me and this guy has been dating on and off for about 6 years things have been good and not so good now that we are back together things are not so good finaicially so he stays with an ex and I stay with a uncle he says that nothing is going on between them but she claims the person she is pregnant from is him and I know I should leave but every time I try it likes he knows and he keeps pulling me back to him but I want to leave cause I know that is whats best for my heart cause I want to get married and have other kids but I don't think his heart is with me I don't know if its with her either should I leave or still give it a shot confused?
2007-03-16 18:22:45 · 11 answers · asked by HOT_GIRL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men need to be or feel financially sound (and mentally prepared) for marriage.
If he loves you, he should avoid living with his ex at all costs or find alternative solutions to reduce misunderstandings.
He should work on his financial situation and provide you a stable life should he choose marriage with you.
It seems fishy about him staying with a pregnant ex. It's like an easy way out for him to get a place to stay. Why not arrange him to stay with you, if all else permits.
I think you better step back. Hold back your feelings too. Assess the situation. And respond accordingly.
To begin with, 6 years seems long enough to think of marriage plans. But 6 years of on and off relationship doesn't seem to be a strong foundation for longer term steady (as in stable) relationship.
Do not put your whole heart 100% into a guy & a relationship you're not even sure of. Take back your heart & put in 10% bit-by-bit till you're sure you've met someone special who deserves you and wants to make marriage plans with you, which is of high importance to you. Putting in 10% bit-by-bit helps you to gain better control of any relationship with your mind, your heart & your soul.
2007-03-16 18:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had 6 years to prove his worth and hasn't. You could give it another 6 and waste both your lives or you could make a clean break now and find someone worthy.
You need to take a step back and decide: Will this guy make a good husband, provider, father of future children? If the answer is not a resounding YES, you should give him up now.
2007-03-16 18:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by Imogen Sue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you know how you really feel. if he not the one for you
then leave it along especially since he may be cheating on
you and about to have a child . if nothing else he has not
respect for you. that should give you the courage to kick
him to the curb.
2007-03-16 18:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u stay together this is how ur life will be. Do u like it as it is? If not then move on and find a life u like.
2007-03-16 18:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by Gist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are are you thinking about it do you want to be unhappy for the rest of your life if you do then stay with him .
2007-03-16 18:31:05 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My vote is for Find Another Man. Please!
He aint no good for you
2007-03-16 18:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by Ronko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this a good story for a movie talks about this fool girl who can't understand that she is wanted just for fun.
I will say this in a big letters.
LEAVE HIM NOW
2007-03-16 18:27:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've answered your own question. You would be foolish to invest in this relationship.
2007-03-16 18:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by surlygurl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have left along time ago you are just hurting yourself everyday that you are still with him and it is not woth it at all
2007-03-16 18:27:39 · answer #9 · answered by breannafae h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him. move on and fins someone else. good luck.
2007-03-16 18:26:12 · answer #10 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋