my man asked me on the phone "wat would i do if he broke up with me"? but he said that he wasent going todo that but still.last year my ex had asked me the same ? and he broke up with me not far from the day he asked me so thats y i am worried. one of my friends said that it dosesnt matter cause he just wants to see how much u luv them and another said that not to worry cause her bf had asked her the same thing and they never broke up. so she said that it dosent mean anything
2007-03-16 18:26:16 · 6 answers · asked by *lAdy tr0UblEs* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him the truth and how you feel if he does... If he wants to break up with you then it means he doesn't have feelings for you anymore.
Kev
2007-03-16 18:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Ms Worry---If your boyfriend has to ask you that question
then I would start doing some serious thinking.A relationship is based on trust and honesty.If you are lacking this in a relationship ,chances are your relationship will not amout to much. You will be on a constant rollercoaster ride.,never knowing from one moment to the next what to expect from him.This is a form of mental and emotional abuse .What are your expectation of a relationship?Do you expect the man to love you as much as you love him? Do you want to be treated with respect and dignity.Do you tolerate verbal and physical abuse,making excuses for him.(for the sake of staying in the relationship)?Are you afraid to leave him because you think you cannot live without him or you will not be able to find another boyfriend? You need to seek counselling. You are feeling insecure ,have low self esteem and low self -worth
You need to learn to love your self, then you will be able to make better choices in your love life. You deserve the best!
2007-03-17 02:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by earthangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are right, he just wants to see how much you love him and know how much it would hurt you if he did break up with you. Theres no sure way of knowing if he will or not but dont worry about it, just tell him what you really feel deep inside. Or if youre bold enough ask him why he asked you that question. hope i helped...
2007-03-17 01:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by cswtp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lie to him and say, wont do nothing. ill just move on. make him think it wont bother you. that way you can find out if he really wants to leave or stay. if he leaves, oh well, act tough and pretend you dont care. that will hurt him more than anything.
2007-03-17 01:33:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm u kinda have to wait and see. the scale could tip in any direction. dont think about it too much or it makes it worse.
2007-03-17 01:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by dragon_fanatic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you definatly have the right to be worried but you cant live your life in fear.
it could just be a test.
2007-03-17 01:31:23 · answer #6 · answered by ldsironman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋