Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

2007-03-09 08:30:39 · 5 answers · asked by Gregory Chad 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey, I'm 17(almost 18)...and my boyfriend is 18. He asked me to marry him June 23rd, 2006. And we've been engaged ever since. I consider him my best friend and we do have our own lives and not just each other to hold onto. But we're very much in love and have planned to not get married until I'm finished with college. And after we have lived with each other for a least a year.

Doesn't really matter to me, but I would like hear some opinions.

Thanks :-)

2007-03-09 08:30:27 · 20 answers · asked by Virginia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont really get alot of guys but i get em but idk....im not surev if my avatar shows so im hispanic,brunette, curly-ish but some times its straight and ppl say i got the good body-u kno parts.......?-_-

2007-03-09 08:29:52 · 24 answers · asked by ecuaadorianprincess001 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i always had a really great sex life. But in the past year we've had a baby, and we both started working full time. We hardley ever have sex anymore because he says he too tired. I feel like that maybe im not as attractive anymore too him, but he says thats not it. I mean i didn't let myself go by anymeans, but when you have a baby your body changes. Can other guys help me out? Have you ever had this problem?

2007-03-09 08:29:46 · 14 answers · asked by narzsenior 1 in Singles & Dating

Open for all genders

2007-03-09 08:28:47 · 21 answers · asked by Rashad 1 in Singles & Dating

Whats your screename?

2007-03-09 08:28:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

between a man and a woman? Man being the older.

2007-03-09 08:28:05 · 23 answers · asked by don 6 in Singles & Dating

im only 11 tho? He wanted to make out but i said no and he didnt try to convince me o anything but all his friends keep bothering me about it saying thats it means that i wont make out with him and he cant get them to stop

2007-03-09 08:27:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

now i just wanna be friends because im not ready for a relationship yet. im 13. but i love him. is that possible, and how can i become closer with this friend

2007-03-09 08:27:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what can I do for my boyfriend for his birthday, he is out of town and my brother is getting married in the virgin islands the week of his birthday. what is something special that I can do.
Mature people only !

2007-03-09 08:27:32 · 7 answers · asked by Jan l 2 in Singles & Dating

to ask him to prove his love for me..

because i want re-assurance of his love for me
should i ask?.. is it too needy? ..should he figure it out himself?

2007-03-09 08:27:24 · 6 answers · asked by answer! this 3 in Singles & Dating

Before I even begin typing I realize what the "right" thing to do is but I'm still compelled to seek out any other possible avenue to help me. I'm 25 years old and have been in a series of semi-serious of relationships and have been cheated on before, in all other circumstances prior to this I have always kicked the cheating man to the curb with little or no regret. My most recent relationship with a man I'll call Tom, was a whirlwind from the start. We met at a family function 4 years ago, (he is a very close friend of my extended family) and we had instant chemistry. The entire night we spent talking and cuddiling and literally staring into eachothers eyes. We kept in touch via phone/email for a little bit but due to the distance (he lived in Texas, I lived in Michigan) nothing came of it. I always kept him in the back of my mind because I'd never connected like that with anyone before but inevitibly because of the distance I moved on. Well circumstances with a job and wanting a change in general, I moved to Texas, still 8hrs away from where Tom lived. It so happens a month later he moved to the same city as I now live in and although I was determined to be careful with him (I forgot to mention, he had a reputation of a laides man, he's very charming but never commits)Well that situation didn't last long, we started out as friends with benefits but that lasted maybe 2 weeks and then HE initiated us being as much of a couple as he was capapble of, he couldn't call me a girlfriend because he had a rule about that title (weird I know) but he wanted to be with me and only me and vice versa. Because I had an inside track with friends and family I was told he'd never behaved this way with a girl before and everyone believed he'd finally met his match in me. Within a months time we moved in together and spent every hour that we weren't working together, happy. In the short time we were together (5 months) we went through some incredibly emotional situations together, including a death in my family and him reuniting with his dead-beat dad after 7yrs without contact. The trouble started when I became suspicious of his cell phone habits, he was getting text messages at odd hours and I followed my inuition and decided to check his cell. He did have messages from his Lead (supervisor) at work, she referred to him as her heart, and said that he had a nice *** and asked if he needed a massage, all in several different messages. I didn't get the opportunity to look at the outgoing messages. I confronted him and he assured me that it was absolutely nothing and it was one sided, he begged and cried, still I was too hurt to believe him and told him he had 2weeks to move out. Several days went by we didn't speak, he slept on the couch I was miserable but I was trying my best to at the very least keep some distance from him so that I could have a clear mind and evaluate the situation for what it was. We began to talk on a Saturday morning and we both decided that we were going to try to work things out, he was going to do whatever it took to prove to me this situation with the girl at work whatever it was would be but to an end. So Saturday evening he goes to a wedding with a cousin of mine and I go to the club with some girlfriends. The entire night, he texts me says he misses me, wants to be with me and wishes I were by his side. That evening I came home and we were both tipsy and we decided to share a bed and work things out in the morning. The next morning my cousin calls and tells me that they have to tell me something about Tom. Apparently while drunk at the wedding he began to talk about our situation and explained that I was stubborn and untrusting and here comes the worst part, the only woman he ever truly loved was his HS sweetheart Jane. He then on the car ride home drunk dialed Jane and said that although they couldn't be together now, because of timing and other circumstances maybe they could be together in the future. I'm not proud of my behavior after that, I literally kicked him out threw his belongings out the door and told him he was disrespectful and not the gentleman he claimed to be. He never even tried to explain himself he moved very slowly and didn't even look sad to me. After no contact for a week he calls at 4am on a saturday night 4xs in a row, I was asleep and had to catch a flight the next morning but finally I answered. He just said "hey" and he was very quiet. He asked where I was and how I was I explained I couldnt talk and he hesitantly let me go. I texted the next day and asked what he wanted, (trying to be strong) and he responded how are you? and I responded with "I asked a question" He said "forget it then." And that's that. I so much want to be with this man and deep inside I feel he is the one for me but I've been always taught once a cheater always a cheater and its hard for me to forget that. On top of that he has a GREAT deal of pride and I fear I may have blown my only shot at a reconciliation. I truly believe he reverted to his "player" ways because he fears committment and he felt like he was already potentially losing me. Is there anything I can do do get this man back, so that its a healthy relationship for both of us? Thank you for whomever read through the entire post. PLEASE HELP!

2007-03-09 08:26:40 · 3 answers · asked by Demi 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 08:26:35 · 3 answers · asked by zdk108 1 in Singles & Dating

You this good looking male, say at the gas station. THe man looks at you and makes it pretty obvious, you look back and smile then its all done. What is up with that? Why don't men say anything or do they just love to look?

2007-03-09 08:26:23 · 22 answers · asked by beaches 2 in Singles & Dating

My guy does a few things... No badly but just differently than I really like. When it comes to foreplay mostly.

How do you (gently) tell a man that instead of doing it that way.... You would like it this other way. Hopefully without brusing his ego.

Like I said it's not like he really doesn't know what he is doing but every woman is different. We like the same things, just done in different ways....Ya know?...

2007-03-09 08:25:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work with this guy and he's quite cocky. Normally he's quite foward with girls and he flirts with me a lot. I was just wondering that if he liked me, would he have asked me out all ready?? Help....im so confused!!

2007-03-09 08:24:57 · 10 answers · asked by Whisper 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 08:23:57 · 32 answers · asked by MRS. EDWARD FINEX 1 AND ONLY!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 08:23:46 · 6 answers · asked by jadie 1 in Weddings

me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. I have lived with him on and off for about 8 months now. He doesn't work his mom supports him. he has been married twice. Has three kids and one on the way. I am 6 months pregnant. I love this guy to death why i don't exactly know. I cook, clean, wash dishes, wash clothes fold and put them away. He doesn't do anything. He has cheated on me three times with his ex, who he is still in love with. Why can't he just love me and appreciate me??? What should I do???

2007-03-09 08:23:15 · 39 answers · asked by andrangel07 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-09 08:22:38 · 15 answers · asked by BobMyhre 1 in Singles & Dating

???

2007-03-09 08:22:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats up with yahoo labeling us....kinda feels like a piece of meat at the market!

2007-03-09 08:22:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just started going out with this boy 3 days ago, and his birthday is coming up in a couple days. i dont really know what to get him and whenever id ask him hed tell me not to worry about it and he didnt want me to get him anything.. etc.
i still want to get him something though, even if its something small.
i was thinking maybe baking him some cookies or cupcakes from scratch or something ?
help me out pleeease.

2007-03-09 08:21:39 · 7 answers · asked by Dani B 1 in Singles & Dating

I wanted to be called Samatha when I was young I loved that name, what name did you want?

I don't like it now!

2007-03-09 08:21:35 · 34 answers · asked by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 in Family

why is this. He used to talk to me all of the time,but now i get one week and then not another of him talking to me just about anything. If he does its about nothing sometimes. Then i see him talking to all of these other girls and its all the time without fail. He has told me about his friends and himself and i have seen him looking at me before and then he came over and spoke to me. He asks me questions,the conversation isn't always about him. he does treat me different to these other girls in some ways.Sometimes i get the feeling he can't look at me while he is talking and up close. He flirts with me and i flirt back. i've told him what i find attractive and he said "do you like them like that do you?"and then he went quiet the rest of the time. wats wrong with him?

2007-03-09 08:21:29 · 1 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

I know a few gals I'm interested in but don't know how to approach them.

2007-03-09 08:20:50 · 14 answers · asked by arsehole_adam 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 08:19:42 · 10 answers · asked by Spanky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for me to find a decent woman,or for a decent woman to find me! been out with a few nice women but it never quite works. what am i doing wrong?

2007-03-09 08:19:28 · 20 answers · asked by big burts bollox 2 in Singles & Dating

Ladies, have any of you been offered "special attention" or happy endings when you have received a massage? If so, what was offered and did you accept? Was your masseuse male or female?

2007-03-09 08:19:14 · 10 answers · asked by Kurt G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like u dont have anything in common anymore? my one best friend is married, has a daughter and loves a very "comfortable" lifestyle and now hangs out with people that also have the same lifetsyle, my other close friend is dating an older man that has PLENTY of money, meanwhile i work all the time have 2 kids and im engaged yet it seems like money seperates us cause i cant do anythign that they do cause im strapped for money, they have completely different problems that i cant relate to and they pretend to relate to mine. but i find myself just wanting to not be friends anymore just because of this and i hate that because we're still close but on a different level. i want to yell at them for not having to have to go through what i go through and complain about real issues instead of not having the best type of kitchen appliance and i dont want to be like that cause i love them but at the same time i cant enjoy myself with them anymore. should i go into hiding for awhile from them?

2007-03-09 08:18:41 · 12 answers · asked by toolate 3 in Friends