Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

so i have a suspicion my boyfriend will go to a strip club with the guys tonight. he went riding (motorcycles) today and they usually get back late anyway. BUT... see he just called me and tells me he's out having dinner w/the guys and will be home late. it just so happens it's one of the guys' birthday. the same guy who is always inviting my man to the strip club. now, "the guys" (aka older brother and his best friend) are older and have been married for years, they also tend to go to these places. so, my intuition tells me it's a done deal. i could be wrong i mean he promised me he wouldn't go if it bothered me that much... it does but i know it's part of typical guy "activities". i'm not going to freak out about it... but how do i not let this bug me?

2007-03-05 15:56:27 · 6 answers · asked by ..:: Liz ::.. 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-05 15:56:07 · 4 answers · asked by Harley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I love each other very much. Well, this weekend, when she wanted to go the the 3rd base, she was biting hard and my groin hurts like hell. Ow, I'm not sure if I will ever let a girl touch me down there anymore. We are both 25, What would you do if you were me? I didn't even want to talk to her at all anymore.

2007-03-05 15:56:03 · 11 answers · asked by Daft Punker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I love each other very much. Well, this weekend, when she wanted to go the the 3rd base, she was biting hard and my groin hurts like hell. Ow, I'm not sure if I will ever let a girl touch me down there anymore. We are both 25, What would you do if you were me? I didn't even want to talk to her at all anymore.

2007-03-05 15:55:34 · 1 answers · asked by Daft Punker 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a girl ive never been on one so what do we do? talk? hold hands? (eeeewwww) does the guy pay for stuff? should we see a movie? what if i can only watch pg? when a guy asks you if you want to go out does he really mean actually go somewhere? if i like him do i just say yes? what if i dont like him? how should i let him know? aghhhhh! im so stupid! help me out here people!!

2007-03-05 15:55:31 · 7 answers · asked by Michael S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 15:55:07 · 4 answers · asked by nikal 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in a dilemma. Basically in freshmen and part of sophmore year I was really fat so u can obviously understand, I got no girls lol. Then I basically slimmed down ALOT and I had a girl 4 a little while but it wasnt really anything or very long at all. So I've been gf-less 4 a long while. I have a girl best friend that I've been friends with since 4th grade. We're so close that I dont see her any different than my guy friends. We've fooled around b4 but then stopped. She told me she's bi and in a relationship with a girl. My friends tell me that I should just go out with her but I cant and I promised her I wouldnt tell any1 about her secret. I'm not physically attracted 2 her and she's not attracted 2 me. In the past year, I havent met 1 girl (in my league) that I'm attracted 2 or even showed an interest towards me. I'm just confused as 2 what I should do. HS relationships mean nothing 2 me other than having ur 1st time (or multiple) and maybe 1st love. Y do people see it as more?

2007-03-05 15:54:53 · 6 answers · asked by John 2 in Singles & Dating

how can i find out my family history with out asking my great grand parents? i need to find out because im making a family thing for my kids so when they get older i can tell them sbout the past and who we are related too. please does anyone know how to get this information.

2007-03-05 15:54:35 · 1 answers · asked by god's child 2 in Family

We go to college together and we started talking online. Then later he asked if i wanted to text him and i gave him my number and we started texting alot. Now, we have been talking for a couple weeks and everything seems okay. However, he said he was going to sit next to me in class when he texted me but he didnt. So I think he is kind of shy and i wanna make it easier for us to talk in person. How can I make the first move?

2007-03-05 15:54:29 · 5 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 15:54:21 · 11 answers · asked by lindaminato 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so this guy asked me out and i said yes then he left and tomorrow morning i dont know what i should say to him. now i have had a boyfriend before but i was too chicken to talk to him and thats why he broke up with me. i know this guy has had a girlfriend before so i dont want him breaking up with me cuz im too nervous to talk to him. so what should i say?
thanks in advance!!

2007-03-05 15:54:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I talked to a gal on net and we have been chatting/mailing extensively.We mail each other everyday (at least 1 mail) wechat also, but she dont call me on my mobile & just delay saying that she ll call when she gets chance to go to STD PCO etc........she says she dont have mobile and no landline ....I dont even know if she is actually a gal or some guy playing with me. Plz people tell me what to do ? Should I say that either call me within 2-3 days or get lost or what ?

2007-03-05 15:53:23 · 14 answers · asked by Thinker 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex -boyfriend called me a few months ago and asked me to go see a movie with him. I had not seen him in ONE YEAR. We dated for a short while then HE ended it. I said yes, he picked me up and after the movie he drove me home. While we were driving home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me he said he wants "to see me every once in awhile". By the way, we never had sex while dating cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage, so don't say this was a bootycall. Then he went on a trip. When he came back I sadi hi to me twice on msn. I won't say hi to him anymore until he does. Also, during this year, even though HE ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn. Is he ignoring me, was this movoe date just for his own closure? WHY would he do this to me, why did he wanna hangout after one year then ignore me now? He's 26 while I'm 21.

2007-03-05 15:53:11 · 5 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

about a week ago in school something happened and my 3 best friends all got in trouble 4 it....and yesterday i found out that one of them is moving and that my other 2 best friends are both going 2 be sent 2 the catholic school about a half hour away from here because there parents dont want them going 2 public school anymore. they are really the only friends i have (im really shy and its hard 4 me 2 make friends) other then 2 boys that i barely ever hang out with. i know there is nothing i can do about my friend moving and the other 2 going 2 a different school but is there anything i can do 2 make it easier 4 me 2 make new friends??

2007-03-05 15:52:05 · 7 answers · asked by the idiot down the road 4 in Friends

2007-03-05 15:51:56 · 18 answers · asked by chris216 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 15:51:16 · 16 answers · asked by . 2 in Singles & Dating

If u know ur male friends or boyfriend liked ur feet, do or would u tease them or him, with ur feet and how?

2007-03-05 15:51:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am in 11th grade and have been asked out by five girls since eighth grade. It is not that there is anything wrong with them, but i am a little self concious(sp?) about my weight. Also i have hyperhydrosis, which is severe sweating from the hands, underarms,etc. I would not have said not to two of them if i did not have these problems. But alot of people think i am a jerk, and some think i am gay. i'm not.

2007-03-05 15:49:55 · 8 answers · asked by champianary 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 15:49:40 · 4 answers · asked by . 2 in Singles & Dating

I know its long but i really need your help so please bare with me here
Ok so i met this amazing guy and we went on our first date together we had a really good time we kissed and did a little more than that not much more but a little more and he told me he loved me and would never hurt or break up with me, things were great we just spent the whole night talking and kissing in the park, he was so sweet and caring and i really liked him, as we parted that night/morning things were great but then a couple of days later i got a message from a mutual 'friend' that i met through my friends once before and she goes to his school well anyways she told me that he had another girlfriend at tafe, i was devestated i wanted to hear it from him but i couldnt face calling him so i texted him and got no reply for two days then i got another message from our mutal 'friend' that she had a message from him for me that its over i was so depressed (even suicidal) i figured he just used me and was only out for one thing but now a week and a half later i get a message from him.

saying that he never broke it off with me and he has no other girlfriend, i dont know what to believe, he cant give me a reason why she would make that up so i dont know if i an believe him, he said he couldnt get back to me sooner because he had no credit but i just dont see why someone could be so cruel making that up for no reason, i dont know what to believe, i dont know what to do.I really really like this guy but i cant be hurt again i wont survive it but i dont wanna give something great up over a missunderstanding, please what should i do.Should i throw it away and wonder what could have been but also potentially save myself from a liar whos using me or should i trust him and forgive and forget.I dont know what to do, please help!

2007-03-05 15:49:35 · 6 answers · asked by lily paige 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dated a guy 6 years ago, we started dating when i was 13 and it lasted for 2 years but we were both young and he moved to live with him mom and we made it work for awhile but then we broke up 4 years ago and I started dating another guy that lasted about 3 1/2 years, we lived together for a year but the whole time I knew my heart belonged to the other guy. We have talked on and off and hung out on occasion. Last time we talked he told me how no girl compares to me, etc, but then one day he called me in the morning and said he'd call me that night and I haven't heard from him since. that was 6 months ago. He had an out of state phone # and was getting ready to get a different service (cell phone) so I don't know his number anymore and have no way of getting it. My heart still belongs to him but I have no way of talking to him, & don't know if he'd even want to talk to me, I don't know if him and his gf he had the last time we talked are still together or anything. What should I do???

2007-03-05 15:49:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i have been abroad and sometimes i miss my family so much that i decide to return back home. Even i like to stay alone when i am with my family then why it happens to me.

2007-03-05 15:49:10 · 3 answers · asked by maki" The time begins Now 5 in Family

i cant seem to decide to grow my hair longer or to cut it short, thanx.

2007-03-05 15:48:53 · 8 answers · asked by Gonzo 2 in Singles & Dating

One of my friends I have a crush on. We talk often and hang but for some reasons I sometimes make her all shy. I feel pretty bad because I think I might be scaring her.

2007-03-05 15:48:41 · 13 answers · asked by redorridin 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex -boyfriend called me a few months ago and asked me to go see a movie with him. I had not seen him in ONE YEAR. We dated for a short while then HE ended it. I said yes, he picked me up and after the movie he drove me home. While we were driving home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me he said he wants "to see me every once in awhile". By the way, we never had sex while dating cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage, so don't say this was a bootycall. Then he went on a trip. When he came back I sadi hi to me twice on msn. I won't say hi to him anymore until he does. Also, during this year, even though HE ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn. Is he ignoring me, was this movoe date just for his own closure? WHY would he do this to me, why did he wanna hangout after one year then ignore me now? He's 26 while I'm 21.

2007-03-05 15:48:35 · 12 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing (ok - sex!) this guy for 8 mths. Everything is good between us - the 'arrangement' suits us both...anyway (& don't go telling me I am too young blah blah blah - I am 31 he is 34)- all I ask that you don't judge me and maybe even this question will get dumped BUT...I want to know....why all of a sudden (the last few times we have had sex) is he 'pulling out' to 'come'? He is going all the way..then reaching for a towel or ..anything to...ejaculate in to?...Why would he be doing this? Is it me? Is it over? Does he get off on it? Any advice from guys would be really appreciated although I think my question will be deleted off here....... many thanks!

2007-03-05 15:48:16 · 2 answers · asked by babyblues_752001 3 in Singles & Dating

Think that they can do something, but we do the same thing it's a crime

2007-03-05 15:48:08 · 3 answers · asked by Lady 2 in Singles & Dating

they hate me know,they were not speaking with me.i know they are hurt help me and tell me wat sshould i do to get them back.life is like hell with out my friends.i used to shout on them if they do any thin wrong.and i thought they are my best friends but they did not thought like that they were saying that i played double game with them.i dont know wat i did in my past.but am sure enough i wil not do that in future. pls help me.

2007-03-05 15:48:02 · 1 answers · asked by vizith k 1 in Friends

he doesn't treat me right. he doesn't appreciate me. i can't leave him.

how many girls been in the same situation?

2007-03-05 15:47:16 · 17 answers · asked by s89 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you tell if someone likes you? Ok I like my neighbor and I don't have any clue if he likes me I used to like his friend and I don't know if I am doing this to get closer to him or if I just like his friend! But anyway my friend that lives acros the street from me likes him to!!! And every time I walk over there He talks to me!! and I think He likes me but I'm not shure!!! and I really like him!

But I don't want to hurt y friends feelings either and he's so nice to me!! So Help and please don't tell me to get over him because I REALLY like him!!!!

2007-03-05 15:46:59 · 2 answers · asked by kelly 2 in Singles & Dating