I have been seeing (ok - sex!) this guy for 8 mths. Everything is good between us - the 'arrangement' suits us both...anyway (& don't go telling me I am too young blah blah blah - I am 31 he is 34)- all I ask that you don't judge me and maybe even this question will get dumped BUT...I want to know....why all of a sudden (the last few times we have had sex) is he 'pulling out' to 'come'? He is going all the way..then reaching for a towel or ..anything to...ejaculate in to?...Why would he be doing this? Is it me? Is it over? Does he get off on it? Any advice from guys would be really appreciated although I think my question will be deleted off here....... many thanks!
2007-03-05 15:48:16 · 2 answers · asked by babyblues_752001 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
..and its a hard thing to bring up in conversation...I can't REALLY ask him ......
2007-03-05 15:57:52 · update #1
Already on oral contraceptive & he has known that for a LOOONNG time! NOW WHAT??
2007-03-06 08:47:47 · update #2
Maybe he does not want a kid right now and instead of using birth control he is doing that, and it's exciting.
2007-03-05 17:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by Hilary P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Logical and obvious but that's the way we are ,he probably doesn't want you pregnant(forced commitment,tied down financially),tell him you are thinking of going on the pill (for some other reason ) and judge the reaction.
2007-03-06 06:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by Goanna Dundee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋