so i have a suspicion my boyfriend will go to a strip club with the guys tonight. he went riding (motorcycles) today and they usually get back late anyway. BUT... see he just called me and tells me he's out having dinner w/the guys and will be home late. it just so happens it's one of the guys' birthday. the same guy who is always inviting my man to the strip club. now, "the guys" (aka older brother and his best friend) are older and have been married for years, they also tend to go to these places. so, my intuition tells me it's a done deal. i could be wrong i mean he promised me he wouldn't go if it bothered me that much... it does but i know it's part of typical guy "activities". i'm not going to freak out about it... but how do i not let this bug me?
2007-03-05 15:56:27 · 6 answers · asked by ..:: Liz ::.. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i trust my man. i'm not questioning if he'd cheat on me. i'm just saying it sux butt. i wan't to be ok in the head for tonight... haha. he's a good guy. and i wish he wouldn't go (if that's even the case).
2007-03-05 16:14:44 · update #1
He sounds like he is to me. But TRUST me i am an exotic dancer and the guys that come in there are just $ signs we dont want any of them. It is just a place of employnment. He needs to be truthful though
2007-03-05 16:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by hardcore 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he goes after saying he wouldn't then he's lying....and you'd have reason to freak out. If the dude wants to cut loose and enjoy an evening at the strip club with his boys, then that is fine, but he should be upfront BEFORE he goes. Even if your request doesn't hold much water, honesty is the best policy. Sit him down tomorrow and have a heart to heart....this isn't a big enough situation to let get out of control.
2007-03-05 16:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I thoroughly accept as true with you hun, i've got even asked a matching question on right here as quickly as and in simple terms don't understand the way some women are literally satisfied for his or her adult men to bypass to strip golf equipment and look at bare women that at the instant are not their substantial different! i understand countless women and adult men say that's "insecure" to sense this way, yet think of in the journey that your boyfriend knew you have been going to a male strip club, could he sense the comparable way? i think of that's disgusting!
2016-10-02 11:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are pigs and I want you to know that he is doing what you suspect my my girl it will bug you forever this is just the beginning once they start going to these kind of club's it becomes an addiction after all it is something they don't get at home sorry but that is the truth
2007-03-05 16:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by Alice S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look Liz...........I have been married for going on 9yrs this Aug.
If I have said it once I will say it a millions times my only advice is trust....
You have to trust him, if you love him....I know that is scary, being completely venerable to someone, but if this is a for real love and not just a puppy love...trust him....be mature....spend sometime alone pamper yourself. Take a long bath and wait for him in the bed nude...OK so you get my point...if he went to a strip club he came home to you....so who cares.......TRUST HIM IF YOU LOVE HIM
2007-03-05 16:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the producer of the Show "Cheaters". :D
2007-03-05 16:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋