I have been her friend for along time 10 years , but If something in my life is going on she tells her other friends everything in my life .... Then she always tells me I am crazy , like she means it too . I always say , well I know I got issues but im not flipping that crazy . Im sick of it , her being mean to me . So should I just stop talking to her , I dont know how to talk to her about it without her flipping out , or unlike her I dont want to hurt her feeling. what would you do ?
2007-03-21 13:05:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well u have to think about it , can you put up with her treating you badly all the time ? Talk to her about it & if she cares she will tell you that she is sorrry & If she is just mena then ditch her YOu have too much stuff in your life to deal with why bother being with ppl that are mean
2007-03-21 15:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by mommaknowsbest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive got a similar friend. Ive learned to just not talk to her about sensitive issues. If its just going out or something that I DONT need her advise on then I can talk to her until Im blue in the face.
Hope this helps.
:)
2007-03-21 20:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by Just A Newbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, realize that she is NOT your friend. An acquaintance perhaps but not a friend. In every single relationship, you must always examine the connection to see that what you get from it is worth the cost. This acquaintance appears to be a situation in which what you get from the relationship is not even close to the cost (emotional) to you. Stop talking and, if you can, tell her exactly why.
2007-03-21 20:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um if shes mean to you than she obviously doesn't really care all that much about your friendship. You have other friends right? My suggestion is to just drop her as a friend you don't need someone like that who is just going to bring you down and make you feel bad. Those kinds of people will always be like that they just don't change. You're better off without them. Good luck!
2007-03-21 20:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by Meiko420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend like this and I decided to keep a safe distance away......I won't be mean like ignore her, but if I have to talk to her I only talk about superficial stuff and nothing personal.....that works for me. I feel no matter how long you've been friends it does not give them the right to break you down. That's not a friend at all.
2007-03-21 20:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and tell her how you feel and try to talk about it but to be honest if it has been going on for 10 years i can't really see her changing. It is your choice to give her the chance of not. Good Luck.
2007-03-21 20:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur friend really did that to u don't even give her a second chance just tell her u can't have a friend that treats u like that and end of conversation
2007-03-21 20:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by Amy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP her like trash on the ground,girl you don't need to put up with this!Trust me I have been through this so many times with people who just can;t be comforting to friend during painful,or stressing times.
2007-03-21 20:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by KISSES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her how you feel she probably doesnnt know shes hurting your feelings if she does she changed and shes really not your friend anymore everyone deserves a reat friend who appreciates them
hope you find a good friend or that everything works out.Please don't be sad
2007-03-21 20:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I was in a the same situation not too ling ago with a 22 year friendship and i cut my ties friends are supposed to be there to help you not to put you down!!!
2007-03-21 20:10:44 · answer #10 · answered by gina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋