well i like this girl, but she is like playing mind games with me. one day she loves me the next she hates me. i haven't spoken to her much, but she gives me looks. last year i asked her out, she said no, but i still like her, and btw her name is beth. next there is the other girl named lucy, i like her, but i think she's only likes me because of my money, but im not really sure. and i like her too. next there is this other girl named ashley, i known her a long time, but she recently broke up with her bf, and i want to ask her out, but i think she needs space. so what should i do? who should i try and date? im confused, my heart doesn't tell me, same with my mind. help me please! who should i go and date ashley? beth? lucy? who?
2007-03-21 17:41:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't date girls that play mind games there bad news.
2007-03-21 17:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to date any of the girls. You could always move on and find someone new. Most cases guys don't like starting out from scratch because you have to go through the getting to know process of trusting a new girl and etc. But you could get a peace of paper and write out the pros and cons of each girl and go from there. I wouldn't go with beth, steer clear of her, shes gonna be trouble. Ashley could be a possibility as long as you talk to her and take her out on a few dates, cheer her up being she is probably heart broken, then maybe consider dating her. Lucy you would have talk to get to know more before dating her, to make sure shes not doing it just for the money. Everything these days is money, its pathetic! I hope i helped you out! I hope the advice of a 19 year old helped you out lol. Girls are very confusing at some points I have to admit.
2007-03-21 17:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh.. you are confused. I know how you feel, you just want to be loved! You want to be able to hold someone, and know that they are thinking about you! Just have patients, the right girl will come for you, don't try and speed up the process, its a hard thing to do, but just stick at it. Beth sounds like some bad news, i wouldn't trust her as far as i could throw her... haha sponge bob quote.. Lucy, if she only likes you for your money dont bother, if you are looking to be loved thats not what your gonna feel, she will pull a fast one on you when your not looking. As for Ashley, she will be looking for someone rebound with, i wouldn't bother, those kinds of relationships last the shortest! When you finish a relationship is when you are the most lonely, from past experience! So just wait, take a step back and think it through before you do anything! Look at the bigger picture
2007-03-21 17:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to ask out Ashley. I woulden't worry about Beth's problem with you she will come around sonner or later. Lucy and you should be friends until you really find out if it's the money she wants. GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-21 17:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by Brenna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow most people only have trouble with one person. I would say if you are under 25 go find someone at a bar or eharmony.com they will hook you up with someone compatiable. Based on your info either give ashley time. And if you choose Lucy take her out on cheap dates, dont let her know how much money you have.
2007-03-21 17:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by Eclipse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow boy you're tousled properly i'm going to tell you the female that desires your funds forget approximately her becasue she is in basic terms a gold digger and the female that purely broke up along with her b.f supply her purely al little time possibly a week or 2 and then start up chatting along with her however the different female that became you down befor i wouldnt ask her out i might make her ask you out if she likes you and you like her yet yeah im thinking flow ith the female that purely have been given out of the relationship she feels like the final out of those ladies
2016-10-19 07:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none of them, first girl is probably bipolar, ur probably right about the 2nd girl's intentions and the last one will make u the rebound guy. play mind games with the first one
2007-03-21 17:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by StephC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try making friends with all these girls. Talk to them, find out their interests and waht makes 'em tick. Then, go with the one with whom you have the most common ground.
2007-03-21 17:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by alyssabeth2304 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't pick any of them. Just wait until the time is right. You will find somebody who is right for you.
2007-03-21 17:48:52 · answer #9 · answered by PrincessC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whom you must date isnt for us to decide right??....^_^
I guess one must follow his/her heart in this case.
Just get a glass of juice, sit on your sofa and think........who do you like best??
2007-03-21 17:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by Romeo (The Original) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋