Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

I am often told that I am antisocial. I don't want to be, I just don't understand other people very well. I've always been a bit of a loner because I just feel different. I'm not ugly, weird, shy, or stuck up. In fact, I have a lot of compassion for others, I just have trouble keeping friendships and understanding why people are the way they are. If anyone ever feels this way, or has any insight, I would greatly appreciate it!!! :)

2007-03-16 18:36:49 · 14 answers · asked by Nidda 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 18:36:27 · 2 answers · asked by kris_krunk_king 1 in Friends

Iam 27 years old and sometimes shy. I wish i had friends but dont. Iam alone help.

2007-03-16 18:36:15 · 13 answers · asked by gaamale79 1 in Friends

is my daughter on a diet or something?
i'm not sure, but she might be...
i've noticed her making tea a lot and not drinking any of the diet cokes in the fridge, which she once loved! i've also noticed there are still the small bags of chips in the cabinet. i went to the grocery store today and told her i was going, usually she'll say "mom i want some..." and list something. usually funyuns.

she's not fat at all. she's 5'4 i think, and about 120-130lb.
should i ask her, or would that offend her?

2007-03-16 18:36:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-16 18:35:44 · 15 answers · asked by larry01ford 1 in Singles & Dating

Everytime she see me playing with myself she gets me naked and bends me over her lap and spanks me for up to 2 1/2 hours with her hand and paddle, and she says it is very bad to play with yourself.

2007-03-16 18:35:18 · 23 answers · asked by jim_mastne2001 1 in Family

OK so i have know this girl since 7th grade and were both in 11th grade now. she has had relationship problems. she broke up with her boyfriend 2 months ago and she said she is ready to move on. i have been thinking about asking her out and i had decided i was gonna do that monday at school but about 10 minutes ago she told me that there is a nice guy that she MIGHT start to like but its not a sure thing. we both pretend that she and i are going out/breaking up just 4 fun. but ppl have told me 2 ask her out cuz she might like me and we are really close. what should i do?? is hope lost because of what she said about the other guy??

2007-03-16 18:35:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

long story i went out with her for about 3 years. It seemed like she would never leave me but out of nowhere left me one day. Its has been about 6 months since and i deleted all contact from her she still talked to me on massanger once and awhile but i dont talk back mcuh. she now has a new boyfriend and still talks to me on massager and calls me every so often. she called me the other day but i dint pick up latler that week on massanger she said she called me because she wanted to know if i wanted to goout with her. i told her no i had some **** to deal with rate now. so we kept talking a bit and i moved about a 2 months ago and she was sayin she wants to come see my new house. if she has a new man why is she doing this and dont you think he would get a bit pissed if he found out she was doing this. i know i would if i met a girl and she did that. what dose she want from me?????

2007-03-16 18:35:02 · 1 answers · asked by johnmichael987 1 in Singles & Dating

ok sooo have you ever had that feeling that you love someone so much that you cant stop thinking about them?

2007-03-16 18:34:50 · 18 answers · asked by californiadudette1991 2 in Singles & Dating

Im only looking for good conversation and highly intellectual debate. can any1 handle me? check out my profile!

2007-03-16 18:33:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I will be driving 4 hours to meet some man that I talked to on the internet..What precautions should I take?

2007-03-16 18:33:47 · 45 answers · asked by Karen L 1 in Singles & Dating

I've noticed for a long time..particularly when wearing heels (or knee high boots..especially boots)..that some guys will stare at my feet..then look away when I notice them looking.

Do some guys have a feet or shoe fetish..and are there any guys here who admits to staring at womens feet..and if so..why?

2007-03-16 18:33:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 18:33:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ladies when you are having a conversation with a guy and you say that you don't do something for everybody you meet. Why is it necessary for the male to say well I’m not everybody? Why don't guy get it... if you where somebody you would know. But if not you fall in the “everybody” category and don't get upset when I say I don't do something for everybody. Guys help me understand y you real the need to say what I’m not everybody. Why do you think you shouldn’t fall in the category?

2007-03-16 18:32:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its been so hard to show how much i love my girlfriend..and its been so strenuous and long...ive done so much for her...and all she seems to do is "meh its alright" WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?

2007-03-16 18:31:16 · 9 answers · asked by brendan conder 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 18:31:04 · 11 answers · asked by kamille 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have leg hair and arm hair, do girls find it hot. And keep in mind I have an 8 pack and play football so I'm in shape.

2007-03-16 18:30:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my 13 year old sister named vanessa is acting all freaked out and crying but she wont tell me whats wrong how could i help?

2007-03-16 18:30:06 · 4 answers · asked by Ariana4Ever 1 in Family

2007-03-16 18:29:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i have following in sequence
1. wife is not making love for the last 5 years
the reply was not any solution. no body could dare to mail to my wife telling her that your husband is suffering and what you should do.

2007-03-16 18:29:10 · 25 answers · asked by pritam99 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And don't tell me it's her business. Of course it is. I just want to know why someone as successful and attractive as Ms Plame would want to marry a guy nearly 15 years older.

2007-03-16 18:28:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of 4 years decided he dodn't want to take me back after a horrible fight. I told him I think we shouldn't be together and he agreed and that was it. Anyways I tried to hold on but I finally gave up and told him to please never call, write, email, text, or anything else. I just needed him all out or all in. That was over a month ago, today he leaves me a message, he was not drunk (he does not drink, ever) to say he hopes I am ok, and that even if I dont call he wishes me the best. What is this about?

2007-03-16 18:28:44 · 18 answers · asked by toobadfaya 3 in Singles & Dating

ok im going out with a guy and hes kind of stuck up if you know what i mean and since today we've been going out but another guy asked me out before him i turned himdown and went out with the other one!Ok so thats half of the problemi really like this one guy and he wants to go out with me we flirt with eachother all the time and we talk i dont know what to do your the experts im gonna take it from the guys this time!

2007-03-16 18:26:59 · 5 answers · asked by steph 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

short version of long story:

theres this girl at my high school who has nowhere to live cause her parents use 2 abuse her so she makes deals with guys that shell sleep wit them if they feed her and let her sleep at there house

i made an arangement with her to do that but then i really started likeing her

i let her move in with me and my family loves her but i cant stand her anymore, shes become so clingly. how do i get her out of my house ?

2007-03-16 18:26:42 · 15 answers · asked by man 1 in Friends

I am a victim of abuse. I am also depresssed. My sister-in-law abused me when she just moved in with our family. She only lived with my family for a few months. I hardly knew her, and she didn't make any impression on my family (stayed in her room 24/7). She kicked me and she hit me on the head. While yelling at me, my brother (her husband) was verbally abusing me. And threatening to hit me saying things like "i useto be in a gang" and "i useto shoot at people." Like a total psycho. He even turned tables and pushed chairs over. He wouldn't leave me alone while i tried twalked away! I was so scared. Everyone who found out about this said what they did was wrong. I have forgiven them, but can't forget.

My sister-in-law wants a relationship with me now... She's manipulative...and didn't apologize for her actions. She blames it on her parents... I feel like this is unacceptable. Should I have her in my life? Why can't she just say sorry??

2007-03-16 18:26:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my man asked me on the phone "wat would i do if he broke up with me"? but he said that he wasent going todo that but still.last year my ex had asked me the same ? and he broke up with me not far from the day he asked me so thats y i am worried. one of my friends said that it dosesnt matter cause he just wants to see how much u luv them and another said that not to worry cause her bf had asked her the same thing and they never broke up. so she said that it dosent mean anything

2007-03-16 18:26:16 · 6 answers · asked by *lAdy tr0UblEs* 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband is gettind deployed and he wants something quick and fast. i have so many questions, can we just show up at the court house and wait for a judge? Do we need to make a appointment?do they issue the certificate there? is it valid from that day? or do we have to return it to become valid??(hes stationed in KY and he's from ME and i'm from TX) will they not marry us because both of us are from different areas?? I obvilousily have no clue on this.... i need all the help i can get. :)

2007-03-16 18:25:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy over a year ago. He is pretty amazing and has been a better friend to me then most people I have known for over 28 years. Over the last six months our relationship has been begining to heat up and we have been talking about being more then friends. He is coming here in July, but I was wondering if it would be absolutely crazy to travel to Australia to surprise him.. I am thinking it would but hey, maybe it would be a bit romantic as well. What do you think?

2007-03-16 18:25:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am the piano player in my best friend's wedding. I want to show her how much I appreciate her by either playing her a song with nice lyrics that I can sing, or by reading her a nice poem or something. I'd prefer the song, so if anyone can help, I'd appreciate it!

2007-03-16 18:25:17 · 10 answers · asked by Trudy 2 in Weddings

Okay, so I've really liked this guy for quite awhile and just recently he told me he felt the same about me (he said it first and then i told him...)
so we have this little flirtation thing going on and yeah...he saids those 3 magic words (I.L.Y) and i was stoked. I mean who would have thought I could get a guy like him? so surreal. but then i found out he's been saying the same things to one of my best friends. She got mad and she said something to him about it. He just kind of said "i dont know what you're talking about..." and yeah. She told me he said this. I still haven't asked him about it -- actually, we haven't spoken about it at all. We talk normally and he's been saying the same things. I like him sooo much but don't know what to do. Oh, we also saw him at a carnival holding hands with a different girl. player? i have no idea. He hasn't said anything about having a girlfriend. its way to confusing.

2007-03-16 18:25:09 · 7 answers · asked by Mia Love<3 1 in Singles & Dating