Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

If you were a guy in your 20's (esp. if you're the shy guy type) and you're still a virgin, are you worried? do feel pressured? or does it make you wanna wait for that "one" more?

and guys, alot of girls in this time of age are saving themselves for marriage, how do you feel about that? Is it a turn on? or turn off?

2007-03-21 17:51:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need a boob job. What do you think is up with that?? Did he have a foolaround buddy with great big boobies or what? I think he is just a real dick head and is letting it come out finally. What do you think


I need a boob job. Do you think he had a foolaround buddy with great big boobiesor is he just an as-h--- and is trying to make me feel incomplete?

2007-03-21 17:50:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive known this guy for a while, and he's always sending me signals that he likes me, which i reciprocate. we had a class together, and have hung out a few times, during which he makes comments about his gf(of 1 yr), and how he tried breaking up with her, she cried, and he couldn't follow through...He called me the other night after a while of not speaking..said to come over to his friends' house, so OF COURSE i go! hes DRUNK but keeps making these same comments about his gf, and says "it's times like these where i really wish i had just broken up with her". he acts really protective over me the whole night, is constantly grabbing my hands saying things like "keep me warm". he walks me to my car at the end of the night we start MAKING OUT insanely for like 5 minutes..he says hes NEVER cheated on her before...and afterwards, says "okay, we should keep this quiet"...WHAT?! i guess know what i SHOULD do now, but i really like this guy and have for a while. is there any hope for me???

2007-03-21 17:50:53 · 10 answers · asked by ashy 1 in Singles & Dating

What would people do? Where would they go? No suits, no blankets, no car keys, no NOTHIN.

Would there be a rush of bare butts running into the ocean for cover?

2007-03-21 17:50:48 · 8 answers · asked by Christy T 1 in Friends

2007-03-21 17:50:29 · 11 answers · asked by Tgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i just finished my middle school..........i know i should pay full attention to the books........but there is this girl ........who "bother" me all the time........she is like .....really in love with me..........and i hate that...........she is so....KIND....so Sweet.......and..........yeah!
it's not like i don't like her..........it's that...i ...cann't like her....the school Principle once told me.....your full time job is study........sooooooo.........

i'm not the boy who like to break people(especially girls)hearts..........if you know what i mean..........but i seriously have to "dump" her..........i only a kid.........cauz right now she is asking me to a ball with her next friday........please help me.....................(a poem might help.........i think........)

2007-03-21 17:49:47 · 8 answers · asked by Angel F.L. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 17:49:42 · 12 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

my mother has mentally and physically tortured me all my life, she gets joy out of my misery, she is extremely critical and jealous, I've tried to keep a superficial relationship with her in the past but she constant put me down, such as ''you are ugly'' or ''you deserve to be beaten when you were small'', she even said things like ''the only reason your boyfriend loves you is because he is sick, otherwise he would never date you''. after all the verbal put down, 7 months ago i decided to cut her off completely, i've changed my phone number and stopped calling her or visiting her, last night she knocks on my door un-announced. i told my boyfriend to answer the door and let her know that she is not welcome at my home, she was very shocked and went home, is what i am doing ok?

2007-03-21 17:47:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-21 17:47:14 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 17:46:45 · 9 answers · asked by Rachel 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 17:46:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I graduate from college in December so i am trying to decide if i should stay living in my apartment close to school until then and then break my lease or if i should move in with my boyfriend and his family. If i moved in with my boyfriend then i would be an hour away from the school but i would only have to go to school for one class in the fall which is taught on one day a week. So it would just be a one day a week one hour commute . But i would save $3300 on rent. On the other side, if i stayed in my apartment i would be closer to the school. And i am christian and am trying to figure out if it would be really bad for me to move in with my boyfriend and his family because i would be staying in his room with him. But we have been dating for 4 years and are probably getting married next year. And alot of my friends think that we should live together some before we get married. I am really confused and have to decide to renew my apartment or not by Saturday. Thank you for your advice!

2007-03-21 17:46:10 · 12 answers · asked by InLove621 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my openess honesty was not appreciated ever, support and/or understanding wus never given. i finallly had to go......I tried...........this sucks

2007-03-21 17:45:24 · 2 answers · asked by Avg Joe 3 in Family

can he go to jail

2007-03-21 17:45:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiancee and I have been together almost two years. In this time he has never called me any names, been extremely rude and he thinks I am the sexiest woman alive. However, I went into Diabetic Ketone acidosis and almost died. He would not take off work to take me to the hospital, I was in the hospital for a week and he came up there for 5 mins to bring me pajamas. I almost died and he wasn't there. About 3 months before I got sick he spent more time on his music site then with me. I feel like I can no longer trust him because he wasn't there for me when I needed him most. I have done everything for this man. He has a son full time who I watch everyday. I bend over backwards and still feel empty. I have tried to forgive him, but I do not think I can. I moved over 400 miles away from home for him. I left a job that I loved and I made great money. I love him but feel distant from him. I think I should move home where my family can love me and give me the support I need.

2007-03-21 17:44:59 · 13 answers · asked by kekihigh 2 in Singles & Dating

Im looking to break up with my gf but she has said she will kill herself if she ever lost me, I dont want that with me for the rest of my life, but i know that i dont wanna be with her anymore.

2007-03-21 17:44:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need a guy to answer this ...what goes in his head we are both in our late 20's we are not kidds anymore why does he do it ???

2007-03-21 17:44:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 17:44:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 17:44:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please answer in one word...^_<

Thanks!!

oh! and yes......Romeo (Thoe Original) wishes you a good day..^_^

2007-03-21 17:44:17 · 9 answers · asked by Romeo (The Original) 2 in Singles & Dating

what are the signs of cheating?

2007-03-21 17:44:01 · 26 answers · asked by j_farone 1 in Singles & Dating

We aren't dating yet, but he showed me is as jealous of me getting attention from someone as I am when he does.
When does the giant bell go off cosmically and we can admit our feelings?
I hear everyone say they think he is interested in me too, but we can't seem to make that leap toward love.
He did say something about if I wanted to be his girl, I'd beat up jealous girl. (my main competition) JOKE

2007-03-21 17:43:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

DOES THIS MEAN SHES GAY?
OK I WAS GOIN OUT WITH A GIRL FOR ABOUT 3MONTHS BUT BEFORE I WENT OUT WITH HER WE HAVE LIKED EACHOTHER FOR A WHILE BACK SINCE WERE FRIENDS FOR A LONG TIME. AS WE WENT OUT SHE SHOWED ME ALOT OF THINGS AND ALOT OF FEELINGS FOR ME BUT SHE WOULD USUALLY SAY THAT SHE DOESNT WANT TO MAKE HER PARENTS ASHAME OF HER AND THAT SHE IS SCARED OF WHAT SOCIETY HAS TO SAY AND I HAD TOLD HER THAT I WAS NEVER GOIN TO GIVE UP BECAUSE SHE HAS TO FIGHT FOR WHAT SHE WANTS.. I WAS DUMPED AND HER EXCUSE WAS THAT SHE DIDNT LOVE ME AND THAT HER FEELINGS CHANGED. COULD THAT BE TRUE? OR COULD THE FEAR IN HER BE STRONGER?. WHAT CAN I DO TO GET HER BACK? OR SHOULD I LET IT GO?IS SHE GAY?

2007-03-21 17:43:31 · 8 answers · asked by ratoncita1207 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

After 5 yrs of marraige with a 3 and 5 yrs kids. I love him but the marraige has been unhappy for me he didnt treat me the way I wanted him to. He acted like he was single like he didnt have to tell me anything he would go out a lot, cheated and things of that nature. I know that I want a husband that is a family man, but I know that my husband just needs time to grow up. But I cheated on him instead of leaving him and he found out. He says he doesnt want me any more but I know have these feelings like I cant live with out him. Ive always been the type of person to say let work on this marraige no matter what mistakes he makes or I make, but now that I made a mistake he doesnt want me. I feel like Im getting drumped when I should have dumped him a long time ago. But I want him now because we have 2 kids and a foundation. I never wanted to say my first marraige. Are these feelings that im having just break up feelings or should I really try to get him to want me again?

2007-03-21 17:42:07 · 25 answers · asked by wonder woo 2 in Singles & Dating

well i like this girl, but she is like playing mind games with me. one day she loves me the next she hates me. i haven't spoken to her much, but she gives me looks. last year i asked her out, she said no, but i still like her, and btw her name is beth. next there is the other girl named lucy, i like her, but i think she's only likes me because of my money, but im not really sure. and i like her too. next there is this other girl named ashley, i known her a long time, but she recently broke up with her bf, and i want to ask her out, but i think she needs space. so what should i do? who should i try and date? im confused, my heart doesn't tell me, same with my mind. help me please! who should i go and date ashley? beth? lucy? who?

2007-03-21 17:41:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I had unprotected sex with this girl, well I really wouldn't call it much sex, but I went inside of her for probably about a minute or two without much movement because we were debating doing it in the first place. Like I said, I was in for about a minute or two and then I pulled out. I never felt like I was even remotely close to ejaculating, I didn't have the feeling what so ever and I pulled out and we talked for a bit and I stopped being hard. Is there any chance at all that I could have lost some pre *** to chance the issue of a pregnancy. I am not trying to convince myself that I wasn't in that long. but it was honestly about 1 to 2 mins, 3 at the VERY most and with no movement at all. I don't know if it is important at all, but she finished me with oral about 20 mins later and that took awhile too because, well don't need to get into details but she wanted me to enjoy :*

Thanks for the help

2007-03-21 17:40:30 · 4 answers · asked by A M 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy basically has no chance of getting a girl if he cannot approach her and talk regardless of how good looking he is. On another note, how should a guy approach a girl?

2007-03-21 17:40:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Seeking partner for marriage

2007-03-21 17:40:00 · 5 answers · asked by siami5 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The thing is, there's just this girl I'm really in love with, but I keep getting scared to approach her especially when she's walking and could walk away, or she's with a friend who could interrupt things (I'm very calculating, I see all different kinds of possible outcomes with the slightest conditions). Usually, she doesn't look at me unless I'm talking to another girl. Recently, she started watching me when I'm ALONE and I sneak a look at her through the corner of my eyes without moving my head, appearing to ignore her. Today, she stopped walking when she saw me, watched me, turned around facing me while I was walking, and started to walk towards me for no apparent reason (I was already too far from her). I'm not sure, but I think that at lunch she may be starting to choose the line that I choose until her girlfriend leads her elsewhere. I have to pay closer attention. Please read the details below from a previous question to understand what's going on.

2007-03-21 17:39:49 · 7 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

example when I said I can't break up that mean i love him to much,

2007-03-21 17:39:25 · 13 answers · asked by sweet like honney 1 in Singles & Dating