My girlfriend and I love each other very much. Well, this weekend, when she wanted to go the the 3rd base, she was biting hard and my groin hurts like hell. Ow, I'm not sure if I will ever let a girl touch me down there anymore. We are both 25, What would you do if you were me? I didn't even want to talk to her at all anymore.
2007-03-05 15:56:03 · 11 answers · asked by Daft Punker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you should just tell her you aren't interested in that type of foreplay. most people do try such things to see if it is a pleasure to the other. when it turns out not to be, you have to be honest and let them know. its simply a way of trying new things to see what you like doing together as a couple. its to bad this has ruined your relationship with her. if you can get 'that" close you should be close enough to discuss these things.
2007-03-05 16:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your biggest error here is saying that you don't want to talk to her anymore. The ONLY way to resolve this uncomfortable (literally and figuratively) situation is to COMMUNICATE! You probably feel this would be embarrassing to talk about in person, and I don't blame you, so instead of having a face-to-face or even phone chat about it, send her an email. You'll be able to share your thoughts/concerns a lot more easily without the embarrassment and pressure of talking to her in person. AND it will most likely be less embarrassing for HER this way too. After all, maybe she thought she was doing something "cool" because some other guy liked it. Or maybe she has no idea WHAT she's doing, in which case you have all the more reason to help her understand what works and what doesn't.
So, all in all, if you have strong feelings for this girl, and she has strong feelings for you (and it sounds like you do), then you really have to be HONEST with each other, about the good and the bad. Please don't let what might be a big misunderstanding come between you two, if you really are in love as much as you say. :) At least write her an email, so you can bring the topic out into the open. If something's wrong in a relationship, and one or both people simply "sweep it under the rug," it will not get better. And it will likely get worse. I know this from experience. *sigh*
2007-03-05 15:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell this is an awkward situation, but you can make it better. There really isn't an instruction manual for girls on how to do that type of thing. You only know how to do it from experience. It should be a very nice thing for you, so what I would do if I were you is give her some advice. Keep talking to her, don't just give up on her! Next time, when shes going down, just simply say, "don't bite so hard." Tell her what you like, thats the only way she'll know! If you stick with it, it'll turn out great. Don't be too pushy telling her what shes doing wrong, just every so often give a tip on how to make it better. Good luck!
2007-03-05 16:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by Leselina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was she doing, going after it like a dog with a chew toy? You have to talk to her about this and tell her it was great but use a deft touch next time. Lighten up a bit, or don't bite that mofo, just suck on it!
2007-03-05 16:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her this is UNACCEPTABLE!... P.S did you make her mad during the day? That could be why! so if ya tell her ya dont like it... and tell her she is gonna have to build some trust up again with that... you will get over it eventually...(didnt ya stop her when it started hurting??) if you guys really love each other that much then just tell HER! she will respect you or get rid of her!!
hope this helps :) lolololol
2007-03-05 16:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by ~ღHoneyBearღ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. She did that so that you would think she cant do it right, there fore you would never ask her to do it
2. She really doesnt know what she is doing so, you can take the time to teach her...or you can live with out that extra lovin!
2007-03-05 15:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she sux at giving head. Tell her what to do. If you don't want to talk to her anymore, you probably don't love her as much as you think.
2007-03-05 15:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by Kuminatano 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just discovered that you dont love your girlfriend, and youre just in it for the sex, and since sex was not great, its time to say goodbye, good you know now that youre not in love, now confess to your girl and set her free, she deserves better
2007-03-05 15:59:19 · answer #8 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for what ever reason maybe she is mad at you . thats just something you will have to discuss with her. or just don't do that anymore.
2007-03-05 16:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMFAO!!!! if it hurts...say something. i have been known to be a little rough...say ow when it hurts. she won't be offended. she'll get it right.
2007-03-05 15:58:51 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋