hey this is really bugging me.. I love this girl and i see so many couples who have these long lasting relationships and I want that with this girl, she is everything to me and I can live without her but at the cost of my happiness. I wanna spend the rest of my life making her happy and falling more and more in love with her each day! In short I want her to be my wife.... what do I do when she can't see that i am her soul mate? I really need advice... please help me!
2007-03-21 13:41:08 · 15 answers · asked by missionary_koolaid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just show her affection. laugh at her jokes and compliment her. be playful and flirty and let her know you are a little jealous sometimes and are willing to stand up for what you've got ;) girls like reassurance. she's most likely been hurt in the past/is paranoid and automatically assumes the worst case scenario to help prepare for the worst, if it may happen
2007-03-21 13:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the situation. how do you know her? how are you two aquainted? first off make sure you'er not just obsessed and stalking. because that will never make her want you, just drive her further away. but some tip's if you're already friends. flirt with her a bit more or go the opposite and be stand offish. or try romantic, it all depends on what she's sttracted too. don't change who you are just your approach. try a make over, maybe she would dig you all the more if you apealed to her in a different style. find out what she like's and be brave, confedence is key. if you show no confidence your not going to call positive attention to yourself. you don't want her to date you out of pitty. biggest tip find a new angle, something original and CONFIDENCE!!! good luck, let me know how it goes.
2007-03-21 13:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by laura t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you or be attracted to you if they don't feel it too. If she doesn't feel the same way about you then you need to move on and just remain friends. There is someone out there for everyone but, both people need to feel it not just one. If she doesn't feel like you are her soulmate than you're aren't. It's as simple as that. Remember there are many fish in the sea but, you need to keep looking to find the right one. Good luck!
2007-03-21 13:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by cee cee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, i have had the same situation recently
you can't make people fall in love with you
she may be your soulmate, but you may not be hers
either work at it or move on, you really can't make people love you, and the one thing that i have learned is that if a person does not love you then they never will, and the more you try to make them love you the more they will resent and hate you for it
best thing to do is let her be and move on
2007-03-21 13:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a higher interest level in her than she has in you, there is nothing...I said nothing...you can do about it. Sorry to report the news, but I have lived it out.
The only thing you can do is lower her interest level in you even lower than it is. You cannot raise it.
Golden Rule: The person with the lowest interest level controls the outcome of the relationship.
Move on, brother. Take Care.
2007-03-21 13:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just charm here and make her blush after a little bit of trying hurt ur self and if she coms then u know u need to ask her out and if shes said no then maybe shes not ready mabey she didnt have a good thing with her past boy friend
2007-03-21 13:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by Kate-Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was she married ried or had her heart broken before ?? I was married for 10+ years and been divorced for about 3 years now and to this day unless its from my child, I get nervous when I hear the words I love you, I am afraid to get my heart broken again so I push everyone away my fate is I will be alone forever because of my fears Hope my story helps
2007-03-21 13:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by twistedsingle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really feel this way back off. Don't push. U will only push her away. Believe me this is experience talking the harder u push the futher she will run. Good Luck
2007-03-21 13:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by Special Edition 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about sending her this question....just a thought....
Be there for her...be honest...she has baggage and she may need help to unpack (we all have some baggage that need to be unpacked). Be her friend...let her trust someone again. Good Luck and I hope you have a wedding soon.
2007-03-21 13:49:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL....ASK HER OUT SEE WHERE THINGS GO....
IF YOU REALLY DO THINK THAT SHE IS YOUR SOUL MATE THEN DO BE A USUAL GUY (PIG).
BE A GENTLEMAN.
BUT IF YOU THINK THAT SHE REALLY IS YOUR SOLE MATE, DON'T LET HER GET AWAY WITHOUT TRYING. YOU WILL NEVER FORGIVE YOURSELF FOR NOT TRYING.
2007-03-21 14:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋