Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

well this is a long one.......... first off when i started working in this nursing home i saw a girl i was really attracted too. We didn't really talk all that much but i would say a few words to her here and there but anyway years after i quit my job i saw her on myspace and she is now married to some guy. I live in pa and she moved to north carolina with him, I keep having dreams about her and it's making me want to leave pennsylvania and go to north carolina to see if i run into her or something..........i don't know lol talk about wanting what u can't have right? I want to journey out anyway because i want to leave pennsylvania anyway what are your takes on all this lol?

2007-03-21 13:51:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you tell a guy I dont want to go out with him but nicest way possible I still want to be freinds with him ?

2007-03-21 13:51:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No lip service, that is for stupid people and I am not. I have a disability. I had a stroke at 23. Now at 28, I have been alone 4 too long. I have asked women on dates and always get the negative yes. The "yes" or insert positive response with the obligatory voice inflection indicating that is a really a "no". Be honest here ladies. Can a man who is not fully capable physically be found attractive? Can a man get past the initial stage and not just be a friend? I know that I am not the sum of my relational success, but it's getting old. I have too much life to live alone.

2007-03-21 13:50:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or both?

2007-03-21 13:50:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

someone i've been so in love with since fourth grade (and he's my best guy friend) is moving in a few days, he knew but didn't want to tell me until monday. that's when we had a fight =( i've cried a little and he's hesitating to talk to me, how do i move on and accept the fact that he's leaving?

2007-03-21 13:50:34 · 5 answers · asked by loveangel101 2 in Friends

My kids are ages 9 and 12, I don't mind the older kids over that my kids actually play with, but the younger sisters come over, too,(ages 3 and 4), and I wind up babysittting them. How do I ask their parents to only send their older kids over without upsetting or insulting them? Is it even proper etiquette? We usually have 8-10 kids over ages 3 to 11, only the 3 to 5 year olds are driving me to insanity. I used to enjoy them coming over occasionally-it's every day now. I want to throw up when I see the litttle ones at the door. Help please.

2007-03-21 13:50:08 · 6 answers · asked by Melissa C 1 in Family

ok there is this girl we were friends and she does not really like to talk to me but then i called her she was very nice and we were on the phone for hours i almost fainted i was freaking out that we were actually talking so does she like me or is she just being a really good friends cause i really want to become more then friends any advice would help plz

2007-03-21 13:50:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok this one boy i ABSOULUTELY adore now dosent seem to fully like me, but he still talks to me a bit....see the problem was that a few years he comepletely liked me but i never showed too much intrest in him since i didnt really like him that muchbut that was then.....anyways then one day he randomly stopped talking to me.....a little later i started talking to him at this party and he lightened up a little more .....and he still tries to flirt w/ me and stuff but he leaves a little while later to go hang w/ his friends...we both get jealous when we see each other takin to diffrent ppl, but he gets me a little emotional...anyways i just wanna have a better relationship with him...not neccessarily love me but show alot more interest....i miss being around him and want him to notice me more....


ANY ADVICE!!!!!??!?!

thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-21 13:49:13 · 4 answers · asked by zena12 1 in Friends

I'm waiting for the right guy. The guy i can laugh with and tell serects knowing he is trustworthy. My past relationships haven't worked out so well. My last relationship led to hate and harsh words....I'm waiting for 'the one'

2007-03-21 13:48:55 · 6 answers · asked by kaira biasu 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone have aol or yahoo messenger that I can talk to that's a Christain (but not worldly)?.......I'm 11..

2007-03-21 13:48:54 · 3 answers · asked by Andrew C 2 in Friends

I'll be 14 in 2 weeks and my last girl friend kissed me. I've been going out with this girl for two weeks. How long should we be going out before I go for my first kiss with her?

2007-03-21 13:47:54 · 10 answers · asked by Kyle 2 in Singles & Dating

How should a guy go about letting a girl know he likes her...and what gets her to like him? I already plan on making a little gift for her, but what else do you girls look for? I want to give her a good reason to feel the same way about me...

2007-03-21 13:47:23 · 9 answers · asked by Elminster 6 in Singles & Dating

and he said he didnt?

2007-03-21 13:47:11 · 7 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a bit of a do with an ex. He said that i had been just his f*** buddy. And was being abusive! So i gave him a few home truths and told him how disgusted I was that he could taint the time we had together. Then he said I was being nasty! And he couldn't cope with me hurting him so badly!!!
I was hurt, I put everything into me and him. I shared everything with him - all my feelings and stuff!
So now I'm left feeling very worthless and cannot start another relationship. I have tried but i just can't share any more!
I just don't know what to do?

2007-03-21 13:47:08 · 28 answers · asked by kiku 4 in Singles & Dating

My sister and I are twins. We're now going off to college and people have been asking us if we're gonna go to the same school? We're really close and we keep saying we probably will, but is it a good idea? Do you think we should try sometime on our own?

2007-03-21 13:46:18 · 9 answers · asked by MrsDunl34vy 2 in Family

By the way, i'm not sure why i can't talk to her, i just never get a chance to really talk to her in private. I'd just rather not let anyone else at school know yet. What should i do?

2007-03-21 13:46:11 · 11 answers · asked by nope 2 in Singles & Dating

So I'm planning on asking this guy to prom. What would be the best way to do this.

A) Act like I need a date and date and that he seems like a cool person to go.

B) Make it seem like I want to go with someone special and picked him.

C) Other =]


Details: We talk to each other and seem to get along OK, but we're not really close friends, I just talk to him here or there.

2007-03-21 13:46:05 · 5 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl and she knows it. I wrote her a letter and all and she said she kind of liked me too. I was about to start talking to her but a guy out of nowhere came out and started talking to her. I dont know what I should do. Should I keep fighting or just let it slip through?

2007-03-21 13:45:42 · 3 answers · asked by Cipher 3 in Singles & Dating

" Sence you will be having our Daughter for the entire easter weekend I think its fair that you by the dress and shoes "

I got a message back saying how dare me be so rude, my ex lied to the judge and he got child support set at 50 bucks a week ( that he sometimes pays ) so he said that is what child support is for that doesn't even pay the sitter per week and I found out he makes 60,000 and year and I make min wage for my state not federal min wage

We divorced after 10+ years cause he thinks he god and I dissagree to put it in a nut shell

2007-03-21 13:45:09 · 10 answers · asked by twistedsingle 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok see i have this guy friend he is one of my best friends ever!! but the problem is he says hes in love with me and that when he comes and visits me in cali he plans on try to marry me.........i like him too butt defintaly not that much!!! plus i have a bf who treats me really bad idk what to do!!!!! any advice??

2007-03-21 13:44:33 · 8 answers · asked by *meggie* 2 in Singles & Dating

i need a site or a organisation i can ring to find out my legal rights as a unmarried working father.

2007-03-21 13:44:25 · 9 answers · asked by deltagremlin 5 in Family

i really dont know how to start describing this question , i will try to make everything flow right now, so If there insult answers or something like that i will deleted so here I go /.......

I am having trouble to understand some behavior about Females....... I dont know how they want to make me think or feel , or how they can send a message to let me know what if means.. why Do females in some way want to make you confuse by telling you something that is not really true, I mean when they say yes is a no ... or when you ask someone out they say they are busy or not have time and give you a number but , when you call her she say she is busy and will call you back and never called.......When you feel they are interested they simply like you as a friend... How to really understand this behavior is what I want

I respect Women and no offense , .......

2007-03-21 13:43:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really do not know wut to do, so if u hav any helpfull advice, please do share it with me!
i really do not know how to get a guy to like me and dont say "like lift up ur shirt" because that is not ahelpful answer! i dont want to sound conceited, but i am fairly attractive. i am very nice and caring. ppl say im very funny. music is a very big part of my life, im a performer. i just dont understand wut i can do to hav a gut pay attention to me instead of my friends?? wut r some thigns u can say to a guy to hav them stop wut they r doing and say "wow, i never realized how much i like her" im sorry if this is a stupid question but every suggestion will help!! thank you!!!

2007-03-21 13:43:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a hard time finding things to say to people. My friends can start a conversation with pretty much anyone, but I have a hard time with it. It's not like I don't want to talk to people, I'm just shy. So what are some things I can say to people (who know who I am) and I'll be comfortable with the subject, and the people I'm talking to won't think I'm a freak? Please help!

2007-03-21 13:43:14 · 4 answers · asked by i-wanna-write 3 in Friends

2007-03-21 13:42:55 · 4 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Singles & Dating

Are they loosing brain juice as well as sperm? It's like the brain gets drained or flushed or something. A few minutes after ejaculation my husband starts saying the stupidest things, as if he is unconscious, is it possible that it maybe just be too traumatic for him? Lately we have been having sex very frequently, so I it seems in the last few month he got much dumber - please tell me it is not just my husband?

2007-03-21 13:42:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im seeing this boy that i like tomorrow and i don't know if he likes me or not.i really really really reall like him alot.

2007-03-21 13:42:09 · 13 answers · asked by kk 1 in Singles & Dating

hey this is really bugging me.. I love this girl and i see so many couples who have these long lasting relationships and I want that with this girl, she is everything to me and I can live without her but at the cost of my happiness. I wanna spend the rest of my life making her happy and falling more and more in love with her each day! In short I want her to be my wife.... what do I do when she can't see that i am her soul mate? I really need advice... please help me!

2007-03-21 13:41:08 · 15 answers · asked by missionary_koolaid 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have two great kids (21mo and 4.5 yrs), a wonderful husband, and I am a full time student.

I want both more time with my kids AND less time with my kids.

I think I am just stressed from my workload.

Do other parents feel this way or is it just me?

2007-03-21 13:40:23 · 5 answers · asked by Raina 4 in Family

One of my friends is saying that he wants me and him to hook up, but i have a boyfriend that i absolutly adore and love! And it just sort of disturbs me that he knows that i am dating Bo and he's gonna tell me this! Last year i used to have a huge crush on him, but then i met Bo and i fell in love with him!! This guy hasn't been all that into me until just recently! I just need some help with this, my boyfriend has no clue about it, but it will probably get around to him sooner or later! ANyways if you have any advise, i would love to hear it!

2007-03-21 13:39:35 · 20 answers · asked by Sunny 1 in Singles & Dating