I am now divorced and it seems all men want it SEX - how is the dating game played today - do youlook for a sexually compatable partner before anything else? - Why do I find this is the only way my girlfriends have found boyfriends, being "easy" is the only attraction, am I old fashioned? What hints do you have for me to find someone?
2007-03-09 07:58:49 · 7 answers · asked by gudsport 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There isn't a real answer to this. Play the game the way you were taught to play. Every guy has different tactics. Every girl likes different things. There's no real method.
2007-03-09 08:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm old fashioned too. When I started dating again (internet dating sites), I was shocked at how the men in my age group (40+) only wanted to date with "benefits", but no committments. They are like little kids in a candy store. I did eventually find my current husband on Match.com. I stuck by my principles and values and perservered until I found a man with the same values. It just takes time to find the right one -but they are few and far between these days!! Good luck
2007-03-09 16:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I found someone thrity years older than me, who is still a gentleman, living together and all.
I wish I could say that anyone younger had been decent.
But someone who was twenty years older than me ten years ago was as respectful. I couldn't go through with it back then, but I can totally see the generation gap.
2007-03-09 16:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its faster nowadsy but to an extent.. try udate...for me its natural cuz Im a flirt.. think of horoscope compatability...some signs are bored with others and im not kidding..
2007-03-09 16:03:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the someone find you and when he does tell him you want to be courted.
2007-03-09 16:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by sweetladytease 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep looking ...there are some really good men out there...good luck
2007-03-09 16:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eharmony.com
Seriously. I met my fiance on there. We are perfect for each other.
2007-03-09 16:01:36 · answer #7 · answered by guyizzgay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋