I met this guy over a year ago. He is pretty amazing and has been a better friend to me then most people I have known for over 28 years. Over the last six months our relationship has been begining to heat up and we have been talking about being more then friends. He is coming here in July, but I was wondering if it would be absolutely crazy to travel to Australia to surprise him.. I am thinking it would but hey, maybe it would be a bit romantic as well. What do you think?
2007-03-16 18:25:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hes never been married.. you know how I know? we have web cammed for hours on end daily as though we have no other lives. He has a dog, a cat, a bird and a horse. he lives alone and his mom, dad and sis come over all the time. I have spoken to his mom, shes sweet. When you talk to someone for over a year daily, hourly and even take naps on the MSN internet phone together, you pretty much know, there is no one else involved. Thanks for your concern on that though.
2007-03-16 18:40:57 · update #1
Go for it,i traveled from Australia To Canada to meet a man i had been chatting to for over a year ,7 years later I'm still in Canada with my man. Just be careful,i talked to my hubby's kids and mother many time on the phone before i came over for a holiday to meet him,so knew him quite well. Love is found in the strangest places. Say G'day to Australia for me if you go,damn i miss that place!
2007-03-16 20:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by tuppenybitz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Travelling is not a big deal at all. I travel overseas all the time to visit friends. I've never done it specifically to meet someone for the first time, but if I was really dying to meet them I would.
Come to Australia! It's so great here, and even if it doesn't work out with you two, you will have met him and you'll know for sure either way.
The worst thing in life is wondering 'what if'. It'll drive you nuts.
Do it - you're just going on vacation and meeting someone whilst you're here.
Best of luck!
2007-03-16 18:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by Snow White 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that 6 months isnt a strong indicator. Strong intimate energies isnt a good indicator. Infatuation is present and on the rise based on temporary information that is appealing. We tend to put off our best not weak areas to impress what weak areas have you noticed and are questionable. You need to consider you vulnerability as a woman should you go meet someone and the journey is alone .
2007-03-16 18:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by reme14u 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would advise you to wait and let him come to visit you...Online affairs arent always what they seem,,,, There is alot of players online who have affairs with several women at once,,, feeding them all the same line,, And so charming and smooth they appear,,,They are so polite and kind,,and yes, seeming nicer than anyone youve ever known,,,And a year isnt all that long,, I have known mine for three years,,, Wait and see if he really comes to see you,,, And if you go there planning on a suprise , it may backfire and the suprise will be on you,,, Play it safe and wait for him to come to you
2007-03-16 18:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Gringa_uno 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not crazy. I have a friend that went to australia to meet a girl and only came back to get his things. You never know. But do be careful.
2007-03-16 18:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by another journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not a good idea to surprise him because he is coming here in July and you will be able to evaluate his behavior with your friends, etc. AFTER he visits you, it would be a good idea to visit him in order to assess the life he has with his friends there. If there are significant differences that would be likely to create potential diffficulties, you would be able to see them. Good luck with this relationship!
2007-03-16 18:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friends parents meet online and are now married and they had to travel really far to meet each other and they didn't even speak the same language they had to have a translator so you guys could have the same chance my friends parents had! good luck!
2007-03-16 18:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by breannafae h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be great, just make sure his wife is out of town when you do it... Online relationships really have their advantages, you can get to know each other mentaly and emotionally long before you are intimate physically. Good luck with that.
2007-03-16 18:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well Life is all about taking chances! If you dont go now...you may regret it later!! So if u know he's not cheating you or nething and the relationship is based on trust then you should!
2007-03-16 18:30:56 · answer #9 · answered by dreamgurl_01 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not surprise him, he is not surprising you,by telling you he will be here in July. I do not think he would appreciate your coming to see him and did not tell him.
2007-03-16 18:35:53 · answer #10 · answered by RY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋