicate together with her and attempt to get her to speak to somebody. If she refuses then i might communicate with an person which you will have faith to intervene - which i might think of a college counselor ought to be of help. If she keeps in this direction issues can definetly worsen and grow to be an number of issues. You sound like a sturdy buddy yet do no longer attempt to take finished duty for buying her help. I strongly inspire you to speak to somebody who can probable help her.
2016-10-02 13:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should get another group of friends to hang out with!!! But if u want to help them but im sorry to tell u this but u really can't u can only do so much but it's up to them if THEY want to stop. Good luck
2007-03-21 13:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by Raquel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww im sorry! actually some of my friends did that too. this might not be the best answer but u have to find THE WORST POSSIBLE facts about what cutting can do to u, and tell them, expose them to the truth.
good luck!
2007-03-21 13:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to do the same thing... the only thing that stopped me was my best friend. he was always there for me.. w/e you do you CANNOT tell them that you are going to get them help because they will hate you forever.. but dont go around supporting them ..you know? just talk to them and tell them you can't stand to see them get hurt, at first they wont care (i didnt) then later they will listen... MOST IMPORTANT THING: BE VERY THERE FOR THEM!!!! ALL THEY NEED IS YOUR HELP RIGHT NOW!!!! good luck i hope this helped!
2007-03-21 13:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by .:Your Guardian Angel:. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must inform a teacher or the school doctor or their parents.
This is your responsibility.
This behavious is not normal and should be attended to by a psychiatrist
2007-03-21 13:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋