One of my friends I have a crush on. We talk often and hang but for some reasons I sometimes make her all shy. I feel pretty bad because I think I might be scaring her.
2007-03-05 15:48:41 · 13 answers · asked by redorridin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nest time you are together ask her and tell her to relax and make her feel at ease and you will be appreciated by her more and i think more or less the reason that he is nervous and shy and uncomfortable in you presence is because she like you, so be nice and make her feel comfortable and frienly. don't be intimidating, we all should be nice and sweet with all girls, women and ladies all the times of our life.
2007-03-05 15:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you are scaring her then you probably are. The simplest answer to similar questions like this is to put yourself in the others person shoes and as yourself how would you feel if somebody said the same things to you. I mean, is ok to make a person blush every now and then if is all in fun but to scare them?! not a good policy.
2007-03-05 23:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not being mean to her or trying to push her around then it is not your fault some people are just really shy.. When you see she is starting to be shy ask her why that is and take it from there
2007-03-05 23:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plain and simple, yes. either she is shy naturally or you are doing something. next time you notice she is shying away from you try maybe not sitting so close, see if she relaxes any. if not simply ask, is there anything i can do to make you feel better, i notice i seem to be bothering you i dont want to so if its me would you tell me what i can change?
2007-03-05 23:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by supratuner9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has a crush too, and is not in control of her feelings, she just doesn't know how you feel. It's time to tell her exactly how you feel. NOW.
2007-03-05 23:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by sashali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to reassure her. the best thing to do is ask her out if you like her. if you don't want to date her then be nice but not flirty and that will relieve some pressure from her. we all have a tendency to flirt with people we know like us.
2007-03-05 23:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all girls like a little intimidation. i think it makes them want u more. she is probably shy because she likes u too. trust me no one likes a softie. u have to show her that u are intimidating and confident and then she'll like u more
2007-03-05 23:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by ace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! unless you're looking for a mate that will be scared of you instead of respect you, and that will NEVER last long
2007-03-05 23:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by WHATEVER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have kinda the same problem. i like this girl a lot but she doesnt know but shes my good friend and sorta quiet. but you know you should just let it flow you know and like the occasional hug or arm-around-shoulder should give her hints; or like if youre confident ask her out.
2007-03-05 23:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
intimidation can become negative and turn harmful.but it seems you don't mean any harm. try to let her know you're not trying to intimidate or shun her :)
2007-03-05 23:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋