i really do not know wut to do, so if u hav any helpfull advice, please do share it with me!
i really do not know how to get a guy to like me and dont say "like lift up ur shirt" because that is not ahelpful answer! i dont want to sound conceited, but i am fairly attractive. i am very nice and caring. ppl say im very funny. music is a very big part of my life, im a performer. i just dont understand wut i can do to hav a gut pay attention to me instead of my friends?? wut r some thigns u can say to a guy to hav them stop wut they r doing and say "wow, i never realized how much i like her" im sorry if this is a stupid question but every suggestion will help!! thank you!!!
2007-03-21 13:43:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me being a guy, you should give some guys you like hints. some guys can be kind of shy and don't want to just walk right up to you and say that they like you. try talking to them. you said you were a musician. try talking to a musician like you. you may just find out that its easier than you think
2007-03-21 13:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming that performer is not a synonym for stripper. Assuming that my assumption is correct and based off what you are saying I would wonder could it be the things that you are saying that turns them off or turns them away. You can be funny, attractive, and caring but it wont make a world of difference if you are saying the wrong things.
I also wonder could be the guys you may be trying to attract. This is really a tough one to answer. I would say just sit back in the cut and let the game come to you. Guys will recognize you, so don't look eager to get a guy when your out with your girls, you don't want to force yourself on them either. In other words don't seem desperate. I am sure one will come around.
2007-03-21 20:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by then_bi_said 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, guys are intimidated by attractive, talented females. The more the girl has going for her, the more unattainable she may seem.
This doesn't mean that you should stop being you, but smiling, eye contact, personal interaction (your tee shirt is too funny, etc.), and other actions that let the specific guy (or guys in general) know you are available. Guys will usually go for the path of least resistance (no offense to your friends).
You received some great advice, hope you find the tips that work for you.
Hope this helps!
2007-03-21 21:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by 1985 & going strong 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like confident women. they also enjoy a good sense of humour and they love to see women smile, be polite and a bit sexy. You need to find out more about a guy in order to ask or stop what they are doing for you. Get some cute jokes and crack a joke men like that. Be down to earth and honest and don't put on a face. Be yourself and smile often that gets their attention. Take care Heather
2007-03-21 20:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very good question. You might think about the idea that you don't want to attract "guys" but you want to attract ones in whom you might be interested. From your description, it's likely that a guy who's pretty stable and sure about himself. Those kinds of guys would like a girl who is very good at what she does, is confident, friendly, and available for friendship. So pick good guys and be friendly and good things will happen in your "love" life. Patience doesn't hurt a thing.
2007-03-21 20:49:54 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys wont like you just like that. I am telling you because i am one, the best thing to do is to make lots of eye contact. Eventually, if the guy finds you attractive he will start talking to you and eventually ask you out. I hope this works good luck.
2007-03-21 20:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by Cipher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm already interested in you. But i guess you could just tell the guy how you feel. Do you flirt with them? that will probably help them notice you.
P.S. "Wow, i never realised how much i like her" =)
2007-03-21 20:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt. Start with asking himto pick up your pencil. It works.
2007-03-21 20:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say hey was up. and then u will start a conversation. mayb u will start some sprks
hope i helped =]
2007-03-21 20:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Brittany♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be easy.not sex easy tho.and flirty.and be vary like you go and talk to the guy's and go and just be in there.and you have to be cute.
2007-03-21 20:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by kk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋