do you say the truth when you are drunk?? i told my husband i do not love and i am leaving him. when i was drunk...and i dont feel that way when i am sober i love himmmmmmmmm soo much so it kills me to know i said i didnt love him and was leaving? so whats the dael? i didnt mean it do you say the truth when your drunk?
2007-03-05 08:10:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry to say it but when your drunk you are not thinking clearly. You are emotional and irrational and therefore you could say something that you don't believe in your heart.
2007-03-05 08:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by Tony S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being drunk lowers your filter. So my question to yous were you mad at your husband at the time? See if you were mad at him you might have said it to be mean. (Something you normally would not do sober). If you were not mad at him then I don't know what the deal is. Maybe you should stop drinking, some people just become mean when they are drunk. Kind of like a drunk guy beating his girl. You are doing the same thing just verbally.
2007-03-05 16:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um... drunk people aren't honest as much as they speak their current state of mind. you may have said what you were thinking because of something he had said or done that annoyed you or angered you, could have been anything. You were drunk. If you love him sober then stay sober, or at least cut drinking back enough to not get drunk, it will make the relationship into what it can become.
2007-03-05 16:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by Immanuel Kant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say a lot of stupid stuff when they are drunk. A friend of mine tried to beat his wife when he was drunk once (mind you he is the sweetest guy ever).
Sit down with your husband and explain to him that you didn't mean it. Oh and also don't drink anymore.. otherwise you might do something worse next time
2007-03-05 16:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if you say the truth - you can certainly say things you regret though. I'd take it as a message that you can't handle alcohol too well, and avoid it in the future. If you love your husband, then that would be a great way to show it.
2007-03-05 16:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by lma0814 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just a mean drunk, Stop drinking or he is going to think you mean it, alcohol is a depressant a bad one at that,, makes your blood sugar way out of wack and you become diabetic until it stablizers from the liver,,
2007-03-05 16:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're still with him now then obviously not, because you're still with him. So if you love him when you're sober, and don't when you're drunk, then STOP DRINKING. Just an idea.
2007-03-05 16:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay maybe next time you might not want to drink as much. i would never say stop drinking that would be totally out of the question. just sit down and talk to him about what you said and that you didn't mean it.
2007-03-05 16:18:44 · answer #8 · answered by speed demon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drinking lessens your inhibitions allowing you to more openly express yourself. So it was at the least something that has crossed your mind.
2007-03-05 16:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol makes a person lose their inhibitions, you said things you really thought and wanted to say but were otherwise afraid to.
This is why stupid people do stupid things when they drink. You did it now you have to live with it. Welcome to Stupidville.
2007-03-05 16:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋