My husband and I have been married for two years (been together for 3). We started out like every other couple. The beginning had all of the usual....sex, lust, love, cuddling, etc... However, for the past year, the sex has almost become totally absent! I have asked him if it is me, but he says "no". That's great, but at the same time offers nothing more and immediately changes the subject. Here are a few facts: (positive and negative)
1. He drinks 2-4 vodka drinks per night.
2. He works out in the gym daily.
3. He has many interests (obviously other than me)
4. He is a wonderful dad
5. We are "best friends" and get along GREAT in every aspect of the marriage, except this.
6. He likes to look at "adult pics" of women online
7. I am 90% positive he is NOT cheating.
So, there you have it.......my delima. I am a 38 year old female (he is also 38) and I am not ready to give up this part of my life. However, I am not willing to give up my family for the alternative either!
2007-03-09
07:50:44
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sxylilhalo
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Marriage & Divorce