What do I do???

Question

My boyfriend just broke up with me,after 2 years.Our relationship started off great,but we grew apart.Today I got off of work,went to see how he was doing because we haven't seen each other in a couple of weeks.For some reason I knew he was going to break up with me,because things haven't been so good.So we were talking about if we wanted to stay together or not.And then he said I don't want to be in this anymore.And this is not the first time he broke up with me,he did it once before.So,I said do you at least still want to be friends.And he said he didn't know,and then he said we shouldn't because things will just go back to how they used to be.So,I was like okay is that it,did you just break up with me and he said I guess.So I said ok I guess I'll see ya when I see.I left and took a long drive to clear my mind.He called my cell once,of course I didn't pick up.I still care for him,I have a lot to say to him.Should I tell him in a couple days or weeks, or just blow it off.Thanks alot!!

He just called me and I answered the phone. He said you're not mad at me are you, and I said of course I'm mad at you why wouldn't I be. He said he wants to be my friend just not right now. So I was thinking whatever. I told him I didn't want to talk about right now, said bye and hung up.

Answer 1

If he wants to break up with just respect his decision, even if you feel its a bad one. I would call him and let him know how you feel about the whole thing, if it's really over you should get everything off of your chest now. You don't want to think about the "what ifs" when its too late. And you also don't want to bring any extra baggage along with you if you meet someone else. Tell him everything don't hold back and if you guys stay apart then it wasn't meant and you should take this as a lesson learned. Hope this helps!

Answer 2

If this is the second time he broke up with you, i would let it go for sure. Blow him off. There is other fish in the sea. Dont trip. I know its hard girl, but you have to do it. At least for a while. Really act like you dont care and your not tripping. A man doesnt realize what he has until its gone. So make him really suffer w/his decision. Good luck girl. Be strong, trust me it will work out in the end. Stand your grounds.

Answer 3

I would take some time and think things over and also give him the same chance. You have been together for 2 years so you will still have contact if you really need it. Maybe a little break will be good for both of you.

Answer 4

That is a really hard one. I guess I would blow it off and let it go. I know you have feelings for him, but truthfully if someone told me that they werent even sure they wanted to be my friend after I shared 2 years of my time, my body and my heart, I wouldnt even want to try to be friends. Its now time to move on. If you tried doing this once before, and it didnt work, times up...ignore his calls. Even if he wanted you at this point, I think I would be too hurt and wouldnt want him back. I wish you luck...and look out for yourself.

Answer 5

Just stay away from him...he was probably calling to make sure you were okay, not to get back together. The two of you were probably just bad habits for each other so just leave it alone. You will be happier in the long run.

Answer 6

I think that you should let him be. Things are not going to get any better but worst. I know it hurts but your relationship is not going to be healthy. Just let him go. I know its hard but Your real man is out there. Dont let this get in the way of finding him.

Answer 7

just blow it off. after several torid love affairs, and college, you'll probably end up marrying each other anyway.

Answer 8

he prob called to say sorry call him and tell him you didnt pick up cus you needed to blow off steam then see wat he wanted
GOOD LUCK