i'm fifteen and i'm wondering... why a lot of guys crave for sex? like they ask if they can have it... some are too rude! they don't mind how old the girl they're asking is! that's yucky, i know. is sex something which brings them happiness and contentment? how come?
2007-03-16 18:19:20 · 12 answers · asked by CB 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well guys your age and probably up to ten years older than you are still dealing with raging sex growth hormones, and this makes them, well, horny devils. And some of them aren't thinking with their brains.
Sex does bring happiness/contentment in some ways because it releases opiates to the brain much like a drug, but in the context of your question, no, that isn't why they like it so much. They want to have sex so badly because of one reason: because they can.
2007-03-16 18:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will only bring the things you mentioned in a commit ed relationship, an no a month don't count.
The happiness comes because it's a way two ppl. show their love for each other. Yet there are a lot of other ways to show you love someone. Faithfulness, compassion, tolerance, showing affection, never being verbally or physically abusive.
No one should ever pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do, feel uncomfortable doing or aren't sure about doing.
No one should never ever put their hands on you in anger, because that's not love that's abuse.
Hope this helps
2007-03-17 01:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course sex brings happiness. if your not happy during sex then somethings wrong. most guys want sex because it feels good obviously, but there are a few who see it as a comittment to their partner and way of sharing love. But at fifteen guys just want to have sex because they're curious virgins and it feels good.
2007-03-17 01:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by Ethan S <3 Da Ben Dan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
15 year old boys are just a bag full of hormones. Their brains are pickled, and may take years to return to any semblance of normal.
As for sex itself, well- It's pleasant. I like it. Yes, it makes me happy- for a while.
I hope that you, too, will one day have happy sex. But there's not need to rush. Wait until you find someone you REALLY like.
2007-03-17 01:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
goodie goodie,, while im your doctor and your medically courous about why boys must have sex,, this is a good place to stop you and to go directly to the library to learn about sex ed and germs and illness and to as mom n daddy ask take your sweet time and remember be a kid at heart because trust me before you know it you will be like us old n senile,,,lol
so, relax and remember boys are buggers and you need to keep saying no,, its not that big of deal,, but a good freind with personality now thats pure gold..............
2007-03-17 01:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by wgggn_babyjim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something called testostorone and basic instinct. think of it as that the testostorone is constantly making an anoying high pitch noise constantly. you would go crazy and you want it to stop and have a break from it. and plus it more addicting than drugs
2007-03-17 01:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by ldsironman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its suppossed to be saved for marriage because its forms a beautiful bond. people today have no respect for that and are just in it for the feeling. they dont care about anything but getting off. its sad, and 99 % of guys are like this. its something special you should wait for marriage, or just make sure your in love. it makes it soooo much better.
2007-03-17 01:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is the testosterone. They are full of it at younger ages. But believe me, there is nothing that special about it that you cant wait a few years.
2007-03-17 01:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by babyj248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we are physically needy and emotionally absent. I've never "asked" for sex myself, so I don't know what to tell you about that.
2007-03-17 01:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by scarter3523 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is just a instinct...a physical need without control , a youngman with values is hard to find... friendship comes first ,making himself worthy...then , the best..........comes to both partners ,and you......dont fall in the trap and make yourself just a name in a list.......of conquers.(theres other names for that)
2007-03-17 01:26:02 · answer #10 · answered by robertman30s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋