Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

We have known each other for about 10 yrs, both marriages failed and we reconncted after 5 yrs. We have simular interests and style, likes and dislikes. This will be our 2nd date with dinner and a movie at the theater. She is bringing some wine for before dinner. Should I get her a gift for a 2nd date.

2007-03-16 18:25:03 · 5 answers · asked by Karl B 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girl have been together for 8 years.. well recently, we haven't had much of a sex life.. well, i was asking her all day if we could have sex tonight, i know it's lame, but i don't think she's feeling it... well tonight she was promising that we would have it and swearing up and down we would, and things like that.. come about 30 minutes ago she said was "too tired, and I felt like it about 2 hours ago.." but at the time our child was awake.

I don't understand this. Is she not sexually attracted to me? She said is but I dunno.

Confused??

2007-03-16 18:24:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a guy and I have serious issues with being in relationship with girls. What are some things which you look for when you commit yourself to someone? What's the most important thing you want in a woman? How do you know this is what you want in a woman?

2007-03-16 18:23:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to me.it's not true.look around you,many of them live happily.

2007-03-16 18:23:05 · 6 answers · asked by catherine 1 in Friends

me and this guy has been dating on and off for about 6 years things have been good and not so good now that we are back together things are not so good finaicially so he stays with an ex and I stay with a uncle he says that nothing is going on between them but she claims the person she is pregnant from is him and I know I should leave but every time I try it likes he knows and he keeps pulling me back to him but I want to leave cause I know that is whats best for my heart cause I want to get married and have other kids but I don't think his heart is with me I don't know if its with her either should I leave or still give it a shot confused?

2007-03-16 18:22:45 · 11 answers · asked by HOT_GIRL 1 in Singles & Dating

WANNA BE MY FRIEND???

2007-03-16 18:21:56 · 16 answers · asked by kris_krunk_king 1 in Friends

and she heard it from her husben she said 6 difernt pepl told him he dos not even no me even low her and i did what we did is tru i did not tell i kepet it to my self wats up with that sorry about spelling

2007-03-16 18:21:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I decided to tell my dad I was bi and that i was in a serious relationship with a guy and he kicked me out now i'm staying with my boyfriend and i need to know how to get through to my dad and make him accept me.

2007-03-16 18:21:39 · 5 answers · asked by Ethan S <3 Da Ben Dan 4 in Family

2007-03-16 18:21:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 18:20:09 · 23 answers · asked by Constantine 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 18:20:06 · 5 answers · asked by Thinking4u 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm fifteen and i'm wondering... why a lot of guys crave for sex? like they ask if they can have it... some are too rude! they don't mind how old the girl they're asking is! that's yucky, i know. is sex something which brings them happiness and contentment? how come?

2007-03-16 18:19:20 · 12 answers · asked by CB 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 18:19:17 · 6 answers · asked by catherine 1 in Friends

I'm not happy in my marriage with my husband. He don't have plans for me. All his plans was for his five-grown up kids from ex-wife. He loaned and saved money for them; I don't want to be part of his debts in the future. He bought a land for his kids and my name wasn't there. His kids is taking advantage of him they always call for money and his sisters too. He loaned money; but when I need help he won't help me even single centavo but when his family need help he hurriedly sent money because I know he has account to send money. He open a lot of credit cards and credit union account. I saw our bank account its negative balance. I don't work because it's hard for me to get a job right now I'm just new here in US (3 yrs.) as if my husband married me because he only wants to use me. He get a life insurance for me and him as his beneficiary for $150,000 dollars and putting me on his credit cards and all the credit union that he opened we don't have savings even single centavo.

2007-03-16 18:18:13 · 17 answers · asked by pinaysapinas2004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok im not going to beat around the bush, this is an unusual question. I'm familiar with the whole "girls like to be spanked" (not all) scenario, but are there any girls out there that actually like to spank guys? Thanks.

2007-03-16 18:17:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was walking around the mall with a friend and all of a sudden I see this guy that used to like me in like the 4th grade and in the 10th grade probably...I am now in grade 12...and he waved to me...then he went around the corner and just popped up and was like hey NAME... I was like hey and he started to talk to me...he then said he was going out with this girl named SOMEONE...Does he still like me??We never talked for like the longest time and it was really akward. He even made a joke of how he should go shop around with us... why did he just randomly come and talk to me like that? Does he still have feelings for me and what should I do??

2007-03-16 18:17:30 · 3 answers · asked by Cheyenne F 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother is getting married. He keeps telling me guys want to marry sweet looking innocent girls, who yet at the same time still posess real and natural beauty...He thinks his fiancee is all of above. She's the one on the left. What do you guys think of her? (just first impression)

http://i97.photobucket.com/albums/l237/italianissima419/db33.jpg

2007-03-16 18:17:10 · 5 answers · asked by Lena L 1 in Weddings

why boys change after marriage?their attitude totally changes even after love marriage.why?

2007-03-16 18:16:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-16 18:16:33 · 1 answers · asked by bt78155 1 in Friends

so theres this guy that had liked me for a really long time. yesterday, he asked me to slow dance with him at a friends birthday party tomorrow, and i didnt really say either way then. then today, my friend went up to him and asked him why he asked me that. (i didnt tell her to) then he emails me a few hours later and says "hey...forget i asked u to dance tomorrow".
any ideas on what happened?

2007-03-16 18:16:31 · 8 answers · asked by ally 2 in Singles & Dating

I need a new lease on life.

2007-03-16 18:15:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you let a lady friend of yours know that you like her without killing the friendship?

2007-03-16 18:15:00 · 9 answers · asked by Tyler 1 in Singles & Dating

When you ask a female a dumb a**question. For instance you don't you cook for me and she say's i don't cook for everybody. And you reply I'm not everybody what the hell is she suppose to say?????

2007-03-16 18:14:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some act like they could do without or they dont want one but do they really want one inside? maybe theyve been hurt before? why would a man say oh , i dont need a girlfriend or dont want one, does he realy mean that?

2007-03-16 18:14:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As far as interests go...like music, hobbies, TV shows, etc? How do you solve the differences?

2007-03-16 18:14:32 · 2 answers · asked by Constantine 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so this girl I really like went to a movie tonight with me and a friend. A few days ago out of no where we kinda started hugging/cuddling, and there was a bit of making out. I asked her if it ment anything the next day and she said that for the moment no and she wasn't sure if it would and that she didnt want to lead me on. So today when we went I felt like she was totally leading me on... we held hands for about half the movie she had her head on my shoulder a couple times. However there were a few times where she kinda took her hand away when I reached out for it when she kinda put her hand near mine. So on the way home she asked how long I liked her, and I told her, then I thought Id clarify what happened tonight and asked if anythings changed since we last talked about how for the moment she didnt see me like that. She said not really?! But it was a more quiet and mellow and took her a while to answer. So Im totally confused. Her actions say one thing but her words say another..

2007-03-16 18:13:56 · 3 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Singles & Dating

i am a house wife. i live with my husband ,son , and daughter in law. she has some problem with me. though she is a nice girl. but what makes her behave with me sometimes rudely. i dont know. now after one year , i have come to know that she always wanted to live with my son separately. so now i want to tell my son to live with her in another place. i want to do this in a graceful manner. please help.

2007-03-16 18:13:29 · 15 answers · asked by kumkum s 1 in Family

So our prime fixe meal that we have selected for our reception includes a dessert (tarts w/assorted fruit, chocolate silk cake, lemon chantilly, white chocolate cheescake w/berries).

I have heard that years ago, you would serve dessert and then people would take home a piece of cake as a favor. That just sounds weird to me. Every wedding that I have been to we just ate wedding cake. I hate to not serve the dessert from the caterer since we are already paying for it, but I really wanted to have a wedding cake. Do I serve both? I love sweets so I don't mind, but will people want to eat both? Do I serve at the same time?

I was thinking about serving the wedding cake and then after dinner and dessert I was going to have them set-up a "sweets" table with the desserts and some cookies and coffee so that if anyone is interested they can grab something on their own.

2007-03-16 18:13:21 · 12 answers · asked by NoTurningBackNow 5 in Weddings

How many of you have been married 10 years or more, Do you think there are people that are happy with thier marriage?
Do you mind the media overstating that one out of every two marraige end in divorce. What is the key to longevity in a marriage? I am married 13 years and I am still learning and growing. How do you keep your marraige healthy and strong?
I ask this question so I can be a better wife and partner to my husband. This question was on my mind so that is why I am posting this. God bless you for your answers and peace be with you.

2007-03-16 18:13:18 · 12 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Last October I moved to California on a limb, leaving my girlfriend of 9 months who i love dearly back home in NC, in late November she moved in with her brother who also lives in California to be with me. My living situation was unbearable so I moved back home, abandoning her. Now shes spending a week with a girl i do not trust and she hasnt called me since. i called her this morning asking why shes avoiding me, she replied shes not and said she'll call me back. Do i get worried?What should i think?

2007-03-16 18:11:59 · 10 answers · asked by Bryan M 1 in Singles & Dating