How can you tell when a boy is cheating on you behind your back with your friend?

Answer 1

Invite them both to dinner and cook it out of them.

Answer 2

The fact that this question comes up in your head is your first clue, simple intuition. Other bigger clues are change in your sex life habits, a noticeable change in his grooming, hes buying new/ different underwear, your emotional connection has shifted to a lesser one, your constantly arguing over trivial things, your friend call you less often and is different towards you. whenever shes around shes always bringing him up and you notice they act suspicious towards one another. Can you tell if there was ever chemistry between them. Are they both gone/lost at the same time, unable to be reached? Check his cell phone record.. has he been calling her? Do they both make up lame excuses as to where they were? If you have noticed more then 3 of these and are still suspicious, then ask. Although traditionally cheaters never admit until they are cornered. How about hiring cheaters( the TV show) if your suspicions are that strong. Good luck to you and I everything gets resolved favorably for you.

Answer 3

Well, usually, if you have to ask the question, is he cheating, you first have to figure out why you are asking the question in the first place. Does he have a good connection with her? Do they act flirty towards one another? Have you cheated & figure it's so easy for me to lie, he could be lying too? Do you have a friend you can't trust with your boyfriend? If so, why is she your friend in the first place? Do you have problems trusting just this guy, or have you always had problems trusting any boy? I don't know how old you are, but if you already don't trust him, either get out now, or believe he's not! You can never prove anything unless first they get caught red handed, or, you could just ask your friend, boyfriend, or both, but if you do, either way, you'll lose. You'll lose a friend for the question, a boyfriend for the question, or you could lose your boyfriend to your friend, since you noticed a connection they might not have even considered yet.

I say, you just lie in the wait, and see what happens. It could all just be your mind playing tricks on itself. Jealousy is not good for you, or anyone it could effect!

Good luck!

Answer 4

You can tell when a boy is cheating on you behind your back with your friend when the boy is not talking to you (especially about things that relate to your friend).

Answer 5

I think if he's changed and if he seems more and more distant and always looking for a fight. Same with your friend. If she seems more distant and always trying to bring up your bf in the conversation, or if she's just acting funky around him, you should be able to tell. Go with your gut feeling. 99% of the time, it's right anyway. If you are suspicious or have any doubts about wether he's faithful or not, he's most likeley not! The only thing is to find out who he's not being faithful with! Good Luck...

Answer 6

Go out with them at the same time and see how they act. Or follow one of them and see, I guess there is no sure way without spying or just relying on your senses.

Answer 7

Ask them or catch them they will slip up because what you do in the dark always comes to light.

Answer 8

keep a close eye on them and spend as much time that you can with both of them seperatly though

Answer 9

don know
if he dresses in pretty boy clothes

go visit the doc

Answer 10

He will become distant and show no affection towards you and change his habits from what your use too.lol