ok see i have this guy friend he is one of my best friends ever!! but the problem is he says hes in love with me and that when he comes and visits me in cali he plans on try to marry me.........i like him too butt defintaly not that much!!! plus i have a bf who treats me really bad idk what to do!!!!! any advice??
2007-03-21 13:44:33 · 8 answers · asked by *meggie* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by treats me badly i meant that he never calls when he says he will i never get to see him anymore but i will very soon and really really like him and dont want to give it but idk should i?
2007-03-21 13:56:58 · update #1
wen all doors close, one opens, dont put your back long at the open door, grab the opportunity, it wont stay open for long.there is one guy who treats u bad, and one who is best friend who loves u. its so obvious, its the best friend, he's the one who understands you the best, ur bf doesnt. u wil learn to love ur fren more wen u begin looking at him as a lover, give him a chance.i had same story...beleive me, best friends make best partners..
2007-03-21 15:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by Kiara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump your bf. now. i've been through this, and im only 17. (well not the marriage part, but stuff like this) and when the guy comes to ask you to marry him, remember he could get nervous and chicken out, or it could be a rumor. anyways if it does happen just say that you really like him but as a friend and still want to be friends.
2007-03-21 13:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by taylor hudgens 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready tell him. The worst thing people to is accept to make them happy that's bad. Ask him why he's trying to rush everything. But If you tell him your not ready, If he's a good man he'll wait. AS for you bf/,dump that person .you don't need bad people like that bringing you down all the time.
2007-03-21 13:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by Babygurl78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one you should dump your boyfriend because you shoudln't be treated and abused that way. ANd tell the other guy you just want to be friends with him if he doesn't want that tell him you can't be around him neither. But kick your bf to teh curb and find womone who treats you better.
2007-03-21 13:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, no one deserves to be treated bad if they didn't do anything, so first dump your boyfriend. He's totally misusing you for his stupid reasons, or even worse, no reason.
And I guess you just tell your guy friend that you only like him and you don't want to go that much further just yet. Lay it down to him slowly.
2007-03-21 13:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by Banana Hero [sic] 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok girl all you need to do take a deep breath and say how you feel juast give him a gift but say that we can just be friends it works with me it works for you i hope good luck =)
2007-03-21 13:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should dump your bf and talk 2 this guy....say you wont marry him yet and you'd like to date him 4 a while before any commitments
2007-03-21 13:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump your bf and stick with this guy but tell him that he is going a little to fast for you
2007-03-21 13:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal Dead! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋