My husband recently had a heart attack and we found out he had lung cancer.Not a suprise really seeing as how much he smokes .I am 24 going on 25 and my husband is 14 yrs older than me so sometimes i have trouble understanding him only been married 1.5 yrs.He wont allow me to be with him when the doctor is in the room and wont tell me whats going on other than what i already know.Its been a roller coster ever since he had the heart attack and was diagnosed with lung cancer.He has started to behave more and more like a teenager worse than his younger brother who is 26 yrs old currently he lives with us.I just found out i am pregnant i told my hubby and he seemed happy but went out clubing with his younger brother last night?I also currently am having to put up with his ex.wife and 16 yr old step daughter hating me because my hubby changed his will!
2007-03-09 07:52:07 · 4 answers · asked by Melrose G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know i should not be complaing to my hubby about anything but i am going crazy!
2007-03-09 07:57:16 · update #1
Your husband is a sick, terminally ill man. You need to mature like NOW. As for your husband "going clubbing" is that true? If it is, get a lawyer. If it is not, get a counselor and a lawyer. Ask yourself, do you really love him? It's hard to tell over the Internet. Legally, if you do, then start acting like it. Ignore his ex and respectfully ignore his daughter, who at 16 is probably hearing crap from her mom and is confused too. You don't want to be in the dog house sister. So play it nice by biting your tongue and supporting your husband genuinely.
2007-03-09 08:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by El Pajaro Loco 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Holy ****, no wonder he had a heart attack. Give the man some f'ing peace.
2007-03-09 16:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try writing him a letter then you dont have to holler
2007-03-09 16:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by April B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you feel yourself getting to loud, Take deep breaths until you are calm again.
Sorry to hear about your dilemma, Good luck!!!
2007-03-09 16:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋