How do you deal with getting hurt by someone who just told you they didn’t feel the same way… but just want to be friends with you? I know your suppose to move on. But how do you get yourself occupied.
2007-03-05 08:12:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
har har.
2007-03-05 08:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by ihate c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...first of all...when someone dumps you unexpectedly, and says they only wanna be "friends"?...it's really just their nice cowardly wimpy way of not telling you to simply "get lost". Believe me...I know! I've just come from there...and I absolutely was the one who got dumped out with the trash. Hey?...rather then get pissy about it,...ask yourself another question though seriously. Do you really wanna be friends with someone who's just disrespected you intentionally and fully, and then coldly cast you out and told you they don't wanna be with you anymore? What would be the point in wanting to be with anyone that simply doesn't like you? I say "get busy at work and at play"....and do it right away. The longer you sit around stewing about this unrationally minded individual,...(and that's being kind) the more pitifull you're gonna feel. Who wants to feel pitifull seriously?......not me anyways! How about you now partner?.....how do you wanna feel today truthfully? Hmmm...!!! My point...exactly! Good luck to you my friend. Get busy forgetting people with little tactfulness, no integrity or character, and no personal intigrated respect for you. These are simply people who don't get life's little momentary situations anyways. How ya gonna fight city hall when it's filled with bright eyed blind people that come from the forest? You know about the forest people my friend,...don't you? Get better for yourself first, by not sitting still with idle winded disrespectful people,....and don't just sit back taking it either. The best revenge is to do nothing to them directly or significantly. Get busy becoming a better person within yourself and find a great life by being successful for yourself . It's the sweetest revenge when you pull by in your new jaguar and it's not directly intended to be painful. My advice?....stay out of close personal relationships for a bit right now. You need to be pleasing yourself. People sure can be cruel and insensitive sometimes my friend. Stand tall with your chin high and pressed out firmly. Don't take any crap from anyone...unless you deep down know that you deserve it. Be honest with yourself and get moving today. Tomorrow never comes otherwise. Go git it now....ya hear?
2007-03-05 16:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are other girls around you..you just have 2 notice them..it isn't the end of the world if they turn you down..belive me,i did this mistake and suffered a lot because there was no one 2 support me at that time when a girl said she didn't like me the way i did..kinda sad for a guy but after i learned my lesson i was more mature
2007-03-05 16:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by SuprA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll be ok after awhile... get some dates from people over the internet!
2007-03-05 16:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋