I'm 25 and have never been on a date or anything, not even close. I'm a minority race, but was born here, but I see people of my race and other races doing OK with their romance. Does this mean Americans don't like me and I should move away? Seriously, if I get even one 'yes' here, I'm gonna work hard to move away permanently.
2007-03-10 13:34:12 · 9 answers · asked by perfectlybaked 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it has anything to do with you being a minority race. I think you do not have good social skills. You probably do not have the ability to feel at ease around women and you are very very shy. If you have a friend that is successful in the dating world, why don't you ask him to help you. Let him show you how to approach a girl, feel at ease with a girl, how to make a phone call for a date, how to dress, and what to say. If not, then there are many books on dating that will teach you how to have better social skills and alleviate your shyness. If you move away, your inability in the dating scene will follow you wherever you go, unless you help yourself. You can also go to a psychologist to see if he or she can help you rid yourself of your shyness. It is just a thought, but it may help you. Once you learn a little skills, go to a dance or a club and see if you can approach a girl without being so shy. Ask her to dance, smile, offer to buy her a drink and try to make some light conversation. If she likes you, ask for her phone number and then call her after a few days and see where it goes. Best of Luck
2007-03-10 13:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you so hard on yourself? Perhaps you are trying to criticize yourself before anyone else does? When you have that self-defeating attitude it puts people off and you deprive yourself of healthy relationships. Your race is not an issue; your attitude and your negative perception of yourself are the real problems you need to face and overcome. There are many people who would like you and appreciate the chance to get to know you once you remove the roadblocks you've set up for yourself. Instead of trying to move away from problems that are not real, stay and concentrate on improving your image of yourself and give people a chance to get to know you.
2007-03-10 21:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG no! Don't move because some lame *** racists tells you to! Your race has nothing to do with why you havent been on a date or anything like that. Babe, stay in the states and get a hot chick.
2007-03-10 21:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's the race or minority thing. It's more of a character problem. If you're too shy to socialize, it would be hard to get a date, no matter who you are.
2007-03-10 21:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by tamara_cyan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO that does not mean that at all! You should give Americans more of a chance because there arer a lot of good ones. Go places and meet new people and you will make a lot of new great relationships. Good Luck! :)
2007-03-10 21:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by *Mariah* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, i think it means that you're really introverted. it takes 2 to have a relationship. what are you doing about it? do you talk to strangers? try saying hello to every person that you pass by. i did that in hawaii and the reults were pretty interesting.
2007-03-10 21:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it doesn't!!!!! You're accepted, just have you tried asking anyone out.
If you wear glasses, change to contacts.
Brush your teeth, take a shower everyday and wear good clothes!!
Hope it helps and good luck!
2007-03-10 21:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by mebh 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if that controls where you live then have a nice trip. I here antartica is nice this time of the year. Polar bears aren't picky they will eat anything
2007-03-10 21:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes.
25 and you've never had a date there, that means you're not accepted or welcome.
2007-03-10 21:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋