Family & Relationships - 10 March 2007

I'm really feeling that Carrie Underwood song 'Before He Cheats' and...let's be honest...I really don't do country.

The song is about f'king up a cheating man's ride. It got me thinking...who really *does* that?

I'd find it liberating and if cause ever arose, would give it thought.

Have you or "a friend" ever actually totaled a scumbag's vehicle?

I'm interested...details/circumstances if you please :)

2007-03-10 13:47:13 · 1 answers · asked by fender_goddess711 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend just broke up with me,after 2 years.Our relationship started off great,but we grew apart.Today I got off of work,went to see how he was doing because we haven't seen each other in a couple of weeks.For some reason I knew he was going to break up with me,because things haven't been so good.So we were talking about if we wanted to stay together or not.And then he said I don't want to be in this anymore.And this is not the first time he broke up with me,he did it once before.So,I said do you at least still want to be friends.And he said he didn't know,and then he said we shouldn't because things will just go back to how they used to be.So,I was like okay is that it,did you just break up with me and he said I guess.So I said ok I guess I'll see ya when I see.I left and took a long drive to clear my mind.He called my cell once,of course I didn't pick up.I still care for him,I have a lot to say to him.Should I tell him in a couple days or weeks, or just blow it off.Thanks alot!!

2007-03-10 13:47:13 · 8 answers · asked by atcblue05 6 in Singles & Dating

Wat do girly girls do?

wat r they into?

how do they talk?

wat do they like to talk about?

wat kinda boys do they like??

wat kinda of friends do they have??

2007-03-10 13:46:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok lets face it. girls want guys who have alpha male qualities. they only like funny guys, because it shows confidence. they are also attracted to talent and popularity. a lot of girls deny this, but think about it. are you ever attracted to guys who aren't really cool or funny and don't have any special talents? my question is, how come girls don't consider this shallow, but when a guy is attracted to pretty girls, that is shallow?

2007-03-10 13:46:40 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi,
I have been married for 7 months. The day after we got married our problem started. The thing is I am a sick person & I have some medical problems. I told my husband about those things before our wedding & my parents were clear with their family when they came with the proposal. This was an arranged marriage, though we liked each-other before our wedding.
I have so many things to control. My doctors/ my food-habits/my sleeping/ walking........every single details in life I have to maintain otherwise I get sick.
Besides my sickness, I asked one thing from my husband that whereever he will go I will go with him, even if it is for 1 minute.
I am too much honest & staright forward person. Promise keeping is so valuable to me. BUT MY HUSBAND HAVEN'T KEEP HIS PROMISE.
And also he didn't understand how to handle my sickness. 6 whole months he made me suffer & I am so sick right now that I have use a cane to walk & I can't even go out alone without any help. I am at my Parents home.

2007-03-10 13:46:35 · 12 answers · asked by Sasha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it bad that i can only say the way i feel about people when im drunk

2007-03-10 13:46:06 · 10 answers · asked by drmarkmedman 1 in Singles & Dating

i told my mom that my dad not coming to my wedding still hurts. she said not to tell him. but i want too. what should i do. my dad never wants to come visit. the reason he said he didn't come waas his blood pressure was up. but he says that every time my mom come over and he's don't. should i tell him it hurt or not.

2007-03-10 13:45:33 · 16 answers · asked by lisaanndubay 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents think that I am not into boys because I don't talk about boys to them. I am 14 and have never had a boyfriend but I do have crushes on a few guys. I just don't feel comfortable talking to my parents about boys I like. I only feel comfortable talking about guys to my friends and sometimes my grandma ( I know that sounds weird). I just don't want my parents to think that I am a freak because I am not interested in guys when I really am. And is it weird that I have never had a boyfriend before?

2007-03-10 13:45:11 · 5 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and I'm not sure if he likes me back or not. I have gym class with him and when our coach said I would be in the same class as him I heard he and his friends say "yes." And the other day in GA Studies he tapped me on the shoulder and when I turned around he pretended he was asleep. Does he like me?? and if he does should I ask him? Do guys like it when a girl asks them "out" (to be their boyfriend) or something????
Thanks

2007-03-10 13:44:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this friend who trusted me with anything, and now i accidently said somthing about his ex to him, he made me really mad. what can i do to get all hs trust back?

2007-03-10 13:44:00 · 7 answers · asked by ecko_mr.bubbles 2 in Friends

the majority vote wins!!!yes or no think of it as a game....oh and how should i do it if he is shy?

2007-03-10 13:42:28 · 9 answers · asked by yellowpolka_dots 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 13:42:17 · 24 answers · asked by sam b 1 in Singles & Dating

i was hanging out with 2 of my friends 1 a guy and the other my best friend. but she had 2 leave so it was just me and my guy friend.we were just talkin and he pulls me over and hugs em and then we started makin out. now i know he kinda likes me, my best friend, and and like 3 or 4 other girls, but i wasent ecspecting this.
i dont know how i feel about him, or how he feels about me
and i NEED HELP
what should i do?

2007-03-10 13:41:42 · 8 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex. He was pretty upset... Its been several years since the breakup but I feel guilty about it. I dont know if that means I still have feeling for him? but I've tried to become friends with him, and its seems like he goes out of his way to ignore me? yet he is best friends with my closest cousin and other family members so its annoying because I cant just forget about him because they are constantly around him. I dont understand why he chooses to stay so close with my relatives if he is unwilling to be friends with me. and if I try to aim him or call him, he wont respond and later will say "well what do you want" and yet when im out with my family he'll call them. its just a strange feeling since he only knows my relatives through our relationship. I dont get if he is so friendly with them because he wants to stay close to me? since he always hated being with them when we were together??? or if he just wants to have nothing to do with me and loves my relatives.

2007-03-10 13:41:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 13:41:12 · 6 answers · asked by Rich 3 in Singles & Dating

If a guy you have known for years & has always been so good to you & whether you were single or not always done everything he could to help you & show he cared while respecting when you were in a relationship & all that. If you knew he wasnt good at opening up or expressing his feelings to you & again you have been friends even intimate for like 13 years or so & one day you complaint to him about how soon it will only be you & your two children & how alone you are often feel & off track in your heart you have been for a long time. TO which he replies 'You always have me" & when you say "I love how you have always been so good to me why are you so good to me." & He says because I care & your my friend. What would you think?

2007-03-10 13:40:17 · 12 answers · asked by bpeter3196 5 in Singles & Dating

I am seperated, through this I have lost my old friends. I need to make new friends, just friends, male and female, no interest in relationships. I need a new interests and need to be able to go out and not feel its all couples. any suggestions?

2007-03-10 13:40:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We have a normal sex life for the most part, however when she gets her period and with the aid of a toy, she wears the pants and I dawn the panties just for those few days.

2007-03-10 13:39:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This girl I have been dating is a good girl and knows I'm a bad boy. She wants me to go to church with her and has been asking me to go since the beginning. She is VERY religious and God is important to her and she wants someone that shares her beliefs.

She also does not like the fact that I carry a gun or drink, etc.

If I don't change she won't pursue anything long term with me and is going out with me now because I told her I would go to church with her eventually. But I'm worried that if I do go to church she has tamed me enough to lose interest. The guns stay no matter what and I think she can deal with that but church is important to her so if I go will she lose interest because her bad boy is now partly a good boy?

2007-03-10 13:39:03 · 11 answers · asked by Jamal J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 13:38:46 · 7 answers · asked by Briann M 2 in Singles & Dating

If not, why?

If you would, what would you look for in your women?

2007-03-10 13:36:51 · 3 answers · asked by Deathbunny 5 in Singles & Dating

so, i like this guy (wow, thats not unusual).... neways, his birthday is coming up. i have never talked with him, yet he has been in my classes for the past 3 years. what should i say to him on his birthday? just a happy birthday or sumthing else? thanks!!

2007-03-10 13:36:36 · 10 answers · asked by book worm 5 in Singles & Dating

there's this guy i really like but he likes this other girl... i love wen im around him and he himself around me...however he likes this other girl who is "fake"..i think that he deserves sumone better but how cani tell him that i like him...im shy and i dont relli like telling ppl who i like..plzz help..thanx.

2007-03-10 13:36:33 · 8 answers · asked by FashionRocks 4 in Singles & Dating

I am man and I live in Toronto.

2007-03-10 13:35:37 · 10 answers · asked by Babak 1 in Marriage & Divorce

First time he was playing with matches. Second time he played with the real deal fire and my bed. Third time he started burn thing like paper and wooden pencil. The only thing my momma does is wope him.

2007-03-10 13:35:31 · 14 answers · asked by Kiarra K 1 in Family

well i really like this girl at school.(i am 12 and a boy).i want that girl to think i like her so she can ask so how am i supposed to do that???

2007-03-10 13:35:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this one guy and i have been getting extreemly close.
we really like eachother a lot,
and things are going great.

i want to get some action in our relationship though.
he knows that im the kind of girl that has serious relationships with guys.

im a pretty good kisser..
but he has never made out with a girl before.
how awkward is that?
he's an amazing guy..
but he just hasn't.

we both want to take our relationship to the next level..
but im just scared if he's a bad kisser its gonna turn me off.
i really like him though!

please help!

*ohh, and im 16, so dont think im too young*

2007-03-10 13:35:10 · 6 answers · asked by emmie n 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is hanging out with his friends , at one of their house to watch movies, and I worry he's not telling , me the truth, but we been going out for two years, and he never gave me a reason he might be cheating , and he's always honset with me, and he said he's sick of me thinking I think he's cheating on me, what can I do to get my mind off till he calls me , when he gets home, I rented some movies, to pass the time, but I worry, I called all my friend's and see if they want to do something , but they are all busy, please help, what can I do to take my mind off this and how to trust him? And please dont be rude.

2007-03-10 13:34:50 · 1 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Singles & Dating

I started a new job and this guy always flirts with me,but he mostly does it when his friends are around. This one day i went outside and he was in his car and said'do you wanna come for a ride'? and because i was working i didnt go. I dont know what to think,i really like him,help!?

2007-03-10 13:34:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 25 and have never been on a date or anything, not even close. I'm a minority race, but was born here, but I see people of my race and other races doing OK with their romance. Does this mean Americans don't like me and I should move away? Seriously, if I get even one 'yes' here, I'm gonna work hard to move away permanently.

2007-03-10 13:34:12 · 9 answers · asked by perfectlybaked 7 in Singles & Dating