i am a girl ive never been on one so what do we do? talk? hold hands? (eeeewwww) does the guy pay for stuff? should we see a movie? what if i can only watch pg? when a guy asks you if you want to go out does he really mean actually go somewhere? if i like him do i just say yes? what if i dont like him? how should i let him know? aghhhhh! im so stupid! help me out here people!!
2007-03-05 15:55:31 · 7 answers · asked by Michael S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, never say you're stupid just because you don't know something. If a guy asks you out and you don't like him, be polite and say no, you'd rather not. It sounds like you really need to find a guy with Christian values...and believe it or not, there are some around.
Different guys have different ideas about what a date is supposed to be. Before you answer yes or no, you might want to ask what he has in mind. And what's wrong with PG or even G? I like Disney, it's great entertainment!
A date can be to go bowling, skating or outdoor stuff when it's nice. You can be a friend on a date, that's what usually starts the best kind of relationship. And you might not like this next idea, but you might consider asking your mom...remember, she was in your shoes not that long ago and I bet she would be happy you asked her... Of course I don't know your situation, but I know others that do that in Christian families. If you want more ideas, you can send me an email.
2007-03-05 16:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by Keep it Simple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
if you still think it's gross to hold hands, I wouldn't suggest dating.
i'm christian too, and I have no problem with making out...
to answer all your questions:
1. yes, if he's a gentleman he'll insist that you let him pay. that's what my boyfriend does.
2. movies are fun, but if you're afraid to makeout or even hold hands.... probably not a good idea.
3. pg is ok for dates, especially if it's a comedy. pg-13 are usually the best date movies though.
4. yes, when a guy asks you out, he generally wants to GO OUT.
5. if you like him... CHYEAH, say yes.
6. if you don't like him, just tell him. "sorry, but i just don't like you like that." don't lead him on if you're not interested.
2007-03-05 16:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by amy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um..how old are you?
b/c obviously you are EXTREMELY inexperienced with this.
one: holding hands is not "eeewww". it's cute.
two: a lot of the time people go watch movies..and i'm sure you can watch pg-13.
three: yes, he actually means go somewhere. he's not gonna ask you out and then take you to eat lunch at the cafeteria in school. you go out on a friday night or a saturday night.
four: if you don't like him, just tell him. say "sorry, but i don't like you like that."
it's pretty simple.
2007-03-05 16:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by just wondering.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you think holding hands is gross you're too young to be dating??? If a guys asks you out, ask him what he had in mind. If you like him, say yes. If you make it out, offer to pay for yours, but if he says he'll get it, let him. Maybe suggest you get the popcorn (if a movie). Just try not to be too nervous (eaier said than done). Just be cute and casual. Talk enough but not too much.
2007-03-05 16:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reguardless of the type of guy, whether it's perverted scumbag, or intelligent type, proverbs 23 looks good on a girl. have some self-respect, keep up with the morals, if this guy is genuinely interested and worth your time, he'll work at and cope with being with you, and the limitations. Establish the higher ground, guys like a girl who is in charge!
2007-03-05 16:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by Mark B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok the following the the perfect steps to take: a million) relax and clean ur ideas 2) flow in for the kiss with ur lips parted fairly 3) enable him lead and start up off 4) even as his tongue receives into ur mouth flow ur tongue to fulfill his and persist with what he does 5) have interesting! reliable luck! and need i helped!! once u get more suitable experienced u can placed ur hand on the again of his head to save him kissing u and run ur hands threw his hair. which will make him flow wild!!!
2016-12-05 07:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahah, ok dont hate me for saying this..but my advice 2 you sweetheart is 2 stay home .
2007-03-05 15:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋