example when I said I can't break up that mean i love him to much,
2007-03-21 17:39:25 · 13 answers · asked by sweet like honney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a person hurt your feelings, would you want to be their friend? Of course not... then the same thing goes for your boyfriend. Your boyfriend is suppose to be your best friend and someone that makes you feel the opposite of what you are feeling now. I know it is hard to break up with him, but I don't think you are truly in love with him because no one love someone that hurts their feelings. I think you need to break up with him and not see him for at least a month until those feelings go away. It is very painful to break up with someone and to be alone... but with time things will turn out okay. You just have to be really strong and patient. Good luck!
2007-03-21 17:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by soccerchick14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have pretty much summed it up in asking your question. The way you explain it you have one of two choices, acceptance or intollerance. It goes with the saying, stand up or dummy up. Seems kind of a waste that you would accept someone that is making your life miserable unless, of course, being miserable is where you want to be. Be your own savior and do you a favor, find a mutual friend that loves you as much as you do him and become friends and live happily. There are enough real obstacles in life that will test your happiness and if you start unhappy what are the chances of you waking up one morning and realizing that the hole you allowed to suck you into will not let you out and be like everyone else? Just a word of advice, when you are confronted with a person that hurts your feelings and after a discussion with that person there is not an apology or you do not feel better, pack your game pieces and tell him that there should be a game down the street that will allow him to be a creep and help him out the door.
2007-03-21 17:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by missionaryplus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should try giving him the cold shoulder. ignore all calls for awhile. they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.u never no, he might see the light and come crawling. on the other hand if he makes u miserable u should leave. u can be miserable without his help and it'll give u a chance to move on and/or sort urself out and get on with ur life
2007-03-21 17:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by Datsun_Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend went through the same thing, so here's my advice BREAK UP with him right away. It's the best thing to do for yourself!! I tried telling my friend this also, did she listen to me, NO, several wasted years later, she finally dumped the loser. Do you really want to waste your time on someone who makes you miserable and hurts you? Who knows maybe once you dump the guy, you'll meet someone who makes you feel special :) Good Luck hun
2007-03-21 17:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to him about it and see if it will resolve. However, I don't understand why you want to stick through a relationship with someone like that. You've gotta be happy or the relationship is just going to flop in the long run. n
2007-03-21 17:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he makes u miserable then he isnt the one for u. yes u can break up w/him. it will hurt but if ur not happy then u shouldnt be w/him. u deserve to be happy.
2007-03-21 17:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by emilybailey1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u tell him that he was making u miserable? and did he say it intentionally, if my b/f made me miserable, he would be dead
2007-03-21 17:42:57 · answer #7 · answered by StephC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
evaluate the word LOVE
2007-03-21 17:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by ty d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loose him. It's not going to get any better. You are wasting time.
2007-03-21 17:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it very simple if he love you as you love him then he would
not treat you this way. dont settle for someone that will
not give you what you need.
2007-03-21 17:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋