My guy does a few things... No badly but just differently than I really like. When it comes to foreplay mostly.
How do you (gently) tell a man that instead of doing it that way.... You would like it this other way. Hopefully without brusing his ego.
Like I said it's not like he really doesn't know what he is doing but every woman is different. We like the same things, just done in different ways....Ya know?...
2007-03-09 08:25:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh been there! Usually men like when you're straight up with them. Of course, I was too afraid to say anything to him (my case was- he was too soft...ex: sometimes a girl likes it rough!)...so I would say things like..."faster, harder" etc... or "ooh just like that, right there" and so on. For a while he was doing fine. But then we had to have the "talk" and now we mix it up and it's the best! 2 years and counting!!! Just be honest babe...and make sure you ask him if there is anything that you do that he would like diffirently. You guys should be fine!
2007-03-09 08:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tel him where eto put it how to put it and how much to put on it. Play little games in the bedroom and then come up with the ways that you want to be pleased and see how he takes to that. His ego shouldn't be hurt too bad becasue you will still be in the bedroom with him. Just come out and tell him I would really like it if you.......Then that will give him the chance to say I want it this way. It can work out for the both of you. If it comes down to it just get some XXX movies to give both of you some new ideas. Good luck
2007-03-09 16:57:31 · answer #2 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a true man doesn't care if a woman tells him what he likes all he thinks about is satisfying her. And some guys just don't get the concept that a woman tells him what to do. I for one if I am doing something a woman doesn't liek and wants something different all she has to do is tell me and I'll follow her direction without complaining or getting my ego hurt.
2007-03-09 16:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it while he's in the act. Have a conversation with him... ask him if he'd like to know how to really get you off! Tell him you'd like to know what really gets him off! If you make it a mutualy learning experience, it shouldn't be taken badly, it should open a lot of doors between the two of you!
2007-03-09 16:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by lisalikes70scheese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what feels good and tell him to do that again. If he doesn't it wrong, just say to him something like "oh i really like it when... (fill in the blanks)"
And if you are worried about hurting him.. ask him the same questions.. ask him what he likes.. that way you are both learning..
Good luck
2007-03-09 16:31:05 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that you love what he's doing but you'd love it even more if he did something else. After you give him some pointers, ask him if there's anything you can do differently.
2007-03-09 16:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him, but do it in a breathless excited way...You know...oh baby that feels great, but can you just shove it.... or lick my , whatever you want!!! Simple and straightforward
2007-03-09 16:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your really "into the moment" Just whisper things to him that you like. Like.....something like this:
I love you so much, hug me, kiss me, or what ever you want him to do...
â¥I hope i helpedâ¥
2007-03-09 16:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by jackiebrawdy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him.
2007-03-09 16:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by sweetladytease 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
guide his hands discretely
2007-03-09 16:30:03 · answer #10 · answered by mike Z 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋