Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

So I asked this guy out for a first date on Friday. I'm assuming that I pay for it because I'm the one who asked him out, Right?
But I've heard that regardless if a girl asks a guy out the guy should pay.

A year ago I offered to pay for something for my date and he made it a big deal and said that he would feel bad if I payed for something since Im a girl.

We're both 17 with jobs so its not as if one of use doesnt have money. I definately dont mind paying but I dont want things to be ackward and I dont want to offend him if he doesnt want me to pay.

I wanted to know what other people's opinions were on this. Why do some guys feel girls shouldnt pay and why do many people, especially girls who Ive spoken to, feel that the guy should always pay no matter what.

2007-03-05 08:18:55 · 19 answers · asked by Therapeutic Chain of Events 3 in Singles & Dating

I mean if your looking to get married you don't want to read about divorce. And if your asking about divorce you will just be rude to the happy engaged people out there. They should totally be separate. Right? Maybe its just b/c I'm asking about divorce and I don't want to read all the happy people talk about what color their flowers should be. **** THE FLOWERS! RIGHT?! Sorry. See what I'm talking about. Please anyone agree yes? no?

2007-03-05 08:18:53 · 2 answers · asked by Lovely Lady 27 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Meaning, if it last about 10-15 minutes and she gets off, is that good enough?

2007-03-05 08:17:47 · 14 answers · asked by jrnellie 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean, if i say that she doesnt look fat, she says that "Oh your just SAYING that" but if i say, ya you do look fat, she gets pissed. HELP!

2007-03-05 08:17:25 · 1 answers · asked by Nodnarb Renmarc 2 in Singles & Dating

how do i get a boy that i love to ask me out?(and he tells me that he loves me and i tell him that i love him back?)

2007-03-05 08:17:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a moral person, especially in this aspect. How does 40 partners by the age of 18 sound?

2007-03-05 08:17:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is not necessarily a question; more of a gripe. My daughter is 15 years old. During those 15 years, I have never collected a welfare check. I have always worked. I have also never collected steady child support from her father. He is $7000 in arrears. About a year ago, my employment ended to the store closing. I had the opportunity to go back to school to finish my social work degree. So, I am now receiving a TANF check while finishing my degree. About a week ago, her father was feeling gracious and put $100 on my case. However, I never received it. It went to the state since I am on public assistance. Despite him being in arrears and me never being on welfare, they still took that payment. What about all those years that I worked and paid taxes? It is just frustrating.

2007-03-05 08:16:39 · 7 answers · asked by tracirosscanton 2 in Family

tear it all apart in one single hit? Your heart, how does it hurt less?

2007-03-05 08:15:51 · 9 answers · asked by MICHAEL G 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 08:15:24 · 3 answers · asked by arianna l 1 in Singles & Dating

Any tips on getting married in West Virginia? I'm open to just about anything. I live in Morgantown. Please give me any advice at all (decorations, reception halls, flowers, photographs, etc).

2007-03-05 08:15:23 · 2 answers · asked by marie_fairfax 2 in Weddings

Im getting married June 9th. I have pale skin and would like a little color before then. When should I start tanning and how long do you go for? If you couldnt tell, I have never been in a tanning bed. I know that with my fair skin it isnt the best idea to tan anyways, so the least amount of tanning I can do would be good.

2007-03-05 08:15:14 · 21 answers · asked by slim27 3 in Weddings

She does not like me and everyone knows it, but for some reason my future-mother-in-law refuses to accept that fact. I don't want to disapoint her because I like her.

2007-03-05 08:15:12 · 14 answers · asked by zoed52 1 in Weddings

what do guys do when they like a girl? how do they flirt?

2007-03-05 08:15:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you call them they assume you like them even if it is concerning school.

2007-03-05 08:14:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i would love to marry once and spend the rest of my life with that person is it possible nowa days if so what does it take? i have great respect for people who are married for life.

2007-03-05 08:14:15 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my ex has my things....but they are in storage with his items until he moves back to the states. i haven't heard from him in 7 months. does that mean I won't get my things back? they were some pretty expensive stuff. can i take him to court?

2007-03-05 08:14:13 · 10 answers · asked by justuraverageperson 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay!....Me and my long-time girlfriend just purchase a house together and my mother wants to decorate the whole house, (by the way she has good taste), but my girlfriend wants to also decorate the house, but she doesnt have all that great of taste for decorating (by the way she decorated our condo) I really want her to feel the part of our house without hurting her feeling. So what to do?

2007-03-05 08:14:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-05 08:13:41 · 1 answers · asked by bbrzt 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 08:13:39 · 40 answers · asked by jenn k 2 in Singles & Dating

OK. so its going 2 be my girlfriend's and my 1 year anniversary. we are basically stuck in seperate cities. so im not going to be able 2 see her wich really hurts me. i want 2 know if theres any suggestions 2 wut can i get her? keep in mind i dont have much money. i want 2 send her something but i dont know exactly what? I have until the 13th of this month. Wut can i send her????

2007-03-05 08:13:17 · 10 answers · asked by spykz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

a guy friend shouted hi from a short distance and I make a small detour to walk over to him and talk while he stood there and waited up for me. Do I look desperate? I hav a crush on him and he suspects it already

2007-03-05 08:13:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf keeps telling me how he can't wait to marry me. He recently asked me for my ring size, so my question is how close do you think the proposal is? I overheard a friend of his saying it's probably soon, but how soon if he just asked my ring size? I'm nervous, and I'd like to be a little prepared.

2007-03-05 08:12:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-05 08:12:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-05 08:12:33 · 18 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Singles & Dating

How do you deal with getting hurt by someone who just told you they didn’t feel the same way… but just want to be friends with you? I know your suppose to move on. But how do you get yourself occupied.

2007-03-05 08:12:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you say the truth when you are drunk?? i told my husband i do not love and i am leaving him. when i was drunk...and i dont feel that way when i am sober i love himmmmmmmmm soo much so it kills me to know i said i didnt love him and was leaving? so whats the dael? i didnt mean it do you say the truth when your drunk?

2007-03-05 08:10:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 08:10:39 · 28 answers · asked by PRECIOUS 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 08:10:18 · 4 answers · asked by Lacy C 2 in Friends

Just curious and bored.

2007-03-05 08:10:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok she is my best friend and i like her we've known each other for like 7 years. i started liking her about the 3yr of knowing her and we went out but then split as a couple but are friendship got stronger and i kinda never stoped liking her. now iam a freshman in highschool and she is a sophmore. we flirt alot and she smiles at me alot. she also like to touch me for no reason and when we are alone we like touch each other( i slept over her house and we were watching a movie and we were on the same bed and i was rubbing her chest,stomach and arms). but iam not sure if this is just cuase we are friends or if sje likes me.BUT she also has a boyfriend. iam thinking that she is stuck between us becuase i asked her why she lets me touch her like i do if she has a boyfriend and she said she doesnt know and that iam the alone one who does besides her boyfriend. and sumtimes when her boyfriend his over her house and iam too she doesnt like hesitate to play around with me. plz help me thank you

2007-03-05 08:09:56 · 2 answers · asked by fernando p 1 in Singles & Dating