Ive known this guy for a while, and he's always sending me signals that he likes me, which i reciprocate. we had a class together, and have hung out a few times, during which he makes comments about his gf(of 1 yr), and how he tried breaking up with her, she cried, and he couldn't follow through...He called me the other night after a while of not speaking..said to come over to his friends' house, so OF COURSE i go! hes DRUNK but keeps making these same comments about his gf, and says "it's times like these where i really wish i had just broken up with her". he acts really protective over me the whole night, is constantly grabbing my hands saying things like "keep me warm". he walks me to my car at the end of the night we start MAKING OUT insanely for like 5 minutes..he says hes NEVER cheated on her before...and afterwards, says "okay, we should keep this quiet"...WHAT?! i guess know what i SHOULD do now, but i really like this guy and have for a while. is there any hope for me???
2007-03-21 17:50:53 · 10 answers · asked by ashy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he breaks up with his girlfriend to be with you, great! otherwise he's not worth it
if he wants 2 girls kick him to the curb!
he should be strong enough to break up with her. that is not a good excuse
keep yourself occupied with other things and forget about him
2007-03-21 18:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by faithangel702 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lmfao... don't be another "stupid girl" ok? I'm guessing that you are in HS. If he really wanted to leave his gf, he would have done it already. Fact is, he wants his cake and to eat it too. He wants her, but he wants to mess around too.. He's feeding you lines that he thinks you want to hear, but I can bet you that he doesn't stop being with that gf of his.. even if they break up, he will keep her around.
Also, if he did it to her, he will do it to you.
Guys at that age are not ready for a relationship and commitment.. most grow up the same and never become ready.
2007-03-22 00:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a second place yourself in the shoes of that girl. Imagine the love she feels for him and now picture him doing that to you. How would you feel and how hurt would you be.
or
The you is obviously using both you and her. It is up to you how much drama you wish to add on you plate. Just make sure you don't take on something you won't be able to handle later.
2007-03-22 01:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by fateknows 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him. he's a jerk. wot makes u think he wouldn't do the same thing to u? once a cheater always a cheater. i learnt the hard way. if he cared that much about u or his girlfriend, he would have already cut her loose and saved both of u the heartache
2007-03-22 00:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by Datsun_Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only real hope is how you will feel after he does the same to you.
There are too many other choices to get involved with this boy.
2007-03-22 00:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by Mr realistic...believer in truth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, he playing you. he not looking to break up with her
he looking to have his cake and his pie. think about it
if he is so unhappy with this situation then why is he still
with her. i would question if he cheated before.
2007-03-22 00:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he messed around on her, he would probably mess around on you. Chalk this one up to experience and don't chase this guy anymore
2007-03-22 00:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by Merge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what I say to you - do you like being the "other" woman?
2007-03-22 00:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by loan_wzrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wanted to pull your panties down!!! I don't blame him, Before I was married.....I would say a lot to get laid....and it worked to. Why do ALL of you girls fall for guys who have a girl? The easyest, was to get you girls to go down.......It's not sex, right? I loved when girls said that. MY Point..........Men are PIGS!!!!!.....
2007-03-22 01:09:14 · answer #9 · answered by mac-won 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont be with him if hes with someone else.
he cheats on her n he might cheats on u
2007-03-22 00:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋