We've been seeing each other for about 4 months. We kiss for hours, we have s e x and sometimes he gets so hot he comes almost immediately, but other times he is able to last a long time. He tells me I really turn him on and that he likes me and enjoys my company. He has broken plans with his friends to be with me like twice. He has driven like 2 hours to come to my house and when he does he spends the night and cuddles all night. Whenever I'm at his house he practically clings to me and doesn't want me to leave, he wants me to spend the night. We also do stuff like watch tv and movies and go out to eat. But he tells me he is interested in another girl and really likes her a lot. So what is going on? Is he crushing on me? It sounds like it is more than just sex, doesn't it? I'm confused!!!!!!!
2007-03-21 13:08:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy has issues. You need to confront him right away about this, which is hard, but you've got to find out where you stand. Don't let him use you, even if it seems that he's being sweet and cuddly. You deserve a guy who's totally into you and can't think of other ladies!!! Have confidence in yourself and know you can do better than him.
2007-03-21 13:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by fleurhelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just a baby. Some are ready for committment at your age and some will never be ready. Talk to her and tell her that there is a good chance you want to break up. It is not right for you to treat her this way. Let her go. If it were ment for the two of you to be together, it will be. It is not right for you to be so immature and hurt her. Let her go.
2016-03-28 22:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no the guy is just doing whatever it takes to have sex with you. He knows if he does things a certain way he will get it from you. If he loved you he wouldn't even think of anyone else.
2007-03-21 13:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or maybe there is no other girl at all....He's just trying to advoid a comintment. But it is possible that you are giving him the one thing the other girl is not SEX
2007-03-21 13:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by G-Man67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes another girl, get rid of him before you get hurt! He's obviously just using you for when he needs you.
2007-03-21 13:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kim H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He likes your body
2007-03-21 13:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with danceing watever and then next person... he doesnt really really like you he is just useing you to get sex and crap like that...
2007-03-21 13:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by Meghan(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you for a booty call.
2007-03-21 13:12:52 · answer #8 · answered by margherita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋