How did you deal with it? Was it your first love?
2007-03-09 07:48:30 · 22 answers · asked by crazy_sad_songs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes - right now - Not dealing well
Trying to concentrate on my children
Counseling
My first real love - yes
2007-03-09 07:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by Confussedhere 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has at sometime in their life had a broken heart , sometimes I wonder if it is a broken heart or a broken pride. I know my husband who was abusive husband, woke me up one morning and told me I don't love you anymore, I have found someone that I'm in love with and I'm gone. I felt my heart drop to the floor , I started drinking everyday after work , I was so lonely and my aunt ask me to come move in with her family which I did. I lost so much weight, couldn't hold a coffee cup with one hand , my legs shook, my eyes would flutter,. I would go in a store and see any couple together I would leave because I felt I don't have that anymore. One night something woke me up out of a deep sleep and I laid there and thought why are doing this to yourself. That weekend I went with the girls I worked with my friends dancing and kept busy with my friends. He came back begging me to take him back you know what I looked at a man I didn't even know anymore. I wondered who are you I couldn't believe that I lived with this man all those years and he was a complete stranger to me. I laughed in his face and I've been happy ever sense . He died all by himself without anyone with him. Did I cry , I had no tears to shed, to me a stranger died . I now have a man that I love more than life itself and just to think all that heartache for nothing.
2007-03-09 08:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As in broken by lost love, plenty of times. As in broken by illness, once but I got a heart transplant.
Emotions are powerful aren't they? But guess what? They are temporary, whereas real death, the physical kind, is forever.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself, gather your resources and move on already.
2007-03-09 07:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by El Pajaro Loco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now and he was my first love, I am hurting so much inside, and I think that he is too, because he cried to me about how disappointed he was with us, but in our last conversation we just told each other how happy we were now, and that together we were miserable. I feel that it is just a front to hide the hurt that we both feel inside.
I am trying really hard to move on, even though he is still the last thing on my mind before I go to bed and the first thing when I wake up. Its getting better everyday, slowly... It takes time...
2007-03-09 08:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jasmina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first love broke my heart. I kind of felt like a stalker afterwards didn't deal with it too well. Had stomach problems until I learned to let go, then when I finally let go, he wanted me back and all I could do was feel sorry for him. So we stayed friends for a while, until he introduced me to my now husband whom was a friend of his and still is, we didn't know how to tell him that we were together, but til this day I still feel sorry for him, because he always tells my husband that he should've never let me go.
2007-03-09 08:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by inland102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought I did when I was dating but until I met my husband, I didn't even really know what love was. If I ever lost him, I would never stop crying and to me that is a broken heart.
2007-03-09 07:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Army Wife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My heart has been broken so many times I quit counting. It's always tough to get over the pain, just know you will. In the words of my best friend..."Nothing gets you over the last one faster than the next one!" Get out and start looking for your next ex.
2007-03-09 07:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by Alchemist 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Deal with it? With time of course!
First love? Yes and twice since then
2007-03-09 07:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and it was my first love he ripped out my heart and put it in the shredder, but it is true time is a great healer i got over it by having lots of great friends to take me out and keep me busy
2007-03-09 07:59:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart has been broken a few times and shattered once. But it's very resilient and my heart has found true love at last.
2007-03-09 07:51:26 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋