If you were a guy in your 20's (esp. if you're the shy guy type) and you're still a virgin, are you worried? do feel pressured? or does it make you wanna wait for that "one" more?
and guys, alot of girls in this time of age are saving themselves for marriage, how do you feel about that? Is it a turn on? or turn off?
2007-03-21 17:51:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The pressure I felt at that age was not from other people but from my own sex hormones.
It wan't so much an issue of virgin or not virgin for me. It was the feeling of loneliness and lack of intimate contact with the opposite sex that made me feel unhappy and dissatisfied with my life.
My wait for the 'one' was so long and so unhappy that I gave up waiting and found a willing lady abroad.
A guy can wait only for so long, before it becomes time to move on.
On average, men get married in their late 20's and early 30's. And most men are neither willing nor emotionally able to wait that long for sex. Most will look for and find a willing lady one way or another.
Men are not biologically made to wait that long for sex. And those who try to save themseves and wait for marriage have to fight against their own nature. And it's a one unhappy fight for them.
2007-03-21 18:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, very important! When I was in my 20s, I was worried.
So many years later, I'm still worried. I'm also still an unmarried virgin, unfortunately.
I think it's great that a lot of girls are saving themselves for marriage. That's a sign f being smart. I've been saving myself for marriage, too. But where are thoes girls? I have yet to find one.
2007-03-22 01:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not worried. Pressure?!?! What pressure? Uh, yeah, huge turn on. How would you feel if you saw your future someone being banged up by some other bum. Massive turn on, in fact a very large commitment convincer thingy. All forms of sex too not just the "main event".
2007-03-22 00:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by Swibblestix 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her virginity is very important to me. Experienced = loose, emotionally and physically damaged, and possibly diseased. If she's not a virgin, that's not the end of the world, but it would knock a perfect ten down to a seven or eight. If she treats sex like any other kind of entertainment, then she drops to a one or two. -yk
2007-03-22 01:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by Yaakov 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is no pressured for me. u just dont find the one yet, what the hack there's lot of girl out there just wait till the right moment. for me when girl they saving for marrige it kind of turn me on
2007-03-22 00:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by am z 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes virginity is important to a guy.
For starters a virgin has no idea what to do in the cot so she's useless.
But even worse she'll go and fall in love with the first bloke who porks her - pretty annoying.
That's why I only touch married women these days
2007-03-22 01:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
to me, it's all a contrived social convention that doesn't actually mean anything, except to those who place value on it.
like, a dollar is worth something. but it isn't inherently worth anything; it only is because people believe in its value. if everyone decided a dollar wasn't worth anything, it would be a worthless scrap of paper. virginity is the same way to me. if you believe in it, it's valuable, but it's not inherently valuable.
back in my romantic idealism stage, it was absolute and meant everything, i needed one girl to pursue, needed things pure and clean. of course, reality taught me better. romantic idealism does not pay, except in pain and missed opportunities.
2007-03-22 01:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm waiting till I'm married
2007-03-22 00:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes we feel pressured. There's a common perception that if you don't have sex... a lot of sex... you're not a man.
2007-03-22 00:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by Gary W 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no as long as she loves me and wont cheat and doesn't have and STD (sexual disease)
2007-03-22 00:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by Jacob 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋